With the Hurt
Elisa Lyrics


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Nothing can give us back this time we've wasted
We weren't thinking straight act like you don't know
Tangled in these games we play with no meaning
Too late to regret them I pray we'll learn to let go

I pray we'll learn to let go
Pray we'll learn to let go
I pray we'll learn to let go
Pray we'll learn to let go

Mother you could not let me go
Still you couldn't keep me from pain
Keep me away from it all
Father it was all out of love
But tell me why it tears me apart
Why do we end up with the hurt

So tired of hearing that time fixes everything
Mistakes keep repeating I can't make sense of it all
You're my palm reader, wanna know every secret
I can't stop trying to change you
If you would take me for who I am

Can you take me for who I am?
Can you take me for who I am?

Can you take me for who I am?
Can you take me for who I am?

Mother you could not let me go
Still you couldn't keep me from pain
Keep me away from it all
Father it was all out of love
Tell me why it tears me apart
Why do we end up with the hurt

Mother I keep letting you down
Tell me why it's never enough
I end up with nothing at all
Father you would not let me fall
But why are you afraid to look down
Afraid we'll end up with the hurt
Mother why do we act so cold?

The difference it would have made
To realize we were the same
And all the good we could have done
If we had felt like we were one
You're my palm reader, wanna know all my secrets
I could stop trying to change you, can you take me for who I am?

Mother you could not let me go
Still you couldn't keep me from pain
Keep me away from it all
Father it was all out of love
But tell me why it tears me apart
Why do we end up with the hurt

Mother I keep letting you down
Tell me why it's never enough
I end up with nothing at all
Father you would not let me fall




But why are you afraid to look down
Afraid we'll end up with the hurt

Overall Meaning

Elisa's song "With the Hurt" is about the pain that comes from holding on to past regrets and mistakes. The lyrics express a desire to learn from these past experiences and move forward, to let go of the pain and forgive those who may have contributed to it. The song begins by acknowledging that time cannot be regained, and the mistakes made in the past cannot be undone. The singer pleads for the strength to learn from these mistakes and let go of them, hoping that the pain will subside as a result.


The verses of the song focus on the pain caused by the singer's parents. They address their mother's inability to protect them from pain, and their father's overprotectiveness that has led to a sense of emptiness. The chorus questions acceptance, whether their parents can accept them for who they are, as opposed to constantly trying to change them. This leads to feelings of frustration and confusion regarding what they need to do to please their parents.


In the final verse, the singer imagines what might have been if their parents had been more supportive and accepting. They believe that if they had felt more unity with their family, they may have been able to make a positive impact in the world. But there is a recognition that the past cannot be changed; they must take responsibility for their own life and do what they can to find peace.


Line by Line Meaning

Nothing can give us back this time we've wasted
We can't erase the time we've wasted and lost


We weren't thinking straight act like you don't know
We made bad decisions and now we're avoiding the consequences


Tangled in these games we play with no meaning
We're stuck in meaningless games that bring us no joy


Too late to regret them I pray we'll learn to let go
It's too late to regret our mistakes, but we can learn to move on


I pray we'll learn to let go
We need to learn to let go and move on with our lives


Pray we'll learn to let go
We need to pray and hope that we can let go of past mistakes


Mother you could not let me go
My mother couldn't let me leave her, even though it caused me pain


Still you couldn't keep me from pain
But even though my mother wanted to protect me, I still experienced pain


Keep me away from it all
My mother wanted to keep me away from pain and suffering


Father it was all out of love
My father's actions came from a place of love


But tell me why it tears me apart
But his actions still hurt me deeply


Why do we end up with the hurt
Why do our actions and decisions always lead to pain and hurt?


So tired of hearing that time fixes everything
I'm tired of hearing that time will magically make everything better


Mistakes keep repeating I can't make sense of it all
I keep making the same mistakes and it's hard to understand why


You're my palm reader, wanna know every secret
I want you to understand me completely and know all my secrets


I can't stop trying to change you
I can't help but try to change you to fit my expectations


If you would take me for who I am
If you could accept me for who I truly am


Can you take me for who I am?
Can you truly accept and love me for who I am?


Mother I keep letting you down
I keep disappointing my mother


Tell me why it's never enough
But no matter what I do, it's never enough


I end up with nothing at all
I always end up with nothing in the end


Father you would not let me fall
My father always wanted to protect me from falling and getting hurt


But why are you afraid to look down
But why are you afraid to face your own fears and mistakes?


Afraid we'll end up with the hurt
Are you afraid that our actions will always lead to hurt and pain?


The difference it would have made
Imagine how different things could have been


To realize we were the same
If only we had realized that we are all fundamentally the same


And all the good we could have done
Think of all the good we could have accomplished together


If we had felt like we were one
If only we had felt united and worked together instead of against each other


Mother why do we act so cold?
Why do we act so distant and unloving towards each other?


Why do we end up with the hurt
Why do our actions and choices always lead to pain and hurt?




Lyrics © Sugarmusic s.p.a., Peermusic Publishing
Written by: Keeley Osborn Bumford, Christian Rigano, Andrea Rigonat, Curt Schneider, Elisa Toffoli, Victor Indrizzo

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