Can't We Be Friends
Bing Crosby Lyrics


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I thought I'd found the man of my dreams
Now it seems this is how the story ends
He's gonna turn me down and say
Can't we be friends?

I thought for once it couldn't go wrong
Not for long, I can see the way this ends
He's gonna turn me down and say
Can't we be friends?

Never again, through with love, through with men
They play the game without shame, and who's to blame?

I thought I'd found a man I could trust
What a bust, this is how the story ends
He's gonna turn me down and say
Can't we be friends?

Why should I care?
Though he gave me the air
Why should I cry, heave a sigh and wonder why?

I should have seen the signal to stop
What a flop, this is how the story ends




I'll let him turn me down and say
Can't we be friends?

Overall Meaning

In Bing Crosby's song "Can't We Be Friends," the lyrics take us through the rollercoaster of emotions that come with unrequited love. The song starts with the singer expressing her initial excitement and hope that she has found "the man of [her] dreams." However, her sentiments of optimism quickly disappear as the listener realizes that her love interest is not reciprocating her feelings. The chorus of the song highlights the frustration and hurt that comes with being rejected: "He's gonna turn me down and say/ Can't we be friends?"


As the song progresses, the singer becomes more jaded and disillusioned with love, claiming that she is "through with love, through with men" and blaming the game of love for this disappointment. She reflects on how she was fooled into believing that she had finally found someone she could trust, only to be let down once again. Despite her frustration and anger, the singer ultimately resigns herself to the fact that the man she loves will never feel the same way and decides to settle for a friendship instead of a romantic relationship.


The lyrics of "Can't We Be Friends" draw attention to the complexities of unrequited love and the hope, heartbreak, and eventual acceptance that often accompany it.


Line by Line Meaning

I thought I'd found the man of my dreams
I believed that he was the one for me.


Now it seems this is how the story ends
It appears that our story together is coming to a close.


He's gonna turn me down and say
He is going to reject me and use these words to do so.


Can't we be friends?
Why can't we have a platonic relationship?


I thought for once it couldn't go wrong
I had confidence that everything would work out.


Not for long, I can see the way this ends
However, it has become clear that things are not going in a positive direction.


Never again, through with love, through with men
I don't want to be with anyone romantically again.


They play the game without shame, and who's to blame?
Men often take advantage of women and it's difficult to know who to hold responsible.


I thought I'd found a man I could trust
I thought I had finally found someone reliable and honest.


What a bust, this is how the story ends
However, this turned out to be a disaster and our relationship is ending in disappointment.


Why should I care?
I shouldn't be upset about it.


Though he gave me the air
Even though he rejected me,


Why should I cry, heave a sigh and wonder why?
I have no reason to cry or be confused about what happened.


I should have seen the signal to stop
I should have recognized the warning signs and stopped before things got worse.


What a flop, this is how the story ends
Unfortunately, things turned out poorly in the end.


I'll let him turn me down and say
I will allow him to reject me with these words.


Can't we be friends?
Can we remain friends without any romantic involvement?




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: KAY SWIFT, PAUL JAMES

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Comments from YouTube:

patthecatman

the first recording bing made that had his name on the recording as principal performer n 1929. bing wasnt quite ready to hit it big; not until 1931

85scampi

Bing just as I like him. Excellent record.

bennygoodman1000

For this song , Bing is the best . Thank you.

Chas Mal

Right in the feels

roybo1930

I bought this Record with a bunch of GREAT Bing Crosby Brunswick 78`s, Though it`s a Columbia, it fits right in! "Gay Love" on the flip!

sqaat

 Matty Malneck - violin, Roy Bargy - piano, Eddie Lang - guitar

Kay Biskerow

Bing Crosby (voc), Charles Margulis (tr), Chester (Chet) Hazlett (cl), Roy Bargy (pno), Matty Malneck (vln), no guitar present. All the info is on jazzdiscography-dot-com.

VICTOR BALIT

1929, but on the other hand, I don't know which orchestra: doesn't sound like Paul Whiteman's.

Eugene Teo

Date: 9/27/29
Location: Union Square, New York, NY
Label: COLUMBIA (US)
INSTRUMENTAL GROUP
Bing Crosby (voc), Charles Margulis (tr), Chester (Chet) Hazlett (cl), Roy Bargy (pno), Matty Malneck (vln)

a. W149066-3 Can't We Be Friends?(Paul James, Kay Swift) - 2:59
PROPER RECORDS (UK) CDP1233 — BING CROSBY: IT'S EASY TO REMEMBER (The Rhythm Boy) (2001)
NAXOS (UK) CD8120697 — THE EARLIEST BING CROSBY Vol 2 Rhythm King 1927 - 1931 (2003)
b. W149067-3 Gay Love(Sidney Clare, Oscar Levant) - 3:06

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