As Long As He Needs Me
Doris Day Lyrics


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As long as he needs me
Oh, yes, he does need me
In spite of what you see
I'm sure that he needs me

Who else would love him still
When they've been used so ill?
He knows I always will
As long as he needs me

I miss him so much when he is gone
But when he's near me
I don't let on

The way I feel inside
The love I have to hide
The hell! I've got my pride
As long as he needs me

He doesn't say the things he should
He acts the way he thinks he should
But all the same
I'll play this game
His way...

As long as he needs me
I know where I must be
I'll cling on steadfastly
As long as he needs me

As long as life is long
I'll love him right or wrong
And somehow I'll be strong
As long as he needs me

If you are lonely
Then you will know
When someone needs you
You love them so

I won't betray his trust
Though people say I must




I've got to stay true, just
As long as he needs me

Overall Meaning

Doris Day's song "As Long as He Needs Me" is a beautiful expression of a woman's unwavering devotion and loyalty to her lover, despite his flaws and the disapproval of others. The lyrics convey the woman's deep love and understanding for her partner, and her willingness to stand by him "as long as he needs [her]."


The opening lines of the song, "As long as he needs me, oh, yes, he does need me," set the tone for the woman's commitment. She believes that her partner needs her, regardless of any outward appearances or negative opinions from others. The next line, "In spite of what you see, I'm sure that he needs me," solidifies her belief in their relationship and her willingness to overlook any negative aspects that others may see.


The woman's devotion is further emphasized in the lines, "Who else would love him still when they've been used so ill? He knows I always will, as long as he needs me." Despite any mistreatment or negativity he may bring into their relationship, she is willing to love him unconditionally.


The song also portrays the woman's inner struggles, particularly with hiding her true feelings and maintaining her sense of pride. She admits to "miss[ing] him so much when he is gone," but conceals her emotions when he is near in order to maintain her outward composure. However, she also acknowledges that the love she has for him is something she must "hide" and never betray, despite any pressure from others to do so.


Overall, "As Long as He Needs Me" is a powerful testament to the strength of love and commitment, and the willingness to stand by a loved one even in the face of adversity.


Line by Line Meaning

As long as he needs me
The singer will stay with her partner as long as they need her.


Oh, yes, he does need me
The singer believes that her partner needs her, despite what others might think.


In spite of what you see
The singer's partner appears to not need her, but the singer knows otherwise.


I'm sure that he needs me
The artist is confident in her belief that her partner needs her.


Who else would love him still
Despite how poorly her partner has been treated, the artist still loves him.


When they've been used so ill?
The singer's partner has been mistreated, yet she still loves him.


He knows I always will
The singer's partner is aware that she will always love him, despite his flaws.


I miss him so much when he is gone
When the artist's partner is not with her, she feels a strong sense of longing.


But when he's near me
When the artist's partner is with her, she doesn't show how much she misses him.


I don't let on
The artist hides her feelings when her partner is around.


The way I feel inside
The singer's innermost feelings are a secret even from her partner.


The love I have to hide
The artist's love for her partner is something she keeps to herself.


The hell! I've got my pride
The singer will not let her pride suffer because of her love for her partner.


He doesn't say the things he should
The singer's partner does not express himself as he should.


He acts the way he thinks he should
The singer's partner behaves the way he thinks is appropriate, not necessarily the way he feels.


But all the same
Despite this, the artist will still stay by her partner's side.


I'll play this game
The artist is willing to play along and follow her partner's lead.


His way...
The singer will comply with her partner's wishes.


I know where I must be
The singer knows that she belongs by her partner's side.


I'll cling on steadfastly
The artist will hold on tightly to her partner and their relationship.


As long as life is long
The artist will love her partner forever, no matter what happens.


I'll love him right or wrong
The artist's love for her partner is unconditional, regardless of his behavior.


And somehow I'll be strong
The singer will find the strength to endure anything for her partner's sake.


If you are lonely
The artist addresses the listener directly, suggesting that they might relate to her situation.


Then you will know
Only those who have experienced loneliness can truly understand.


When someone needs you
The singer's partner needs her, and this need gives her purpose.


You love them so
The singer loves her partner deeply because he needs her.


I won't betray his trust
The artist is loyal to her partner and will not deceive him.


Though people say I must
Others might tell the artist to leave her partner, but she will not.


I've got to stay true, just
The singer will remain devoted to her partner.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Lionel Bart

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