Mother Of The Bride
Billy Bragg Lyrics


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The Reverend Mother went and got me a drink
She came back and said to me "Well what do you think?"
I said "I've made myself a fool
For the prettiest girl in school"
How can I deal with this hurt I feel inside?
I tell it to the mother of the bride
I put on my suit and smile for the big day
But I couldn't watch as her dad gave her away
And as they solemnly said "You'll do"
Her mother said "That should have been you"
At the mercy of the moon
The boy who spoke too soon
She married him and destroyed all my hopes
Of a two-up, two-down, two point five
And a dish on the roof for the soaps
I saw them at the hardware store
He looked boring she looked bored




It's nice to know that someone was on my side
Best wishes to the mother of the bride

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Billy Bragg's song "Mother of the Bride" tell a story of unrequited love and the pain that comes with it. The singer has feelings for the "prettiest girl in school" and makes himself look foolish in front of her. He turns to the mother of the bride to deal with his hurt feelings. He puts on a suit and tries to smile at the wedding, but he can't bear to watch as the girl he likes is given away to someone else. Even the mother of the bride empathizes with his situation. The singer sees the happy couple later on and realizes how different their life is from the one he had imagined for her, with a two-up, two-down house and a dish on the roof for the soaps.


The song speaks to the universal experience of unrequited love and the pain that comes with it. It also touches on themes of regret and missed opportunities. The singer feels like he spoke too soon and missed his chance to be with the girl he liked. Despite the pain, the song ends on a somewhat positive note with the singer offering "best wishes to the mother of the bride." This line suggests that despite the rejection, he still wishes the best for the woman he cares about and respects her and her mother.


Line by Line Meaning

The Reverend Mother went and got me a drink
The Reverend Mother offered me a drink


She came back and said to me "Well what do you think?"
She asked me for my opinion


I said "I've made myself a fool For the prettiest girl in school"
I regret falling in love with a girl who doesn't love me back


How can I deal with this hurt I feel inside?
I am struggling to cope with the pain of rejection


I tell it to the mother of the bride
I confide my feelings to the mother of the girl who got married


I put on my suit and smile for the big day
I dressed up and pretended to be happy for her wedding day


But I couldn't watch as her dad gave her away
It was too difficult for me to witness her being given away by her father


And as they solemnly said "You'll do" Her mother said "That should have been you"
During the ceremony, the mother expressed that the guy should have been the one marrying her daughter


At the mercy of the moon The boy who spoke too soon
The guy was foolish for confessing his love too soon and his fate was determined by the lunar cycle


She married him and destroyed all my hopes Of a two-up, two-down, two point five And a dish on the roof for the soaps
She shattered the guy's dreams of starting a family with her and having a normal life


I saw them at the hardware store He looked boring she looked bored
The guy saw the couple at the hardware store and realized that they were unhappy together


It's nice to know that someone was on my side Best wishes to the mother of the bride
The guy appreciates the support he received from the mother and wished her well




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: BILLY BRAGG

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Comments from YouTube:

John Barry

One of those Albums that you just play all the way through!!!!!

beatlemaniacforever

Thanks for this! Always loved Billy myself. Such a great guy!

Plaintiff's Ex

Love this track. And the fact previous comments said it best makes me even happier! Go go Billy!

Margaret Welsby

totally brilliant track... could play it all day...nice to hear a happy song in gloom times xxx

Sean Eric Anderson

So lovely, with just the right ratio of melancholy. Bliss.

andy d

Love Billy's songs.They're all so well written and well played.Sexuality has to be my favourite.Top bloke!

Telstar

as they solemnly said "you'll do"
her mother said "that should've been you"

KnoxTN Yankee

Think of old girlfriends I heard got married 😕