Take It or Leave It
Madness Lyrics


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How come he enjoys himself not me? (I don't know)
How come she smiles a good morning to me?
How do they make a hard day's work easy?
Tell me something I'll put it to the test
Take hold of yourself and you will see
How lucky we are to be free
Now you take for granted
Life and country

How come he jokes with friends but not me?
How can she sing out of tune not me?
How do they find time for kids on Sunday?
I can't express uncalled for agress
You're in one-way traffic can't you see?
Before a head-on crash steer free
When if it's too late
Don't come cry to me

How come they get on with but not me?
How can they walk arm-in-arm happily?
How does that old boy dance down the street?
Tell me something I'll put it to the test
Take hold of yourself and you will see
How lucky we are to be free
Now you take for granted
Life and country

How come we never get on you and me?




How can we find out the remedy?
How does that old lady's home look neat? [Repeat x7]

Overall Meaning

In Madness's song Take It or Leave It, the singer expresses feelings of confusion and frustration towards the seeming joy and ease that others experience, contrasted with their own struggles. The song questions why certain individuals enjoy themselves while others do not, and how some people seem to be able to make a hard day's work easier. The singer wishes for someone to explain how they are able to do this, as they want to put it to the test themselves.


The lyrics suggest that the singer feels left out and unable to connect with others, as they wonder why some people can joke with their friends and sing out of tune without consequence, but they cannot. They express feelings of bitterness towards those who seem to have it easier, but acknowledge the importance of taking hold of oneself to recognize the freedom and fortune of one's own life and country. The song also warns against taking things for granted before it's too late.


Overall, the lyrics of Take It or Leave It express a desire for understanding and a yearning to find happiness and ease in life. The song highlights the importance of appreciating one's own circumstances while acknowledging the struggles of others.


Line by Line Meaning

How come he enjoys himself not me?
Why does he seem to have more fun in life than I do?


How come she smiles a good morning to me?
Why is it that she greets me with a smile every morning?


How do they make a hard day's work easy?
What makes their workday seem so much easier than mine?


Tell me something I'll put it to the test
Give me new information and I'll try it out for myself


Take hold of yourself and you will see
If you get yourself together, you'll have a better perspective on things


How lucky we are to be free
We should appreciate the freedom we have


Now you take for granted
You don't appreciate things as much as you should


Life and country
Our lives and our countries


How come he jokes with friends but not me?
Why does he feel comfortable joking around with his friends but not me?


How can she sing out of tune not me?
Why is it that she can sing badly and not be embarrassed, but I can't?


How do they find time for kids on Sunday?
How do they manage to make time for their children on Sundays?


I can't express uncalled for agress
I can't control my angry outbursts


You're in one-way traffic can't you see?
You're going in the wrong direction and can't see it


Before a head-on crash steer free
Avoid a crash before it happens


When if it's too late
If it's already too late


Don't come cry to me
Don't expect me to comfort you when you're in trouble


How come they get on with but not me?
Why do they get along with each other but not with me?


How can they walk arm-in-arm happily?
How can they walk together so happily?


How does that old boy dance down the street?
What's the secret to that old man's energetic dance moves?


How come we never get on you and me?
Why do we never seem to get along?


How can we find out the remedy?
How can we fix our relationship?


How does that old lady's home look neat?
What makes that old lady's home look so tidy?




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: CATHAL JOSEPH SMYTH, CHRISTOPHER JOHN FOREMAN, DANIEL MARK WOODGATE, GRAHAM MCPHERSON, LEE THOMPSON, LEE JAY THOMPSON, MARK WILLIAM BEDFORD, MICHAEL BARSON

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Richard Taylor

Great track - great band!

João Miguel

Great!!!

Ziggy Pop

This song is sinister, I love it.
'How does that old lady's home looks neat?' Thank you Lee Thompson

Vulture 38

Sinister but with a positive message. Compare with Embarrassment which is an upbeat,dancable tune about a deeply troubling subject.
Such clever musicians.

pekinobo

"When it is too late, don´t come cry to me"
One Massive and such legendary sentence.

Grainne

Brilliant musicians !

Stephen Timoney

Definitely one of my favourites, brings me right back to the early eighties, doing my school homework and listening to Madness on the record player.

Paul O'shaughnessy

Superb tune 👌🏻

vinto34

The drums at the beginning reminds me of a basketball bouncing....great band

WD40

hey it does omg

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