A Guy Ia a Guy
Doris Day Lyrics


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I walked down the street like a good girl should
He followed me down the street like I knew he would
Because a guy is a guy wherever he may be
So listen and I'll tell you what this fella did to me

I walked to my house like a good girl should
He followed me to my house like I knew he would
Because a guy is a guy wherever he may be
So listen while I tell you what this fella did to me

I never saw the boy before
So nothin' could be sillier
At closer range his face was strange
But his manner was familiar

So I walked up the stairs like a good girl should
He followed me up the stairs like I knew he would
Because a guy is a guy wherever he may be
So listen and I'll tell you what this fella did to me

I stepped to my door like a good girl should
He stopped at my door like I knew he would
Because a guy is a guy wherever he may be
So listen while I tell you what this fella did to me

He asked me for a good night kiss
I said, it's still good day
I would have told him more except
His lips got in the way

So I talked to my ma like a good girl should
And ma talked to pa like I knew she would
And they all agreed on a married life for me
The guy is my guy wherever he may be

So I walked down the aisle like a good girl should
He followed me down the aisle like I knew he would
Because a guy is a guy wherever he may be
And now you've heard the story of what someone did to me





And that's what he did to me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics in the song “A Guy Is a Guy” by Doris Day are playful and light-hearted as they convey the message that men will be men and women can expect certain behaviors from them regardless of where they are or who they are with. The first verse sets the scene of a girl walking down the street and being followed by a guy as she anticipates his actions. The repetition of the line “Because a guy is a guy wherever he may be,” emphasizes the idea that men are predictable creatures.


The second verse continues the story as they both make their way to the girl’s house. The girl remarks that the guy is a stranger to her, but there is something familiar about his mannerisms that she can’t quite place. In the third verse, they both end up climbing the stairs to the girl’s apartment, and the guy stops at her door. He asks for a goodnight kiss, but the girl tells him it’s still good day, indicating she is not interested. However, the guy’s lips get in the way, emphasizing the persistence of men.


The final verse jumps ahead to the girl in discussion with her parents, who all agree that the guy is a good match for her. The song ends with the girl walking down the aisle and the guy following her, reinforcing the idea that they are both playing out their expected roles. Overall, the lyrics suggest that men’s behaviors are predictable, and women are expected to follow a certain path, whether they want to or not.


Line by Line Meaning

I walked down the street like a good girl should
I behaved myself properly while walking down the street


He followed me down the street like I knew he would
A man followed me as I walked down the street and I expected him to do so


Because a guy is a guy wherever he may be
Men behave the same no matter where they are


So listen and I'll tell you what this fella did to me
I will recount my encounter with this man


I walked to my house like a good girl should
I conducted myself respectfully while walking to my home


He followed me to my house like I knew he would
He followed me all the way to my home, as I anticipated


I never saw the boy before
I had never seen this young man before


So nothin' could be sillier
Thus, it would be silly to pursue him


At closer range his face was strange
Upon closer inspection, I realized his face was unfamiliar to me


But his manner was familiar
However, his behavior was similar to other men I had encountered before


So I walked up the stairs like a good girl should
I proceeded up the stairs with decorum and propriety


He followed me up the stairs like I knew he would
As expected, he followed me up the stairs to my dwelling


He stopped at my door like I knew he would
He accompanied me all the way to my door and stopped there


He asked me for a good night kiss
The man requested a kiss goodnight


I said, it's still good day
I rebuffed his request, pointing out that it was still daytime


I would have told him more except
I would have explained further, but


His lips got in the way
He cut me off by attempting to kiss me, preventing me from saying anything else


So I talked to my ma like a good girl should
I behaved respectably and told my mother what had occurred


And ma talked to pa like I knew she would
My mother then relayed the incident to my father


And they all agreed on a married life for me
My parents decided that I should marry this man


The guy is my guy wherever he may be
This man is now mine, no matter where he goes


So I walked down the aisle like a good girl should
I proceeded down the aisle with appropriate behavior


He followed me down the aisle like I knew he would
He accompanied me down the aisle, as I anticipated he would


And now you've heard the story of what someone did to me
And that is what this man did to me




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Written by: OSCAR BRAND

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@cliffhammond474

@@forest_green I don't know where you were then, but certainly not where I was.
It was commonplace to go downtown AT NIGHT and alone and not feel in danger. The parks were full of kids playing and families enjoying themselves. The drive home in the "rush hour" on regular streets at 30 MPH was a little longer _ there might be 7 or 8 cars at each traffic light. People actually drove at or under the speed limit! And most unbelievable - were courteous!

School kids were clean and courteous, neatly dressed and clean, walked, rode bikes or took a city bus or streetcar to school and never felt in danger.

And never heard of a drive by shooting.

Movies were under 25 cents for kids, and parents did not fear what they were seeing.

Streets were clean, maintained and mowed.


83 year old city boy



All comments from YouTube:

@indraniganguli8073

Difficult to hear this song now. It sent shivers down my spine at the most inappropriate behaviour of the man. And the breezy " a guy is a guy" excuse.

@maestroCanuck

LOL

@alanbishop9737

One assumes you'd have constant tremors when listening to much of the current lyrical offerings !.

@wilc4036

You're joking right? Look up the lyrics to any Sexxy Red song lol

@wednesdaya.5780

As a wee lass who spoke more Chinese than English I sang this song a LOT without realizing any of the implications. Now I am thoroughly horrified (though admittedly slightly amused) at how much I still enjoy the song despite its themes

@ginabrockway2084

An upbeat song about marrying a guy who stalked and assaulted you. The 50’s were weird.

@donadavs

intentional misinterpretation

@jolexhopealfanta7658

Because people back then doesn't have a dirty way of thinking about life.

@s.a.adams-ford1216

At least in the 50s people were sane enough to realize "A GUY IS A GUY!"

@wampuscat1340

Try singing to people in the 1950s about a girl’s Only Fans account and serial promiscuity. They would be aghast.

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