Gotta Be This Or That
Judy Garland Lyrics


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If you ain't wrong, you're right
If it ain't day, it's night
If you ain't sure, you might
Gotta be this or that
If it ain't dry, it's wet
If you ain't got, you get
If it ain't gross, it's net
Gotta be this or that
If it ain't sis, you can't miss
It's got to be your brother
Can't you see it's gotta be
One way or the other
If it ain't full, it's blank
If you don't spend, you bank




If it ain't Dee, it's Frank
Gotta be this or that

Overall Meaning

The lyrics in Judy Garland and Frank Sinatra's Gotta Be This Or That are all about binary choices, where there are only two possible options and no in-between. The refrain "gotta be this or that" is repeated throughout the song as a constant reminder of this way of thinking. The first verse sets the tone by presenting contrasts such as right/wrong, day/night, and sure/might. The second verse continues with more dichotomies like wet/dry, get/got, and gross/net.


In the bridge, the lyrics become more personal as the singer talks about relationships. "If it ain't sis, you can't miss" implies that if you have a sister, you should be close to her and not miss the opportunity to spend time with her. "It's got to be your brother" reinforces this idea, emphasizing the importance of family. The bridge concludes by saying "Can't you see it's gotta be One way or the other," suggesting that there are no grey areas in relationships either - you either have a close bond with your siblings or you don't.


Overall, Gotta Be This Or That celebrates the simplicity of binary thinking while acknowledging that it can also be limiting. By presenting a series of dichotomies, the song encourages the listener to think in terms of absolutes and make clear decisions.


Line by Line Meaning

If you ain't wrong, you're right
There is no grey area, either you are correct or incorrect


If it ain't day, it's night
There are only two contrasting states, lightness and darkness


If you ain't sure, you might
Uncertainty leads to possible failure


Gotta be this or that
Life always gives you two options, and you must choose one


If it ain't dry, it's wet
There are only two contrasting states, absence or presence of moisture


If you ain't got, you get
If you do not have something, you must strive to obtain it


If it ain't gross, it's net
Every positive has a negative, every gain has a loss


Gotta be this or that
Life always gives you two options, and you must choose one


If it ain't sis, you can't miss
The closest relative cannot be overlooked or ignored


It's got to be your brother
Family comes first


Can't you see it's gotta be
There is no other way but to choose one option or the other


One way or the other
There are only two paths to choose


If it ain't full, it's blank
Either something is complete or it is incomplete


If you don't spend, you bank
Saving is the only other alternative to spending


If it ain't Dee, it's Frank
There are only two alternatives to consider


Gotta be this or that
Life always gives you two options, and you must choose one




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: SUNNY SKYLAR

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William Clarke

Wow! What a fantastic duet by two of the all time greatest singers!

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