From London, England to Toronto, Canada, K-Precise has taken inspiration fr… Read Full Bio ↴From London, England to Toronto, Canada, K-Precise has taken inspiration from many experiences and walks of life. His multi-cultural roots mixed together in an urban flavoured pot has formed his current fusion of uptempo R&B/Dance peppered with an ethnic twist.

Better associated with the MC arena in his earlier years, KP became recognised as a Producer/Songwriter with the ability to 'rock the mic' back in 1995.

Although he is currently known for his R&B/Dance music, his previous work has spanned across a wide variety of genre, including Hip Hop, UK Garage, House and Reggaeton.

The Single Life
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Cameron J S-I-N-G-L-E L-I-F-E Can somebody tell me whats going on. C…
DJ Boonie Freedom's all around Dancing as we paint the town Friends th…
Sarina Paris Freedom's all around Dancing as we paint the town Friends …

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Absence Of Your Kiss "Hey you" Kiss your Lips? MUA …
Ain't Virtual Love We don't care that we are broke We Read The Book…
Going Back to T.O I keep on going back to the old days, the…
If You Wanna Be I will not try to be alone without you Day after…

It's The Last Time It's time to party, let's party Hang out with yourself and…
Its The Last Time We're just dancing Hey honey we're just dancing We're dancin…
Live Your Life Ready and go Yo I made this song specifically for myself Cau…
My Unborn Truth I wanted us to see I wanted us to be Happy My love…
Never Gonna Give Up Cause I never gonna stop Always lookin' up, cause I never…
U Love Like Gunfire 매일 술에 취해 생일은 멀었는데 내일 해가 뜰 때 널 제일 미워하게 될…

Who Can You Trust? Ohhh, whoo I'm sitting here thinking about what you did Tryi…

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@essennagerry

44w↑5

I'm in a somewhat similar position. I'm Bulgarian and moved to Austria which is fairly close. Even though I kinda struggle financially I can still make long vacations in Bulgaria. The most expensive part is the flight tickets. I'll stay in Bulgaria for almost 8 weeks this summer. Bulgaria is amazing when you don't have to work there and rent there and rely on the healthcare there. Education is hit or miss, the more I learn about Western Europe, Korea, Japan and the US the more I'm surprised to say there actually are significant advantages to Bulgarian education, both 1-12 and university.

As for the culture, I have to say I may be a bit biased as I seem more sensitive toward this, but there is ONE thing I am very happy to live away from now. People speak with a lot of confidence in their statement but they don't actually know that well. And they sort of rush you and stress you and insist on what the right way and the wrong way is. It's funny to say this as someone who grew up there and didn't experience anything else but man oh man this really made me struggle. Just the sort of attitude with which people talk about what to do and how to do it, not everyone but many people - it's so stressful. Definitely more chill in Austria.

I do have ADHD and I may have some other neurodivergency or mental health issue too, idk, but I really don't vibe with those attitudes. Just really messed up my perception of self and how the world and life works.

Which btw is one of the issues of CPTSD as dramatic as that sounds. Without having the repeated traumatic occurances which cause CPTSD I still relate to a lot of the thought patterns and feelings and ways of seeing the world that a person suffering from CPTSD does and that's just crazy. I trace it back to having had a very stressed mom in early-ish childhood and indirectly soaking up toxic and stressed ways of thinking from her BUT ALSO several environments I was in growing up. I was never bullied or abused so that's just crazy to me.

But going back on vacation, meeting lots of people at camps, meeting friends while they're too on vacation, in summer, that is all fine and dandy. I love going back in the summer.

Sorry this turned so long and sidetrack-y. But maybe someone else relates so I want to post it anyway. 😊

All comments from YouTube:

@reylandvilla6646

1y↑490

My Korean office mate said moving his family abroad was the best move. No stress from constant comparison, in-laws, high property costs, stressful education, work hierarchy.. and they enjoy Korea as tourists when they get homesick…

@jeffjohnson5053

45w↑16

Which is the exact same thing happening in Japan, Taiwan, Hong kong, Singapore. All the rich and developed nations, the birth rate and marriage rate is LOW. While countries like Phillippines, Vietnam, Thailand, Cambodia, they are getting married and having children very often and their population is exploding!!

@essennagerry

44w↑5

@szewei85

42w

@@jeffjohnson5053and Islam is gonna penetrate these develop nations in groups 4 the different propaganda if the security dont stay alert haha

@jintaowang9897

39w

may I ask which country did they move to?

@JACKIE79238

1y↑1.2K

On the issue of why is it so hard to be single in Korea, Kelsey got it right.... it is because some people lack self love and self worth and they need another person to make them feel whole. Self love and knowing your self worth is very important.

@nadiabensily311

1y↑10

Spot on, well said

@eleanormedina6703

1y↑29

No I think they can barely afford themselves much less a child.

@eleanormedina6703

1y↑2

24 baby making age

@markgilrosales6366

1y↑24

Yeah. Self love. Tell that to yourself when you're 60 and alone.

@hannastar

1y↑69

@@markgilrosales6366 being alone and being lonely aren't the same , people of any age group can feel lonely.

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@Onestep2atime

1y↑265

I was like Kelsey and Anna. I did not want to have children. However, I became a mom at 47 through adoption. I was married for almost 20 years to a wonderful man. Our priority in the marriage was not to procreate but to enjoy life together and obtain legal protection. Now I find myself being a single mom after my husband died. Being a single mom would have been my worst nightmare in my twenties or thirties; however, it is manageable at this stage of my life. For reference, I am Korean American.

@Ytpremium5389

1y↑11

So feminism lie to you?

@notwithoutpizza4702

1y↑47

@@Ytpremium5389 What does this mean?

@dchung726

50w↑2

Thank you for using conjunctive adverbs correctly. 👍

@nmoomoo

48w

@@Ytpremium5389 you do realise many feminists have children, right? anyways, be gone incel

@Onestep2atime

47w↑4

@@Ytpremium5389 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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@Ninja.crystal

1y↑228

As a half Korean/American who grew up in Korea and had a lot of traumatic experiences with societal/family expectations, guilt/shame and more, this was the most comforting convo I’ve heard

@jeffjohnson5053

45w↑1

@szewei85

42w↑2

Trust me. Big difference living in southern Malaysia vs Singapore. Haha. Here we chill AF. Most Singapore will cross the border every weekend 2 escape the toxicity of the country for 1/3.4 of the price. Hahahaha.

@kittywatchesyoutube

1y↑176

Watching MBTI take over the blood type role in Korea in the last few years has been wild 😂 That was a test we did in US middle school back in the mid 2000’s

@thecoolintroverttv8381

1y↑4

😂🤣 right!!

@RR-et6zp

1y↑10

personality types are BS, most psychology is BS

@subterranean327

1y↑23

@@RR-et6zp I used to swear by personality tests. Now, I hate them because they just foster preconceived notions about one another.

@RR-et6zp

@@subterranean327 the scientific method shows that its bs

@caitthecat

48w

@RR Most legit psychology tests are not fun or easy to share. They generally tell you things you don't like. MBTI is mostly bullshit and I'm disappointed it's so popular. The five-factor inventory is incredibly boring but accurate and reliable.

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@Js_Son83

1y↑346

Never seen Kelsey so chill in videos. Kelsey is always hyped, upbeat. Lol

@inquisitvem6723

1y↑21

Probably took a sedative before going on the show😂

@ttottot

1y↑16

but im glad, she was really well spoken and articulate now

@evangelineeriksson5234

1y↑3

Yes, I did not know it was the same Kelsey I watch on YT.

@inquisitvem6723

1y↑1

I’m surprised she didn’t wear her Rolex on the show ….a fake one at least.

@melissa-ut5fk

1y↑4

She's on medications, that's why.

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@yp3794

1y↑263

David, excellent first episode. The chemistry between all the guests with their candid unique perspective as young Koreans was entertaining and insightful. You did an excellent job of facilitating and participating. I enjoy learning about Korean culture from Koreans and I value the diversity of opinions. I look forward to other guests, interesting topics, and overall a good podcast! Let us know how we can support your podcast!

@transcendenciainformal9149

To say that this indecent behavior and defense of feminism and degeneration is knowing what you "want" shows the total and complete decadence of the world. The West was as traditional as Asia, but why are we now liberal and degenerate, with open prostitution, abortions, divorces, children out of wedlock, free sex with no strings attached? all this was implanted by organized political groups, think tanks, universities, non-governmental organizations and other crap, to completely destroy the West, which was Christian and conservative.

@michellemckinney4678

1y↑719

I respect Kelsey and Anna for knowing exactly what they want despite Korean societal pressures. Seeing Kelsey being so chill is weird! That’s my girl! 🙌🏽

@KelseytheKorean

1y↑48

Post Yoga effect🧘🏻‍♀️

@jessikacaxeta2031

1y↑32

When I heard Kelsey’s voice but I had to look closer at my screen to make sure it was her, she was so chill haha

@deezkacang4713

1y↑8

@@KelseytheKorean LOL KELSEY 😭

@transcendenciainformal9149

@henrytep8884

1y↑2

Some would call it societal pressure, others would call it societal genocide. Seems like people aren’t able to understand or empathize with both positions, but one is worse than the other. Not conforming to societal pressures might mean your quality of life suffers a bit for the greater good of society. Societal genocide means that the top 1% of a nation creates a Neo-feudal state that is ran by an authoritarian that will drop most people quality of living and create a new hierarchy that is similar to china’s hierarchy in terms of freedom. There’s a reason why feminism doesn’t exist in China, they’re a neo-feudal state. If a nation state or government feels like it crossed the rubicon and there’s no more rational solution to solve their large institutional crisis in this case, birth rate and family formation, they will enact irrational policies, and everyone will suffer.

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@jessie.gill3

1y↑100

As an Indian, I can relate to it all. 💯 I think parent’s involvement, gender roles and other such customs is same all over Asia.

@la381

47w↑5

Not the same.😂 "Asian" is not a monolith.

@endisnear306

45w↑3

@@la381 u know india comes under Asia right?!

@basugunja

44w↑2

Very well said Jasmine.

@Starcraftghost

41w↑4

@@endisnear306Yes, Indians are Asians. However, customs are not the same all over Asia, hence, it cannot be treated as a monolith. The difficulties that Koreans face sounds constrictive for me, a Filipina who now lives in the US.

@endisnear306

41w↑1

@@Starcraftghost india is very diverse, the whole North East has the typical "Asian" Custom. The indians u met in the USA are mainly those who might be central and South Indian.

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@nohellomad

1y↑105

As a Korean American, this is very fascinating. I had no idea all this was going on and I don't think I really saw it with my own family. I do remember my grandmother asking me why I - the granddaughter - was in the kitchen. I thought she was being progressive when she told me to focus on school instead of learning recipes...except the reason she said it was because she assumed I'd have to pick up the cooking/baking skills once I got married because "men are useless in the kitchen." What stood out to me is that she viewed cooking as a chore to be done for husbands, not a fun hobby or skill that someone might want to pick up for their own satisfaction. I told her I want to cook nice dishes for MYSELF. She didn't get it lol.

@create306

30w↑2

Confucian culture smh

@liopleurodon155

11w

I think grandparents do not know how much it hurts their grandchild's marriage prospects when they perpetuate these rigid rules.

@koreanpizzaclub

1y↑141

Hope you enjoyed the first episode! Please subscribe, like and comment :) Any feedback, topic/guest suggestions would be appreciated!

@yp3794

1y↑8

religion in Korea, having Korean students (university) come on the podcast to share their perspective, while they are students, former trainees who failed at debuting and what it's been like for them, or former, not that popular idols, mental health professionals talking about mental health in Korea, or an episode on mental health (I am always curious how accurate or not Kdramas at portraying mental health issues- WAIT, this an excellent idea for a series on your podcast (KDrama vs. Kreality: panelists dating, beauty standards, money, self-esteem, family issues, etc- identifiying similarities and differences with popular kdramas). Hope my ideas turn some wheels in your head.

@gigigi333

1y↑1

Nice episode! Interesting and entertaining.
I have a topic suggestion. It might be boring and too serious for the podcast tho. Years ago, PD of Form of Therapy did either a video or a podcast and mentioned that–if we'd like to–they could talk about why cannabis consumption is such a taboo in South Korea. They never did a new ep about that topic, but since then I'm interested about the historical and societal background on that, and also about the marijuana crackdown after the 70s, how's people perceive drug consumption nowadays and how SK government deals with alcoholism issues.

@gigigi333

1y↑1

And I'm the one who asked if we can have Emily Haydel as a guest (not for the mj topic tho)🤭😬

@gigigi333

Also, may I suggest a collab with Korean Cowboys Podcast? KPC + KCP

@lilyh.4174

1y↑2

Hi David! I have a guest suggestion! His name is Leo Chun (that's his channel name). He's a Korean youtuber but speaks spanish too and has lived in Mexico before and is very familiar with the dating style and culture here in the west. He makes videos about international dating and I believe it would be really cool (deabak hehe) if you could have him in a future episode sharing his insight, and seeing what you and other koreans think about it, share opinions.
Great episode! I personally believe this (finding a life partner) has just gotten so complicated not only in Korea but all over the world, although the pressure and style in dating does vary a lot which makes it interesting.
I hope to meet you one day. Keep up the amazing work! 🤗

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@melon8258

1y↑190

David, you did a great job facilitating the discussion, and I especially like that everyone had different thoughts and perspectives.

I personally enjoyed hearing Kelsey as she brought in a lot of insights and approached each question as to why things are the way they are. I hope to see more of her in future episodes.

@joannebaker4925

1y↑281

I'm not Korean but an American and of your parents' age. Loved the conversation. It was very insightful and informative about segments of the Korean culture and some of the thought processes behind some of Korean ideology .As a Westerner and a parent of a daughter who is a single working mother. I can say I'm very proud of the choices my daughter has made. If she gets married and it's what she wants, I'll be fine with it, and if she doesn't get married, then I'm fine with it as well. It's her life, and she has to walk her own path. I gave life to her, but she doesn't owe me anything or should live her life for me. I hope that, as a parent , I have provided her with the tools necessary to make the best life choices for herself.

@SodiumSyndicate

1y↑6

You are destroying your daughter.

@Luminous.A.Glory_VitaNostra

1y↑4

❤❤❤

@inquisitvem6723

1y↑2

There is a lot of pressure being married to a Korean for sure.

@joannebaker4925

1y↑61

@Sodium Syndicate That's your opinion, and you certainly is entitled to it. I didn't have my daughter for her to live her life for me. She walks in her own skin and has her own thoughts, wishes, wants, and desires. Many of us Westerners are about individuality to some degree, and I am not apologetic about it. Just as my daughter respects me, I have to do the same in showing her respect. Of course, some of the decisions that she makes, I don't always agree with, but it's her life, so she has to live with the consequences of those decisions but as her mother,I'm always going to be there to support her and cheer her on. I'm not my daughter's oversear,put on this earth to control her, I'm her parent, here to guide, support, encourage and give her tools to live by. Marriage is not for everybody, and neither is being a parent. All I can to you@SodiumSyndicate is if you are a parent or when you become a parent, you have an opportunity to make that child into a thoughtful human being, not control their every moment and decision. How then do they grow and learn if we as parents are making most of the critical decision for them. Life is about experiences, learning, and growing. My daughters life is her own. When I leave this earth, she won't die for me or vice versa, so it's up to her to live the best life possible.

@anniedeedrix6732

1y↑9

Your daughter chose to give her child a one parent home by choice ? So the child will never know what its like to have a father is it ? Perhaps the cheering of single parent homes is the reason why america is filled with single mother homes and according to the prison stats in the usa , most prisoners come from single Mother homes , not single parent but specifically single mother homes . If the father is not in childs life as a result of his death , my apologies , other than that , willingly being a single parent should not be cheered because its denying a child the love , protection and guidance from the other parent . Its rare that children that come from single parent homes grow up not feeling the absence . How many bfs did the child not witness the mother having? Single parents tend to expose their kids to things that married parents do not . Ones child should not see parents rotating partners yearly or see parents having flings .

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@judyherman6289

1y↑73

OMG, I have followed all of you separately and together for years. My favorite thing with all your channels has been the insight into the Korean culture. Seeing Korea from your eyes has been an amazing journey. I was so devastated when DKDKTV took a break shortly after BTS took theirs. It was too much for my heart to handle. I'm over-the-moon that you have come back with a new channel, and I can't wait to see who you bring as guests and what topics you discuss.

PS: I really appreciate that you are trying to keep this channel PG rated. It makes watching so much more enjoyable for me.

@kaitlyndreyling41

1y↑1

Same <3

@SeeVolmr

1y↑65

I liked this format...it was fun. And as a married American mom, your conversation made me kinda sad. My husband did use his paternity leave and was very active in our children's upbringing. For that I'm very thankful. The reliance (throughout Korean culture) on the Myers Briggs test is terrifying! It's not even an accurate test! Good luck to all of you!

@RR-et6zp

1y↑1

We dont mind providing for our family with resources if she takes care of it in other ways, and yeah food is like love in a plate. She already wants someone better than her in every metric though, taller, stronger, higher socioeconomically etc, get real. + if she preserved her value , we'll build up our value. If she does the housework then we'll pay for everything no a problem. I think laziness is the only thing that isn't wanted. If we both work then ok cool she doesnt have to make food but we each pay for our half then. However I would argue women want to be provided for and dont want to pay half so.. we'll see where society goes.

@wuncieadams1352

1y↑1

What is the MyersBriggs test

@SeeVolmr

@@wuncieadams1352 It is a personality test originally designed for the workplace. It has 8 "results" in 4 categories. The first category (letter) for example is "Extrovert" E or "Introvert" I... The problem is that most people are Ambiverts and land somewhere in between or change based on the situation... And that "somewhere inbetween" is true for all four categories! So how accurate can it be?! for some reason Korean people rely heavily on a person's test result for hiring and DATING! Koreans in the media are often identifying themselves with their MBTI - like an astrological sign! If you google it, you can learn a lot about it.

@ceruhermandez9651

1y↑6

@@RR-et6zp Lmfaooooo wtf

@doujinflip

27w

@@wuncieadams1352A personality test and categorization scheme. Not terribly precise but the four traits it measures does have some correlation to the five or six characteristics modeled in the actual science of psychology.

@asa463

1y↑27

How are kids left out till 11 pm and 2 am just for studying? That is disastrous! WTF!

@Vistacraft82

51w↑5

That's contributing to the high suicide rate in Korea. What sort of "studying" is that? I doubt even Einstein studied that much. The work load and brain stretch is beyond a healthy comprehension.

@user-xg8ov6yz4w

1y↑63

It's really interesting discussion and good to know how korean influencers think about their society. I'm a Japanese and We have a common sense for the gender role but when it comes to a dating culuture, korean seem to feel much more lonleiness and pressure for being a single. I would say maybe Japan
is a best single–friendly country all over the world. Here we can go almost everwhere alone. Some analysts say it's a cause of the low birth rate in Japan but it's interesting to see that Korea has such a very low birth rate despite of thier intense dating culture.

@szewei85

42w↑2

I think most married Japanese rather raise their kid outside their country hahahaha At least in my neighbourhood of Kuala Lumpur 9
/10 apartment neighbours of mine are Japanese family who father is corporate mogul and mother is fulltime mother with their kids study in KL Japanese school So yeah if the Japanese wanna mingle better moved out of Japan

@cutiepie-726

22w

Not really. The single women of Japan over 35+ in Japan tend to import men from overseas. I have lived in Japan and do not think it is single friendly

@thoughtprocess97

1y↑84

As a Nigerian living in CA, the challenges outlined in this video applies in my culture as well. We have very similar cultures. Excellent content!

@ayemad

1y↑1

Which ones?
Nigerians are obsessed with marriage and having children.
Never will have a negative birth rate. So which negatives exactly?

@nadiaaouadi4266

1y↑9

I'm in north africa (Tunisia) like literally, this 100% how it is here too hhh

@thoughtprocess97

1y↑19

@@nadiaaouadi4266 I bet. It is crazy how the Asian culture is so similar to that of Africa. Even when Asians talk about having "tiger moms" that brag about their children's IQ - I can easily relate. We are more similar than we differ.

@FuKuNinja

1y↑4

@@thoughtprocess97 that how a lot of cultures are

@HereDiianas

1y↑3

@Thought Process I agree, I am French/Congolese and relate a lot with other African cultures even from the North like Tunisia or Morocco although I am not from a Muslim countries. And I feel the same with Korean India or even Vitnamese cultures. Which are cultures I happened to know better thanks to friends.

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@phaedra5283

1y↑221

It amazes me how much a woman has to shut her life down when pregnancy happens no matter how successful she is, no matter what country. I feel bad when women have to do this because it's stressful to think about returning to work or not.
Edit: It boggles the mind that society wants women to do this but everything involving us doing so is so expensive like medical, day care, therapy especially if she has to stop working to do so.

@tanjakragelund3380

1y↑28

In Scandinavian countries it is not quite like that. The mother is assured full wage for approximately 6 months after giving birth and would then often take another 6 months funded by private insurance, which most people have.. Parental leave laws have even changed recently , so 3 months are now specifically for the partner, meaning that if the partner does not take these 3 months, they are wasted. This means that it has become normal for men to have 3 months of parental leave alone with the child. It makes the burden on companies more equal whether they have female or male employees, which in turn should make pay more equal. And it makes the men more used to looking after the kid and doing house chores (and respect their spouse when they find out being a housewife is not like having nothing to do). I have very high hopes for how this might influence gender equality in future generations in Denmark. ❤

@rocketman3770

@@tanjakragelund3380 that's why your nations are largely homogenous and dont allow mass immigration to overload the system🤣

@2DarkHorizon

1y↑3

@@tanjakragelund3380 I agree people always blame it is hard to have a baby because lack of support however this influence isn't as great as people mention. Studies show married people on average have two children on average. The actual problem is getting married in the first place. Just not enough people getting married or getting married too late. For example 25 percent of first marriages in Japan is at 50!

@tanjakragelund3380

1y↑7

@@2DarkHorizon It surely is different getting married in Denmark. First of all, it is not seen as a much. In fact, a lot of people choose to start having kids and then getting married (by choice not accident). Secondly, marriage in Denmark is not like 2 families uniting. They will most likely only see each other at special occasions. In my case, the first time our parents met was at the wedding. And I did not get any obligations towards his family after the marriage. Of course, I would often visit them together with my husband, but they would remain his responsibility (or perhaps not even that) - never mine. It is not something new. It was the same for my parents (and I am 51 y. o.).

@2DarkHorizon

1y↑2

@@tanjakragelund3380 Denmark is interesting by what you said people having kids before marriage. It isn't that accepted in asian countries. Anyway I would need some statistics to confirm the extent of it. However the start to everything is dating or just man and woman meeting up for a partner. If that requirement can't be meet easily problems will start. I made another comment earlier that in a survey in Japan 40percent of men between 20 and 30 never had a date in their life. So basically no dating experience the chances of marriage drop by a lot.

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@soobeanie

1y↑139

Love how we are all so different ❤✊🏻

@RR-et6zp

1y↑1

@anupamraj3922

49w↑1

well tbh you were the only one out of all 3 that was normal and respectful/respectable...rest 2 are tr@sh ACC. From all of my experience, I can say where they coming from...and there is a word for these types of women here in western and that is delusional, who are going to live their whole life at home full of cats.

@sal636

1y↑19

As a Bengali-American girl, I'm really enjoying this video so far. Many points are relatable and it is refreshing to hear them talked about from your perspectives. A lot of Asian cultures intersect in terms of cultural and household norms, not just Asian but worldwide

@shysonnet

1y↑83

Please keep this going I absolutely love this group dynamic and going deep on such important topics!

@RR-et6zp

@earljaycaoile5071

1y↑47

This channel is gonna be big someday! Just keep working at it

@koreanpizzaclub

1y↑6

I appreciate that!

@evetterodriguez8624

1y↑25

Such a great panel! Enjoyed listening to each individual’s beliefs/ opinions about the topics introduced. I think you’re getting somewhere David. There cannot be change unless people speak up and start being the change. Hope all goes well with your show!
P.S.. Do NOT change the show’s name. I think it’s unique and sparks the audience’s interest!

@sophiekropman7394

1y↑21

Children of Greek and Italian immigrant parents went through the exact same thing despite being brought up in the West in Australia. Culturally Greece progressed ahead however immgirant kids found themselves trapped in cultural practices and expectations that had long died in the original homeland. The in laws, the expectations of mothers and wives, the wedding rigmarole, if you're dating someone for an extended period the expectation was that you give 'logos' which is a commitment to marry. It's very similar to contemporary Korean culture. I'm floored at the similarities!!!

@shwetaghosh6193

1y↑45

Literally felt like you guys are my friends and we were catching up. And Anna's comments of just, you know once they die....lol, I burst out in laughter so hard!
And David be like, but death is not the solution. You guys are hilarious
I enjoyed this so so much! Please make much more videos on a lot more topics, and I love the cast of the four of you, please do bring more together💜

@LeiSalazar

1y↑46

Keep Anna and Kelsey around👍🏼

@alperry02

43w↑1

Yes!

@patrickt49

1y↑20

Everything they said about education I 100% agree with. It's all about ego stroking amongst the parents while the kid suffers and ultimately the parents could have just invested the money and their kid would be way ahead of their peers financially instead of stressing over a limited amount of jobs that most kids aren't even going to get. This is what I exactly said to one of my parents.

@amalmed9753

1y↑11

I enjoyed this quite a lot. I love how spontaneous and conversational it is. And i love how comfortable you guys are talking about this.

@May-ze5xt

1y↑15

I love the concept already. I am ready for more 🍕 talks with a good variety of ingredients/people/subjects.

@RR-et6zp

@MichelaMangiaracina

1y↑9

I thought MBTI was developed to help us all understand and accept each other, not judge each other. The book I first heard about it from in the '90s was called "Please Understand Me."

@joyh8382

1y↑5

I love this! You created a great atmosphere for such discussions. Although I am not Korean, I was raised in an envirement with similar issues, and it's nice to see serious topics like this and everyone's perspective being shared in such a casual envirement. I am also learning Korean out of pure love for the language and culture, and content like this creates a great opportunity for me to learn about current cultural subjects from a Korean's perspective. I learned a lot. I also subscribed, and am looking forward to the next epidose!

@farmgirl8310

1y↑19

You guys are awesome possum for putting this out. I am Canadian and there are so many concepts you all mentioned that would fly like a lead balloon here. You're generational pioneers for those in your society who are ready to do things differently. Looking forward to upcoming episodes .

@RR-et6zp

@shemac1482

1y↑1

@RR dude you just keep spamming that comment in threads that are completely unrelated to the original comment. Move on.

@mitzkt1679

1y↑14

This was informative and entertaining! I subscribe to all of your channels individually. It’s nice to see you all together! Will definitely tune in for more.

@andile5945

1y↑7

The similarities across different cultures are quite striking given the distances between them either ocean or land. E.g., the gifts, gender roles, contemporary sentiment, etc.

@itsnlee

1y↑4

I've been hoping and waiting for a segment like this from the 4 of you for some time, since each of your channels talk about these topics. But it's even more refreshing to see you all discussing this more in depth together. Looking forward to more "podcast" style videos.

@siouxsan5705

1y↑132

The whole exchange on mothers in law blew me away. I am a mother in law and there is no way as a human being I could act like that to the person my child chose to marry. I rarely contact my in law children unless it is something necessary. I’m gobsmacked by this.

@jayr7781

1y↑39

difference between western and eastern marriages.
In east your basically marrying the whole family.

@edgehodl4832

1y↑10

why the need to be so judgemental? every culture is different. just because you find it unacceptable, does not mean you are better. you coming here with "better than you" attitude, i wish people were more understanding and less judgemental.

@my_oppas_oppais

@@edgehodl4832 most foreigners cherrypick and also make generalizations of korean men, discarding actual statistics and evidence that claim foreign societies require much more understanding than their twitter and tiktok-given knowledge, of how the default thought of all men here being misogynist, perverts and controlling-minded beings, which is just plain out stupid. if such were to be the arguments, in 2023 there are just as much if not more things to criticize how women here are so demanding of men in dating culture as well as marriage and work-life, but if there is a factor that is infact true is that due to confuscionism, the korean society- similar to many east asian countries- historically had wives basically having to indoctrinate themselves to the traditions and housework of the husband's family, including doing worshiping for the dead.
with the introduction to secularism here in korea (more than 60% increase of the youth now being secular in comparison to the previous pre-1980s born generation), as well as various liberal culture influence, such depths of tradition has been on depletion since the 2000s which the numbers back it up.

@dathunderman4

1y↑11

It's just a cultural difference. Why do you even watch shows centered on Korean culture if you're just going to be "gobsmacked?" It's a completely different culture, Western culture has its aspects that would "gobsmack" a person from the East as well. Your comment clearly has this xenophobic undertone to it, like wtf do you mean "as a human?" Do you think Asian ppl don't know how to act "as a human?"

@Quilly-Sammy

1y↑13

@@dathunderman4 probably just cultural shock?

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@IsalandiaIsalina

1y↑23

The first episode was very insightful, successful and entertaining!
Can't wait to see what's to come!!!! Kelsey's energy was lower than normal but she still was her fun talkative self🤩
Ps: I'm Soobean when it comes to marriage and kids🙈

@RR-et6zp

1y↑1

@Stylefusionworld

1y↑15

David, this was an amazing conversation! It's refreshing to get a modern Korean POV of dating, marriage, children etc. which IRL we don't get to see outside of K-Dramas. Especially from women like Kelsey, Anna and Soobeanie. Love all those ladies. This was FIRE. Keep up the great content!

@zamzamguled9760

1y↑9

Idk what changed but Kelsey is looking so pretty and a lot calmer in this video❤. I really like this group. I hope to is Channel blow up 🔥

@maryannbansan3376

1y↑6

This is my first time to listen to koreans talk in depth about korean 'family' kulture. Enjoyed this a lot and learned a lot. Thanks.

@savage1510

1y↑3

Great discussion and panel. I actually enjoy Kelsey more laid back and insightful without cursing

@sophierebekah

1y↑3

Don't change the name!!!! It's so original and creative and interesting, it makes a lot of sense immediately and it's very relevant to your themes, 10/10 ^^

@lisamzw553

1y↑34

Good to see Anna, David, Kelsey and Soobeanie together. Perhaps if child care or nurseries were more popular, it would enable more women to return to work after having a baby. I realise it's a big change and a different mindset.

@user-ti5um5ek1t

1y↑1

In our culture we have parents and grandparents and family members taking care of the children if women go to work but most of the time women can stay home with the children. Women stay home and take care of the babies. They should let women stay home taking care of the children. Men should go out to work and make money.

@serenity8901

1y↑3

@@user-ti5um5ek1t Wish it was like that in the states. Plus we have to pay a ton to have a baby. Insurance covers somethings, but if you have complications during or after pregnancy it gets pricey for some people.

@nmoomoo

48w↑2

@@user-ti5um5ek1t the thing is many women want to work for themselves and build their own careers and interests outside of childrearing

@di7209

47w↑2

@@user-ti5um5ek1tomen don’t want to do that though? You put all that work into getting your dream job and have to give it up forever? Who wants to do that.And also womenhave never just stayed at home they’ve always worked Because for most of history people were too poor worldwide to afford one parent not bringing in an income

@minsugamaxsalt

1y↑43

Soobeanie is so positive, she seems like a great friend to have

@amandar3467

1y↑4

I love the name and David's interpretation! I also think of community and sharing when I think of a pizza pie which is what the podcast seems to be about too. Awesome first guests ✨

@katherinejimenezmatos2009

1y↑4

Wow, this was such a rich and insightful discussion!
So interesting to see different perspectives and key points met regarding the factors leading to SK's low birth date and desinterest in marriage. This is pretty much a global phenomenon but the factors driving it def change by country and it was really interesting to see your discussion on the factors that might be driving it in SK. Thank you all Kelsey, Anna, David and Soobeanie🙌
Looking forward to the next episode already 🤩

@Lizbeth1203

1y↑3

I'm American & old enough to be your mom, but I have a 24 year old, so I really enjoy your points of view. David & Anna, I'm so glad to see you doing this & enjoy getting to know your two friends as well 😊.

@midorilee3700

1y↑5

Enjoying the topic and look forward to the next. Will catch the remainder after work.

@chaoticresolve2

1y↑6

I loved everything about this show. Well done to you all. Was fascinating.

As someone who has been married for 38 years my advice to you all is to find someone with the same values and principles. Nothing else matters. You can work through problems..life's problems are just solutions waiting to be found...but if you as a couple do not have the same values and principles it makes resolving life's problems very difficult. As a couple you can do anything if you believe in the same things in life. ❤

@Steffy.93

1y↑8

I love this panel discussion. So interesting, perfect cast.

@tayboonl

1y↑3

Thanks for making the podcast David, the dialogue with your friends really bring a lot of insight into Korean culture (both past and present) and more importantly changing attitudes to marriage. Keep it up please !

@police9111

1y↑17

They are basically expressing their feelings and emotions just like any human beings in life.😊

@SLDearing

1y↑4

I love the name. I think it’s great and as a non-Korean who has been watching your channels, it’s really interesting to learn about a Korean perspective from you all, especially since you’ve experienced so much Western culture. Looking forward to the next episode.

@ericahugo7643

1y↑9

Great talk! I love your openness and honesty. It's great to get a deeper understanding of different cultures and seeing different truths. South Africans are very family orientated. I think many of us view marriage as a promise to each other that no matter how much the shit hits the fan we have each other's back.

@aniaweil7193

1y↑12

Love this crew! You have great chemistry and conversation. I just wished Kelsey didn't interrupt others as much when they're speaking.

@Liljame06

1y↑16

Soobeanie seems like an ISFJ. She radiates warmth and kindness!

@laurahimesekai

she said she is ESFP not?

@georgecrumb8442

Myers–Briggs is pseudoscience. It has no scientific or predictive capabilities.

@RR-et6zp

1y↑6

personality types are BS, most psychology is BS

@redluck01

1y↑8

This type of conversation is great. I am a man in the US. I go to work and do work around the house. Marriage is a balance.

@alperry02

43w

Absolutely

@Han-cj2jp

1y↑25

Hi Everyone,
This is a great channel for social topics.
Being a Korean woman and all my life I have been criticized. Mother in law or Monster in laws scare me. All this criticism gave me poor self esteem. Marriage sounds great but it’s all about the right guy.

@TheVallex

1y↑3

This podcast was an amazing surprise! Subjects that interest me a lot :) Can't wait to watch the other episodes

@turtleandbear1179

1y↑3

I really like the different societal aspects that you bring into this discussion. It's far more nuanced than discussions about dating often are. Also: stellar group. Great dynamic between you four.

@tammydinh

1y↑1

Can't believe this is the first episode!!! so good -- can't wait to see what else comes out of KPC!

@SavingDom

1y↑3

I love the wide variety of opinions and perspectives! Also I'm a fan of everyone on this panel individually, so I feel very spoiled seeing you all together lol. I'm so excited for more!🔥

@icingcake

1y↑13

4:15 😆 yes! I’ve seen this!
Great idea - good variety of perspectives on especially issues facing Korean women and love the personal stories like Kelsey’s dad doing dishes lol. It would be amazing if this was a forum to actually help making these societal changes in Korea by sharing these videos - maybe you can invite experts too 😉
No to Singles Club - pizza is cute, toppings sounds like topics lol

@OnMyFingerTips

51w↑9

There was no way I was gonna get married and have kids in Korea. Having your kids go through the stressful school life and military duties is just a sin. I moved out of Korea. Got married, got a kid, living a great life. I just go to Korea every other year to see my parents and friends.

@elviraborromeo5387

1y↑1

Congrats on your new project, David, so happy 4u, ep 1 is so entertaining and fun, informative too

@jkim6518

50w↑3

I stumbled across this video and I thought it was a really interesting and fun listen! I'm Korean myself and have observed the same things, and have some similar concerns expressed in this video. I really liked that we got a range of stances/beliefs from the different panelists on dating and marriage and kids (from more traditional to not traditional), it made the podcast more interesting.

@herstorylives7405

1y↑7

There is an interesting article in the New York Magazine/The Cut: SK Women. The article address all of the topics you all have discussed about marriage, babies, gender issues in South Korea - mostly from the female view about Korean society.

@HortensiaQuirke

1y↑4

This chill Kelsey is giving grad student/researcher vibes.

@HaydennLIVE

1y↑13

This panel is fukn legendary

@rebeccaemmanuel8074

1y↑5

This is interesting because the factors mentioned like parents meeting is common in a lot of other countries but people are still getting married every single year. But I think in general the number of marriages have reduced everywhere. The level of involvement of parents in the marriage though is certainly a huge factor especially when one is dependent on their parent's for payment of a lot of things given the state of the economy. It must be hard.

@melliott3681

1y↑6

Research has shown that people change who they are about every 10 years. So as this happens after marriage, is it a surprise that people realize they aren't in love and no long want to be with someone after years of marriage? We need to normalize that we change throughout the years and need to adjust our partnerships if they no longer meet our needs even if that means divorcing or separating. And we need to do this without condemning people for it, AND protect children so they don't become victims of this. I loved this frank and open discussion about various viewpoints regarding marriage and having children. This group needs to come together for more discussion!! We need more of the Korean Pizza Club, except next time maybe have some pizza at the table...maybe?.....if you're not on a diet....which can be the next topic of discussion, the South Korean high standards of beauty. ALL of you need to stay exactly who you are...which is precious!! I think the name is great, and I understand David's meaning behind using it for this channel, except maybe explain the meaning in the introduction, such as "Welcome to the Korean Pizza Club where just like Korean pizza which celebrates everything as a pizza topping, we welcome all viewpoints." Feel free to use this.

@elenabeee

1y↑2

u should have korean single pizza segments but def keep korean pizza club as a name, it’s so unique and i love the meaning and u could get pizza and drink and wing sponsors and idk it seems like there’s a lot of potential there!

@tzippy_il

1y↑1

Thank you for this Club!
I really enjoyed my time...

@GlobalRevolution4All

1y↑4

I only lived in Korea for a year many years ago, but I like to really observe society around me closely. So this was very interesting. I think it’s funny when you talk about “Korean Korean men.” Anybody who has spent a lot of time there knows EXACTLY what you’re talking about

@sharaineroberts8537

1y↑8

I love this new show. Yes, I am late but I found this show interesting.
The show is interesting to me because as a black American woman born 1965, I see so many parallels in Korean culture from KPOP, K-Drama, women rights to dating and generation understanding, with America. All the issues Korea is going through were once big issues in the States decades ago. They still exist, but not as much as in Korea, especially in big cities. Sorry Anna, but even with older generations dying out, there will always be people who are "traditionalists" who keep the old ways alive. Heck, we have people who still believe the world is flat. 🙄 Anyway, I find this show interesting and think the name is great for the show. I'm looking forward to the next episode.

@nailahdawkins

47w↑2

It's good seeing another Black woman check out this show! This is a interesting set of topics and I found it out via the Shorts clip.

@AsmaaPurity

47w↑1

Amazing how people have same issues all over the world!
I loved th conversation, keep up the good work!

@KangTheDigitalNomad

1y↑12

The sanggyeonrye (상견례) is a formal meeting between the families of the bride and groom before the wedding

That meeting ALONE could dismantle an entire relationship/possible marriage within 30-90 days. There's so many levels if I gave you a book you'd want to roll it up and use it to hit flies or just throw it at someone

@kaihardin5430

1y↑73

It's so awesome to learn more about modern Korean culture from ACTUAL Koreans and not random people pretending to know shit 🤣 I have lived there briefly before but I hope to return back soon and be more immersed in the culture. Learning from you guys has been a lot of fun!

@kaihardin5430

1y↑11

@JuriK I believe Koreans and Korean-AMERICANS are more qualified to speak on issues regarding Korea and Korean life than anyone else.

@georgecrumb8442

1y↑5

Unfortunately, they really don't know shit. They're just YouTubers, not actual scholars who've done research on the topic of marriage, birthrate, and the history of those things. And while they bring their own perspective and personal experience as Koreans, you're better off consulting an expert if you're really interested in this topic.

@la381

47w↑4

These Koreans were raised abroad and have adopted western standards, so they're not "Korean-Korean". I'm one of these Koreans. Koreans don't only live in Korea. You should learn about Korean diaspora.

@la381

47w↑1

@@georgecrumb8442 you're full of sh/t. No wonder all you ate were crumbs.😂

@kaihardin5430

47w

@@la381 I'm aware of that. That's basic logic. That's like how not all African people live in Africa. But I'd accept what these Koreans are saying as opposed to someone of a different race who's never stepped foot in South Korea or met a Korean person trying to give the rundown on what Koreans are like. I also know that this podcast isn't 100% reliable as it's heavily based on the panel's personal opinion. I have media literacy, don't worry.

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@misskristen2023

1y↑2

This episode has been such a breathe of fresh air ❤

@cjaey2210

1y↑4

4 of my favorite Youtubers in one video, yes please :) This is very interesting. Some of the "stereotypes" with gender roles I can relate. Maybe because I'm Asian too. :DCan you also have guests who are non-Korean but have been living there and how is it in terms of cultural differences or just the different opinions between diverse guests on certain topics? Also since cults have come to light more now with documentaries, maybe that's a good topic to discuss and if you can have someone who is either a current member or a former member of a cult. Another suggestion would be how is the working life of people your age - maybe have guests with different occupations and/or very unique jobs.

@HD91436

1y↑6

Being a second generation Canadian East African woman. Its interesting the similarities in how people from my culture also see marriage and dating these days. More are kind of choosing to opt out. Our parents kind of hold these traditional values and mindset as well they expect us to adopt, but our generation really isn’t for it. Like Ontario is really expensive so a lot of us have worked hard in our careers to make good money.

@briandinosaur8335

1y↑4

This is really interesting. Keep it up!

@MC-ww2tv

1y↑1

David- great new show; I absolutely loved it. The topic is relevant in many places and you picked the perfect panel for discussing these issues. I watch you guys all on your other channels but this was something different and very inciteful. I live in the U.S. and as hard as it may be to believe, many things you brought up are very much an issue here as well. In many families, international marriage is frowned upon. Being single (or very happily divorced) especially in your 30's, means being constantly asked "Why arent you looking for someone? Don't you want to be happy? But you need a man!"....it's exhausting (and I live in a liberal area). Family life is not affordable at all, even with one child its practically impossible. We have almost no children where I live, anymore and many schools have been closed because of it. I know very few people in their 30's who have children. On being a mother, that is such a difficult situation...I graduated first in my class from a very difficult/high demand, science field; the top people behind me were all women as well. I watched EVERY SINGLE one of them lose their job upon notifying their employer of their pregnancies, or shortly after childbirth. Saying this discrimination is wrong or illegal, makes no difference; I worked for a company that had a work-a-round way of "getting rid of" female employees once they went on manternity leave. I experienced countless interviews where I was directly asked about my marital plans/childbearing plans....its ridiculous.

@genuinetallguy6318

1y↑17

The girls are looking so damn pretty. David is an awesome host. I subscribed. Hope to see everyone on together often, looking forward to next episode.❤

@police9111

The girls are pretty due to their makeup just like in kdrama.

@bittermochi259

1y↑5

When it comes to gender roles in households Korea is similar to Poland. Nowadays in Poland men take their kids outside and play with them, even 'Mom's baby rooms' are being changed to 'Parent's baby rooms' because so many men are seen with strollers etc. My brothers get involved with kids 50/50, some of my friends have spouses who get more or less involved but the change for the better in seen. So Korea can change just as Poland did. We have similar timeline of social and economic changes time to change this too.

There are also a lot of divorces, single parents or non marriages where kids are being born despite Poland being like 90sth% Catholic, I think the tradition of shaming sb for different choices needs to shift in Korea into meh not my business cathegory. Interesting podcast :)

@rerai5996

1y↑4

HERE FOR KELSEY!!! GO KELSEY LOVE YOUUUU 💕💕💕

@JollyGoodWitch

1y↑1

Fabulous episode! My new favorite podcast!

@quinkim1

45w

Great balanced convo. Big fan of all of you guys & appreciated the varied point of views!

@aussiegutierrez1263

1y↑9

hi david, if korean guys come out of military service, does it affect relationships, like their lives are put on hold and the girls life course have continued, just wondering

@justartt

50w↑3

Yeah I’ve been married to my Korean wife for 5 years and it has not been easy at all. But it is what it is. Great episode 😊

@abbie6195

1y↑2

Loved Kelsey's perspectives!

@annette_164

1y↑2

This is a really interesting vlog👍it’s thought provoking. Hope to see more!

@laisgalindo3933

1y↑1

Can't wait to see Danny featuring in one of the eps, love ya'll

@barbarabee5734

1y↑1

I really enjoyed the talks and especially the guests, have them again! I like the name, don't change cuz all topics are on the table👏👏

@707alice

Personally,i like the podcast's title as it is.
Very intersting topics,loved how you managed the flow of the conversation.
The guests were very entertaining too!
waiting for more episodes :)

@Nani-rk7wt

49w↑7

You guys all did great but I absolutely loved the takes of Kelsey and Anna! Two fierce and inspirational young ladies👏👏

@Driftmonkey

41w

They're the problem they're talking about though. Self centered. Me me me me. They'll learn one day on their deathbed with no children around, no husband, no grandchildren to say goodbye to. But atleast they have their own money and they had a GREAT FUN career, right?!

@TilikaVispute

Saving to watch later because I really want to listen to this one in-depth and utmost focus 🌸✨

@duda_sz_kiwi

52w↑1

Congrats to David and folks, i pretty much enjoyed this episode!!!

@leeroyjenkins867

1y↑1

I'm definitely very keen for this channel though. As an Asian Australian who. will be comign to live in korea next year, i'm keen to see what sort of guests you will have!

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