You Keep Me Hanging On
Lisa Stansfield Lyrics


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Set me free why don't cha babe
Get out my life why don't cha baby
'Cause you don't really love me
You just keep me hanging on
you don't really need me
You just keep me hanging on

Why do you keep comin' 'round
Playing with my heart
Why don't cha get out of my life
And let me make a new start
Let me get over you the way you've gotten over me

Yeah

Set me free why don't cha babe
Get out my life why don't cha baby
'Cause you don't really love me
You just keep me hanging on
you don't really need me
You just keep me hanging on

You say although we broke up
You still want to be just friends
How can we be friends
If seeing you only breaks my heart again

Set me free why don't cha babe
Get out my life why don't cha baby
Set me free why don't cha babe
Get out my life why don't cha baby

You claim you still care for me
But your heart and soul need to be free
Now that you've got your freedom
You want to still hold onto me
You don't want me for yourself
So let me love somebody else

Why don't cha be a man abouti
And set me free
You don't care a thing about me
You're just using me
So go on get out get out of my life
And let me sleep at night
'Cause you don't really love me

You just keep me hanging on

Set me free why don't cha babe
Get out my life why don't cha baby
'Cause you don't really love me
You just keep me hanging on
you don't really need me
You just keep me hanging on





'Cause you don't really love me
You just keep me hanging on

Overall Meaning

The song "You Keep Me Hanging On" by Lisa Stansfield is a cover of The Supremes' hit song from the 1960s. The lyrics describe a tumultuous relationship where the singer is pleading with their partner to let them go. The repeated phrase "Set me free why don't cha babe, get out my life why don't cha baby" express a deep desperation and frustration with someone who is not fully committed to the relationship or who is using the singer for their own convenience.


The lyrics also highlight the unequal power dynamic in the relationship. The partner is accused of only wanting the singer when it is convenient for them and not valuing the singer for who they are. This is shown in the lines "you don't really love me, you just keep me hanging on, you don't really need me, you just keep me hanging on". The singer expresses a desire to move on and start anew, but the partner keeps coming around, playing with their heart and causing them pain.


The repeated plea for the partner to let them go and be a man about it, shows a lack of agency and control that the singer has in the relationship. The partner is seen as holding all the power and the singer just wants to be set free. Overall, the song expresses a yearning for freedom and independence, and a deep frustration with an unequal and unfulfilling relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

Set me free why don't cha babe
Please release me from this relationship


Get out my life why don't cha baby
Please leave me alone and stop playing with my emotions


'Cause you don't really love me
You don't truly care for me, you're just using me


You just keep me hanging on
You're keeping me attached to you, even though you don't want me


You say although we broke up
You claim that we can still be friends after our relationship ended


You still want to be just friends
You want to continue seeing me, but only as a friend


How can we be friends
It's impossible for us to maintain a platonic relationship


If seeing you only breaks my heart again
Interacting with you causes me emotional pain and suffering


You claim you still care for me
You insist that you have feelings of fondness for me


But your heart and soul need to be free
You need space to focus on personal growth and are not capable of sustaining a relationship


Now that you've got your freedom
Now that you're no longer in a relationship, you want to still hold on to me


You want to still hold onto me
You want to keep me in your life as an option


You don't want me for yourself
You don't want to commit to me exclusively


So let me love somebody else
Please allow me to move on and find someone who truly cares about me


Why don't cha be a man abouti
Act like an adult and take responsibility for your actions


And set me free
Let me move on from you


You don't care a thing about me
You're only interested in manipulating my emotions


So go on get out get out of my life
I need you to leave me alone and stop causing me pain


And let me sleep at night
Allow me to find peace of mind and emotional stability


You just keep me hanging on
You're keeping me attached to you, even though you don't want me


'Cause you don't really love me
You don't truly care for me, you're just using me




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