I'm Not At All In Love
Doris Day Lyrics


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DORIS DAY: Love, are you nuts?
GIRLS: Some people can't tell when it hits them!


DORIS:
All you gotta do is say hello to a man
And they've got you whispering in his ear

All you gotta do it seems is work for him
And they've got you going beserk for him


If there's a guy you merely have a bicker with
They've got you setting the wedding date


It seems they've just gotta have some dirt
To bend your ear with


So before you start, I herewith state.....


I'm not at all in love, not at all in love, not I
Not a bit, not a mite
Though I'll admit he's quite a hunk o' guy
But he's not my cup o' tea, not my cup o' tea, not he
Not an ounce, not a pinch
He's just an inch too sure of himself for me


GIRL: Well of course you've noticed his manly physique and that look in his eyes
GIRL: Say, I'm sure he can cut most any man down to size
GIRL: He must he as fierce as a tiger when he's mad
GIRL: And I'll bet he cries like a little boy when he's sad


DORIS:
But I'm not at all in love, not at all in love, not I
Not a straw, not a hair
I don't care if he's as strong as a lion
Or if he has the rest of ya sighin'
You may be sold, but this girl ain't buyin'
I'm not at all in love!


GIRLS: She's not at all in love, not at all in love, oh no
DORIS: Not a pin, not a crumb
GIRLS: Must be the summer heat that gives her that glow
'Cos she's not at all in love, not at all in love, she cries
DORIS: Not a snip, not a bite
GIRLS: Must be the light from the ceiling shining there in her eyes


GIRLS: He's young and handsome, and smart, and we can't get over it
DORIS: But this lady's heart he doesn't effect a bit
GIRLS: It's easy to see that her daffy grin is the grin she always wears
And she's breathless because she ran up a flight of stairs
Obviously!
Naturally!
Definitely!
Obviously!
Naturally!
Definitely!
Hah!


GIRLS: She's not at all in love, not at all in love, not she
DORIS: No, I'm not!
GIRLS: Not a dot
DORIS: Not a touch
GIRLS: No, not much
DORIS: When I fall in love, there will be no doubt about it
'Cos you will know from the way that I shout it
GIRLS: Your shouting
DORIS: I haven't fallen
GIRLS: She hasn't fallen




DORIS: I'm not at all in love!
GIRLS: She's not at all in love!

Overall Meaning

The song "I'm Not At All in Love" by Doris Day is a witty and cheerful take on the uncertainty and hesitation that comes with falling in love. The first verse talks about how easy it is for women to fall for a man's charm just by saying hello or doing something nice for them. It seems like all it takes for a wedding date to be set is a small argument or disagreement with the man. But the singer firmly denies being in love, even though she admits that the guy is good-looking. She lists out all the admirable qualities the guy possesses, including his manly physique, fierce temper, and sensitive side. Yet, she remains convinced that he is not her cup of tea and that she is not in love with him.


The second verse involves a conversation between the singer and her friends who try to convince her that she is indeed in love. The friends list out all the attractive qualities of the man, and they even suggest that the lady might be feeling dizzy or breathless because she ran up a flight of stairs. But the singer remains steadfast in her conviction that she is not in love, and when she does fall in love, everybody around her will know. The song ends on a witty note, with the singer saying that she hasn't fallen in love yet and that she is not at all in love.


Line by Line Meaning

All you gotta do is say hello to a man And they've got you whispering in his ear
Just by acknowledging a man's existence, they think they have control over you


All you gotta do it seems is work for him And they've got you going beserk for him
Even just working for a man can make them think you have feelings for them and lead them to obsess over you


If there's a guy you merely have a bicker with They've got you setting the wedding date
A simple argument with a man can make them think you're meant to be together forever


It seems they've just gotta have some dirt To bend your ear with
Men will use any little bit of information they can to try and win you over


So before you start, I herewith state..... I'm not at all in love, not at all in love, not I Not a bit, not a mite Though I'll admit he's quite a hunk o' guy But he's not my cup o' tea, not my cup o' tea, not he Not an ounce, not a pinch He's just an inch too sure of himself for me
Despite the external pressures of society and his good looks, I am confident in my lack of feelings for this man who is too full of himself for my liking


But I'm not at all in love, not at all in love, not I Not a straw, not a hair I don't care if he's as strong as a lion Or if he has the rest of ya sighin' You may be sold, but this girl ain't buyin' I'm not at all in love!
I won't be swayed by his looks, charm or reputation. I am certain that I am not in love with him


When I fall in love, there will be no doubt about it 'Cos you will know from the way that I shout it
When true love hits me, there won't be any confusion. I will declare it loud and clear


Your shouting I haven't fallen She hasn't fallen I'm not at all in love!
Despite what others may say or think, I am not in love with this man




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: JERRY J. ROSS, RICHARD ADLER

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@shiro_shiroi2083

All you gotta do is say hello to a man
And they've got you whispering in his ear
All you gotta do it seems is work for him
And they've got you going beserk for him
If there's a guy you merely have a bicker with
They've got you setting the wedding date
It seems they've just gotta have some dirt
To bend your ear with
So before you start, I herewith state
I'm not at all in love, not at all in love, not I
Not a bit, not a mite
Though I'll admit he's quite a hunk o' guy
But he's not my cup o' tea, not my cup o' tea, not he
Not an ounce, not a pinch
He's just an inch too sure of himself for me
Well of course you've noticed his manly physique and that look in his eyes
Say, I'm sure he can cut most any man down to size
He must he as fierce as a tiger when he's mad
And I'll bet he cries like a little boy when he's sad
But I'm not at all in love, not at all in love, not I
Not a straw, not a hair
I don't care if he's as strong as a lion
Or if he has the rest of ya sighin'
You may be sold, but this girl ain't buyin'
I'm not at all in love!
She's not at all in love, not at all in love, oh no
Not a pin, not a crumb
Must be the summer heat that gives her that glow
'Cos she's not at all in love, not at all in love, she cries
Not a snip, not a bite
Must be the light from the ceiling shining there in her eyes
He's young and handsome, and smart, and we can't get over it
But this lady's heart he doesn't effect a bit
It's easy to see that her daffy grin is the grin she always wears
And she's breathless because she ran up a flight of stairs
Obviously!
Naturally!
Definitely!
Obviously!
Naturally!
Definitely!
Hah!
She's not at all in love, not at all in love, not she
No, I'm not!
Not a dot
Not a touch
No, not much
When I fall in love, there will be no doubt about it
'Cos you will know from the way that I shout it
Your shouting
I haven't fallen
She hasn't fallen
I'm not at all in love!
She's not at all in love!



@Abby44440

All you gotta do is say hello to a man
And they've got you whispering in his ear
All you gotta do it seems is work for him
And they've got you going berserk for him
If there's a guy you merely have a beer with
They've got you setting the wedding date
It seems they've just gotta have some dirt
To bend your ear with
So before you start
I hear with... state
I'm not, at all in love, not at all in love, not I!
Not a bit
Not a might
Though I'll admit he's quite a hunk a guy
But he's not, my cup of tea, not my cup of tea, not he!
Not an ounce
Not a pinch
He's just an inch, too sure of himself for me
{Well, of course, you've noticed his manly physique
And that look in his eye
Well, I'm sure he can cut almost any man out of size!
He must be as fierce as a tiger when he's mad
And I'll bet he cries like a little boy when he's sad}
But I'm not at all in love, not at all in love, not I!
Not a straw
Not a hair
I don't care if he's as strong as a lion
Or if he has the rest of you sighing
You may be sold but this girl ain't buying!!
I'm not at all in love!
Not a pin, not a crumb
{Must be the summer heat that gives her that glow
'Cause, she's not at all in love, not at all in love, she cries!}
Not a snip, not a bite
{Must be the light from the ceiling shining there in her eyes
He's young and handsome, and smart, and we can't get over it}
But this ladies heart he doesn't affect a bit
{It's easy to see that her daffy grin is a grin she always wears
And she's breathless because she ran up a flight of stairs!}
{"Obviously"
"Naturally"
"Definitely"}
{"Obviously"
"Naturally"
"Definitely"}
Ha!
{She's not at all in love, not at all in love, not she}
No, I'm not!
Not a touch
When I fall in love, there will be no doubt about it
'Cause you will know by the way that I shout it
I haven't fallen
I'm not at all in love!
{She's not at all in love!}
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@nehirtan6730

Love, are you nuts?
Some people can't tell when it hits them!
All you gotta do is say hello to a man
And they've got you whispering in his ear
All you gotta do it seems is work for him
And they've got you going beserk for him
If there's a guy you merely have a beer with
They've got you setting the wedding date
It seems they've just gotta have some dirt
To bend your ear with
So before you start, I herewith state
I'm not at all in love, not at all in love, not I
Not a bit, not a mite
Though I'll admit he's quite a hunk o' guy
But he's not my cup o' tea, not my cup o' tea, not he
Not an ounce, not a pinch
He's just an inch too sure of himself for me
Well of course you've noticed
His manly physique and that look in his eyes
Say, I'm sure he can cut most any man down to size
He must he as fierce as a tiger when he's mad
And I'll bet he cries like a little boy when he's sad
But I'm not at all in love, not at all in love, not I
Not a straw, not a hair
I don't care if he's as strong as a lion
Or if he has the rest of ya sighin'
You may be sold, but this girl ain't buyin'
I'm not at all in love!
She's not at all in love, not at all in love, oh no
Not a pin, not a crumb
Must be the summer heat that gives her that glow
'Cos she's not at all in love, not at all in love, she cries
Not a snip, not a bite
Must be the light from the ceiling shining there in her eyes
He's young and handsome, and smart, and we can't get over it
But this lady's heart he doesn't effect a bit
It's easy to see that her daffy grin is the grin she always wears
And she's breathless because she ran up a flight of stairs
Obviously!
Naturally!
Definitely!
Obviously!
Naturally!
Definitely!
Hah!
She's not at all in love, not at all in love, not she
No, I'm not!
Not a dot
Not a touch
No, not much
When I fall in love, there will be no doubt about it
'Cause you will know from the way that I shout it
Your shouting
I'm not at all in
She's not at all in love!



All comments from YouTube:

@kojikicklighter371

Doris had such poise, grace and style. This is such an underrated musical.

@user-it1ig8fn1r

One of the truly great movie stars!

@lindaanderson1357

She was a true legend. The last of the greats now gone :(

@therealzilch

I'm an old hippie who disdained all this establishment stuff at the time. But yeah, I have to agree: Doris Day was a great talent.

@KiwiKateUK

I was brought up in that era, the 50s and 60s was such a wonderful time to grow up in. I was a big fan of Doris Day and went to all her movies and bought all her records. I'm still a big fan of hers today. .

@liesljones5987

One of the FEW movies that used the original Broadway performers. With the exception of Doris Day and Barbara Nichols,
all these ladies had 1000+ performances under their belt.

@echavez1962

Rae Allen was also not in the film.

@lisatafil5196

Not was Gwen Verdon; see would have been in the seen steam heat.

@lisatafil5196

Gwen Verdon wasn't in the movie; she was in the steam heat seen.

@echavez1962

@lisa tafil There were three people in that scene, two men (one was Peter Genarro) and the woman in it was Carol Haney.

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