Shop Around
Bobby Vee Lyrics


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When I became of age my mother called me to her side,
She said,"Son, you're growing up now pretty soon you'll take a bride.
And then she said, "Just because you've become a young man now,
There's still somethings that you don't understand now,
Before you ask some girl for her hand now
Keep your freedom for as long as you can now."

My mama told me, "You better shop around, (shop, shop)
Oh yeah, you better shop around." (shop, shop around)

Ah, there's somethings that I want you to know now.
Just as sure as the winds gonna blow now
The women come and the women gonna go now
Before you tell em that you love em so now.

My mama told me, "You better shop around, (shop, shop)
Oh yeah, you better shop around." (shop, shop around)

A-try to get yourself a bargain son.
Don't be sold on the very first one.
A-pretty girls come a dime a dozen,
A-try to find one who's gonna give you true lovin'

Before you take a girl and say I do, now,
Make sure she's in love with-a you now.
My mama told me, "You better shop around."

Ooh yeah, a-try to get yourself a bargain son.
Don't be sold on the very first one.
A-pretty girls come a dime a dozen,
A-try to find one who's gonna give you true lovin'.

Before you take a girl and say I do, now,
Make sure she's in love with-a you now.
Make sure that her love is true now.
I hate to see you feelin' sad and blue now."

My mama told me, "You better shop around (shop, shop)
Don't let the first one get you
Oh no cause I don't want to see her with you
Before you let her hold you tight, ah yeah make sure shes alright




Before you let her take your hand my son
Understand my son, be a man my son I know you can I love you"

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Bobby Vee's "Shop Around" can be seen as a wise advice from a mother to her son as he grows up and starts navigating relationships with women. The mother acknowledges her son's coming of age and impending journey towards finding a life partner, but also reminds him that there are things he may not yet fully comprehend. She emphasizes the importance of maintaining one's freedom and not rushing into commitments before fully understanding what they entail.


The repeated refrain of "You better shop around" serves as a metaphor for exploring and evaluating different options before settling down with someone. The mother warns her son not to be hasty in his choices and to take the time to find the right person who will offer him genuine love and affection. She advises him to be cautious and not be swayed by the first person who shows interest, as pretty girls may be plentiful but finding one who will provide true love is what truly matters.


The mother's advice is practical and rooted in a desire to see her son happy and fulfilled in his relationships. She encourages him to seek a partner who reciprocates his feelings and is genuinely in love with him, rather than settling for someone who may not have his best interests at heart. The song stresses the importance of making informed decisions in matters of the heart and not rushing into commitments that may lead to heartache and regret.


In the final verse, the mother lovingly reiterates her advice to her son, emphasizing the importance of ensuring his chosen partner's love is genuine and true. She expresses her care for him and her desire to see him avoid any pain or sadness in his relationships. The overall message of the song is one of caution, self-preservation, and the need to be discerning in matters of love and commitment, all delivered through the timeless wisdom of a mother guiding her son on his journey towards finding love.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Berry Gordy Jr, William Robinson Jr.

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