Cross My Mind
Jill Scott Lyrics


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I was just thinking about you
Wondering if you wear the same cologne
Smelled good
On you
Had the next boyfriend of mine try the same kind
But it stunk on him though.
You know what they say everything ain't for everybody
But I tried anyway
You sure did smell good
Eh yeah

You just running cross my mind
You just running cross my mind
You just running cross my mind
You just running cross my mind

You had that masculine thing down
Shoulders, back straight
Never slumping, never round
It would turn me on just to see you walk into a room
Across the room, out of the room
You really impressed me
Eh yeah

You just running cross my mind
You just running cross my mind
You just running cross my mind
You just running cross my mind

I know if I pick up this phone, write this letter, send this two way
I know I'm gonna say some things, I know you gonna say some things
That we both don't mean to say
Like, how amazing, how amazing
When you would spread my limbs cross continents
Bump our bed way over mountains
Kiss this and this and this and this
And this and this and this and this
And this and this and this and that hey
Show each other where the climax is at

You just running across my mind
Across my mind
You just running across my mind
You just running hey

I was just thinking about you
Wondering what you doing I mean what you've been up to
I know it's wrong feeling so strong
Let me take a second minute I will think this thing through
I was just thinking about you and
Wondering what you doing I mean what you've been up to
I know it's wrong feeling so strong
Let me take a second minute I will think this thing through

Remember all the moments for two?
How we used to
Oh yeah
But the reality honestly




You were never good for me and I was never good for you
I just remember what we used to do

Overall Meaning

In Jill Scott's song "Cross My Mind," the singer muses about a former love interest who continues to occupy her thoughts. She begins by reminiscing about his scent, admitting that she had her subsequent boyfriend try to imitate it but it only smelled good on her former beau. The singer acknowledges that not everything is meant for everyone and that she still tried, emphasizing just how much his memory lingers. Throughout the song, she describes the physical traits that she found attractive in him and how seeing him would turn her on. The singer then admits that if she were to reach out to him, she knows they would exchange empty promises and reminisce about passionate experiences they shared. She understands that these thoughts arenโ€™t entirely appropriate or healthy, but she struggles to get him out of her mind. She ultimately concludes that, despite the good times they shared, they were simply not good for each other.


The overall theme of the song is undoubtedly a relatable experience that many people face, which is unrequited love. Through Scott's interpretation, the listener can understand the emotional and physical longing the singer has towards a former lover, even knowing that it is not logical to still feel that way about someone. The lyrics make it clear that she is conflicted between what her heart wants and her head's rational understanding of the situation. Therefore, the singer shares her thought processes throughout the song, so we understand her struggle, which many people experience.


Line by Line Meaning

I was just thinking about you
The singer is reminiscing about an old flame


Wondering if you wear the same cologne
The singer is curious whether the old flame still wears the same scent


Smelled good
The singer liked the scent of the old flame's cologne


On you
The singer is referring to the old flame


Had the next boyfriend of mine try the same kind
The singer's subsequent boyfriend attempted to wear the same cologne as the old flame


But it stunk on him though.
The smell was not the same on the subsequent boyfriend


You know what they say everything ain't for everybody
The singer acknowledges that different things appeal to different people


But I tried anyway
The singer still attempted to recreate the same experience with her new partner


You sure did smell good
The singer still remembers how good the old flame smelled


Eh yeah
An expression of agreement or affirmation


You just running cross my mind
The old flame is on the singer's thoughts and memories


You had that masculine thing down
The singer was impressed by the old flame's masculinity


Shoulders, back straight
The singer noticed how the old flame carried themselves confidently


Never slumping, never round
The old flame always maintained good posture


It would turn me on just to see you walk into a room
The old flame's presence was appealing to the singer


Across the room, out of the room
The singer was drawn to the old flame even from a distance


You really impressed me
The singer was greatly influenced by the old flame


I know if I pick up this phone, write this letter, send this two way
The singer is acknowledging that she can't contact the old flame to reconnect


I know I'm gonna say some things, I know you gonna say some things
The singer knows that if they were to reconnect, they would both say things they don't really mean


That we both don't mean to say
Both the singer and the old flame would unintentionally hurt each other's feelings


Like, how amazing, how amazing
Both the singer and the old flame were deeply passionate and intimate in their past relationship


When you would spread my limbs cross continents
The singer references how adventurous and passionate their past sexual encounters were


Bump our bed way over mountains
The singer romanticizes their past sexual experiences as wild and thrilling


Kiss this and this and this and this
The singer remembers the old flame's touch and kisses


And this and this and this and this
The singer repeats herself to emphasize the point


And this and this and this and that hey
The singer continues to romanticize their past experiences together


Show each other where the climax is at
The singer recalls how they were comfortable with each other in their sexual experiences and were able to satisfy one another


I was just thinking about you and
The singer is still reminiscing about the old flame


Wondering what you doing I mean what you've been up to
The singer is curious what the old flame is currently doing with their life


I know it's wrong feeling so strong
The singer acknowledges that it's not right to hold onto strong feelings for the old flame


Let me take a second minute I will think this thing through
The singer decides to take a moment to reflect on her emotions


Remember all the moments for two?
The singer acknowledges the happy times they shared together


How we used to
The singer fondly recalls their past memories


Oh yeah
The singer affirms and agrees with her own memories


But the reality honestly
The singer acknowledges that their past relationship didn't work out


You were never good for me and I was never good for you
The singer realizes that they were never compatible in the long term


I just remember what we used to do
The singer chooses to hold onto the happy memories of their past together




Lyrics ยฉ VINTAGE MUSIC GROUP MUSIC PUB, Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: JILL H. SCOTT, RONALD FROST

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Shayla Washington

Jill Scott is one of the baddest vocalist! She is sexy, classy , and can sang - give her flowers ๐Ÿ’

luquita taylor

We'll love her to do a album with her and Marshall

Alex WK

2023 Still banging! The track is classy as hell!

Average Gardener42

I just got back with my boo boo from the 5th grade. Now we 43yrs old and everything is 98% perfect in our lives .GOD IS GOOD Y'ALL.

Junior King

I know thatโ€™s right

HEY S.I.S. TV ๐Ÿ“บ

โคโคโคamazing!!! Glad yโ€™all reconnected God is good!!!

Mahogani Red

Well Above Average!

Julie Tastes

Awww thats so lovely, God bless yall.

Kiki Frazier

The Most High was just preparing you two for each other. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

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Kelsi Nicole

This song is... Magical. Brilliant. Poetic. Real. Damn, Jill. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’

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