Dear John
Cyndi Lauper Lyrics


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Dear John
What's wrong?
Why can't you just be anything you want? Why not?
Why not? I tried to tell you then.
You didn't understand.
They try and pigeonhole you.
Buddy, they don't even know you.
But hang on my dear, dear, John.
Maybe you're not just like everyone, so what, so what.
And there's more to live for,
Than some abbreviated encore, much more, much more.
You can't define yourself in terms of someone else.
You can't say what you're thinking?
But I don't know what you've been drinking.
But don't cry. 'Cause life goes on.
Dear John, you could be anything you want. Why not?




Why not?
Why you could even be an astronaut, dear John, dear John.

Overall Meaning

The song Dear John by Cyndi Lauper is a message of hope to a person named John who feels like he doesn't fit in or is being judged by others. The lyrics express the frustration and confusion of someone trying to understand why John can't just embrace his unique qualities and be happy with who he is. The line "I tried to tell you then, you didn't understand" suggests that the singer has tried to motivate and comfort John previously but to no avail.


As the lyrics continue, we can see that the singer is trying to convince John that it's okay to be different and not conform to societal standards. The line "They try and pigeonhole you. Buddy, they don't even know you" implies that people are trying to label John and fit him into a predetermined box, without even taking the time to get to know who he really is. However, the singer encourages John to hang on and keep going because there's more to life than just fitting in.


The chorus of the song repeats the line "Dear John, you could be anything you want. Why not?" several times, emphasizing the message that John has the power to define himself and find happiness in his authentic self. The final line, "you could even be an astronaut, dear John, dear John" is a nod to the endless possibilities that could come his way if he opens himself up to new experiences.


Overall, Dear John is a powerful and emotional song that encourages listeners to embrace their individuality and not conform to societal pressures.


Line by Line Meaning

Dear John
Addressing someone named John


What's wrong?
Asking what is bothering John


Why can't you just be anything you want? Why not?
Encouraging John to pursue his dreams and questioning any perceived limitations


I tried to tell you then.
Explaining that the artist tried to encourage John before


You didn't understand.
Pointing out that John did not respond positively to the earlier encouragement


They try and pigeonhole you.
Noting that others try to categorize John in a narrow way


Buddy, they don't even know you.
Reassuring John that others' opinions are not all-encompassing


But hang on my dear, dear, John.
Encouraging John to persevere despite any struggles


Maybe you're not just like everyone, so what, so what.
Acknowledging that John may be unique, but that is not a negative thing


And there's more to live for,
Reminding John that there is much in life to enjoy and appreciate


Than some abbreviated encore, much more, much more.
Suggesting that there is more to life than just a short and unremarkable performance


You can't define yourself in terms of someone else.
Asserting that John should not base his sense of self on anyone else's opinions


You can't say what you're thinking?
Asking if John feels like he cannot express himself


But I don't know what you've been drinking.
Expressing uncertainty about John's behavior or thought process


But don't cry. 'Cause life goes on.
Offering comfort and suggesting that things will get better


Dear John, you could be anything you want. Why not?
Encouraging John to embrace his potential and pursue his dreams


Why you could even be an astronaut, dear John, dear John.
Offering an example of a lofty goal to emphasize the wide range of possibilities available to John




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Rob Hyman, Eric Bazilian, Cyndi Lauper, Eric M Bazilian

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And think of you
Caught up in circles
Confusion is nothing new
Flashback, warm nights
Almost left behind
Suitcases of memories
Time after

Sometimes you picture me
I'm walking too far ahead
You're calling to me, I can't hear
What you've said
Then you say, go slow
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Time after time
If you fall I will catch you, I'll be waiting
Time after time

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Time after time
If you fall I will catch you, I will be waiting
Time after time

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Turned to gray
I’m watching through windows
And you're wondering if I'm okay
Secrets stolen from deep inside
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If you're lost you can look and you will find me
Time after time
If you fall I will catch you, I'll be waiting
Time after time

If you're lost you can look and you will find me
Time after time
If you fall I will catch you, I'll be waiting
Time after time

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Time after time
If you fall I will catch you, I know that I will be waiting

Time after time
Time after time
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Time after time
Time after time
Time after time
Time after time……..

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