Current lineup:
Henry Cox – lead vocals
Mike Cunniff – lead guitar
Ash Wilson – rhythm guitar, backing vocals
Dan Cunniff – bass, backing vocals
Jordan Pugh – drums
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Forget Me Not
Boston Manor Lyrics
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Will you still live here and will you still be the same?
I know it makes you cry when you think about death
But I'll hold your hand, so don't be scared
It started off slow, you forgot where you put things
And by the summer nothing else was distinct
I know it makes you cry when you think about death
I'm trying to remember
Forgot the date of your birthday
But I suppose it doesn't matter, you won't remember anyway
I'm trying to remember the fucking date of your birthday
But I suppose it doesn't matter, you won't remember anyway
When I caught my hand in the kitchen drawer
(When you bandaged it and you gave me more)
Of the things I love but wouldn't ask for
(I still picture you by the bathroom door)
And the walks we took because I adore
(All the things you say and the way you talk)
I just hope you're happy where you are
I'm trying to remember
Forgot the date of your birthday
But I suppose it doesn't matter, you won't remember anyway
I'm trying to remember the fucking date of your birthday
But I suppose it doesn't matter, you won't remember anyway
Boston Manor's "Forget Me Not" is a poignant song about the memory loss and eventual passing of a loved one. The lyrics express the fear of being forgotten as time passes and the question of whether the person being addressed will remember the singer's name, and if they will remain the same. The fear of death is also addressed, with the acknowledgement that thinking about it can be upsetting, but the singer promises to support and reassure their loved one.
As the song progresses, it becomes clear that the person being addressed is experiencing memory loss; they forget where things are and eventually forget the singer's birthday. Despite this, the singer still holds onto hope that their loved one is happy wherever they are. The imagery of the kitchen drawer and bathroom door and the walks they took together shows the intimacy and depth of their relationship. There is a bittersweet quality to the song, with the singer trying to hold onto memories and reconcile their fear of being forgotten with the eventual acceptance of the inevitability of loss.
The song itself features atmospheric instrumentation that is both melancholic and hauntingly beautiful. The vocals are emotive and raw, adding to the overall emotional impact of the lyrics. "Forget Me Not" was released as a single in 2018 and is included in Boston Manor's album Welcome to the Neighbourhood.
Line by Line Meaning
Another year on, will you remember my name?
Will you still think of me after another year has gone by?
Will you still live here and will you still be the same?
Will you still be in this place and have the same characteristics?
I know it makes you cry when you think about death
I understand that the thought of dying upsets you
But I'll hold your hand, so don't be scared
I'll be there for you, so don't be afraid
It started off slow, you forgot where you put things
Your memory declined slowly at first, and you started to forget where you placed things
And by the summer nothing else was distinct
By the time summer arrived, not much else was clear either
I'm trying to remember
I'm struggling to recall
Forgot the date of your birthday
I can't seem to remember the day you were born
But I suppose it doesn't matter, you won't remember anyway
But I guess it's not too important since you won't remember it either
When I caught my hand in the kitchen drawer
I hurt my hand by accidentally closing it in the drawer
(When you bandaged it and you gave me more)
(You helped me dress the wound and gave me care and kindness)
Of the things I love but wouldn't ask for
Of the things that I cherish but wouldn't dare to request
(I still picture you by the bathroom door)
(I still have a vivid image of you standing by the bathroom entrance)
And the walks we took because I adore
The walks we went on because I cherish spending time with you
(All the things you say and the way you talk)
(I appreciate everything you say and the way you communicate)
I just hope you're happy where you are
I sincerely want you to be content with your current situation
Contributed by Alice B. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
@indrasixx
[Verse 1]
Another year on, will you remember my name?
Will you still live here and will you still be the same?
I know it makes you cry when you think about death
But I'll hold your hand, so don't be scared
[Verse 2]
It started off slow, you forgot where you put things
And by the summer, nothing else was distinct
I know it makes you cry when you think about death
But I'll hold your hand, so don't be scared
[Chorus]
I'm trying to remember
Forgot the date of your birthday
But I suppose it doesn't matter
You won't remember anyway
I'm trying to remember
The fucking date of your birthday
But I suppose it doesn't matter
You won't remember anyway
[Bridge]
When I caught my hand in the kitchen draw
You bandaged it and you gave me more
Of the things I love but would't ask for
(I still picture you by the bathroom door)
And the walks we took because I adore
(All the things you say and the way you talk)
I just hope you're happy where you are
[Chorus]
I'm trying to remember
Forgot the date of your birthday
But I suppose it doesn't matter
You won't remember anyway
I'm trying to remember
The fucking date of your birthday
But I suppose it doesn't matter
You won't remember anyway
@shaaright
This song gives me chills. This is what it's like to live with a loved one going through dementia. It's so difficult and sometimes it feels pointless, like an endless struggle. Memory loss is so hard to deal with. Thank you guys for such a heartfelt song.
@Ephremjlm1
These lyrics are so deep that it pained me to read them. But I love it.
@sauh5sau635
I literally cried with this song's lyrics, and it's the first time that this happened to me.
@MDGolfaddict
These guys are the biz. Mainstream success must surely beckon if there any justice
@paddiecorley1108
This song is on a different level, damn boys you did good
@aimeescoones648
Lyrics:
Another year on will you remember my name? Will you still live here & will you still be the same? I know it makes you cry when you think about death. But I'll hold your hand, so don't be scared. It started off slow, you forgot where you put things & by the summer, nothing else was distinct. I know it makes you cry when you think about death. But I'll hold your hand, so don't be scared. & I'm trying to remember. Forgot the date of your birthday. But I suppose it doesn't matter, you won't remember anyway. & I'm trying to remember. The fucking date of your birthday. But I suppose it doesn't matter, you won't remember anyway. When I caught my hand in the kitchen door, & you bandaged it & you gave me more, of the things I love but wouldn't ask for, I still picture you by the bathroom door, & the walks we took because I adore, all the things you say & the way you talk. I just hope your happy where you are. \Chorus.
@storminmormn6283
Pure Noise Records has some great bands!
@sanctionedtaco2109
Probably because the creative freedom!! These guys are the Asylum Records of Pop punk, hardcore punk, post-hardcore, alt rock!!
@mr.waffles8739
Man these songs make me feel like I'm not the only one to make mistakes and maybe I'm not such a horrible person
@rawwwrVal3moOh
holy shit the lyrics made me cry so hard