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In the Car
Barenaked Ladies Lyrics


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She fed me strawberries
And freezer-burned ice cream
I said "Goodbye, I guess"
She lifted up her dress
And so I must confess
We made out one more
Time before I left for good
She thought I'd come back but I
Wouldn't want to seem like other guys

A book-and-record love
We sat and read our books
Between those longing looks
Compounded by our fear
My tongue inside her ear
My tongue inside her
In the basement of her mother's
House where we once taped the
First three sides of "Sandanista!" for my car

We were looking for ourselves
And found each other
In the car
It was rare to do much more
Than simply mess around
In the car
It was mostly mutual masturbation
And though we spoke of penetration
I'd have to wait for someone else to try it out

Once I had this dream
Where I slept with her mom
Unless I've got this wrong, a secret all along
Unless she hears this song
Unless she hears it
On a tape inside her car
With her new husband and she
Turns to him and says, "I think that's me"

In the car
We were looking for ourselves
And found each other
In the car
We were groping for excuses
Not to be alone anymore
In the car
We were waiting for our lives
To start their endings

In the car
We were never making love
We were never making love
We were never making love

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Barenaked Ladies' song "In the Car" can be seen as a nostalgic ode to the experiences of adolescence and young love. The song tells a story of two young lovers who explore their sexuality and each other's bodies in the privacy of a car. The lyrics create a vivid picture of the physical intimacy between the couple, as they engage in mutual masturbation and make out. The song touches on themes such as fear, longing, and the excitement of exploring sexuality. The lines "We were groping for excuses/Not to be alone anymore" illustrate how the couple was searching for ways to escape their loneliness and find meaning in their lives.


The song has a dream-like quality to it, as the lyrics present a series of disjointed and fragmented memories. The line "We were looking for ourselves/And found each other" captures the idea of two young people searching for their identities and finding solace in each other. The lyrics also suggest that the memory of this experience is something that lingers with the singer long after it has ended, as seen in the final verse where he dreams of sleeping with his former lover's mother.


Overall, "In the Car" is a sincere and poignant portrayal of the experiences of young love, exploring themes of intimacy, desire, and the search for meaning in life.


Line by Line Meaning

She fed me strawberries
She was trying to be romantic with me by feeding me strawberries.


And freezer-burned ice cream
Unfortunately, the ice cream had been ruined by freezer burn.


I said "Goodbye, I guess"
I had to say goodbye, even though I wasn't sure if it was really goodbye.


She lifted up her dress
As I was leaving, she lifted up her dress to reveal herself to me.


And so I must confess
I have to admit that I kissed her one more time before leaving for good.


We made out one more
We kissed passionately one last time.


Time before I left for good
It was the last time we would ever be together before I left for good.


She thought I'd come back but I
She was expecting me to come back, but I knew I had to move on.


Wouldn't want to seem like other guys
I didn't want to be like other guys and lead her on if I knew I wouldn't be coming back.


A book-and-record love
Our love was based on books and music.


We sat and read our books
We enjoyed spending time together by reading our books.


Between those longing looks
While we were reading, we would occasionally look at each other with yearning.


Compounded by our fear
Our love was complicated by our fear of what might happen.


My tongue inside her ear
We were intimate with each other, including me putting my tongue in her ear.


My tongue inside her
We were intimate with each other in multiple ways.


In the basement of her mother's
We spent time together in the basement of her mother's house.


House where we once taped the
We taped the first three sides of the album "Sandanista!" there.


First three sides of "Sandanista!" for my car
We taped those sides of the album for the purpose of playing it in my car.


We were looking for ourselves
Both of us were still figuring out who we were and what we wanted to be.


And found each other
Despite our own uncertainties, we discovered each other through our mutual affection.


It was rare to do much more
We didn't do too much more than mess around with each other in the car.


Than simply mess around
We were playful and affectionate with each other, but we weren't very serious.


In the car
Our romantic encounters primarily took place in a car.


It was mostly mutual masturbation
Our sexual encounters were primarily focused on pleasuring ourselves separately.


And though we spoke of penetration
We talked about having intercourse but never acted on it together.


I'd have to wait for someone else to try it out
If I wanted to try it, I would have to be with someone else.


Once I had this dream
I had a dream that I slept with her mother.


Where I slept with her mom
In the dream, I had a sexual encounter with her mother.


Unless I've got this wrong, a secret all along
Unless my memory is mistaken, this dream has been a secret between me and my partner.


Unless she hears this song
This song might bring the truth into the open.


Unless she hears it
If she listens to this song, she will learn about the secret from the dream.


On a tape inside her car
This song might be on a tape that she keeps in her car.


With her new husband and she
She might be listening to this song with her new husband.


Turns to him and says, "I think that's me"
She recognizes that this song is about her and is surprised to hear it.


We were groping for excuses
We were trying to find reasons why we could spend more time together.


Not to be alone anymore
We didn't want to be lonely, so we turned to each other for comfort and companionship.


We were waiting for our lives
We were both feeling stuck and uninspired in life.


To start their endings
We were eager to move on to a new chapter of our lives.


We were never making love
Our romantic and sexual encounters were not very serious.


We were never making love
Our intimacy was not making us any more fulfilled as people.


We were never making love
Our attempts at love-making were not leading us to fulfillment or happiness together.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Steven Page

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