Poor Mum
Nick Drake Lyrics


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Poor mum
Poor mum
After a lifetime of dreaming
Poor mum
Poor mum
Whatever became of your scheming
Nothing worked out in the way that you planned
Nothing was quite as you thought
Try very hard not to misunderstand
Joy as it flies cannot be caught
Poor mum
Poor mum
Where did you take a wrong turning
Poor mum
Poor mum
Pack up that last little yearning
Pack it away with the books and the toys
Silent and bound
Silent and mend




Go out and grab at you life and forget
You are poor, poor mum

Overall Meaning

In the song "Poor Mum" by Nick Drake, the lyrics speak about a mother who has had a lifelong dream that never fully materialized. The song presents a nostalgic, bittersweet exploration of what could have been for the mother, who is now left with only the memory of her aspirations.


The lyrics suggest a sense of confusion and disappointment as the mother reflects on her past and wonders where she went wrong. The lines "Nothing worked out in the way that you planned / Nothing was quite as you thought" convey a sense of regret over lost opportunities and the realization that life has not turned out as expected.


Despite the melancholic tone of the song, there is also a sense of hopefulness and encouragement. The lines "Try very hard not to misunderstand / Joy as it flies cannot be caught" suggest that the mother should not dwell on her past and instead embrace the present moment. The final lines of the song, "Go out and grab at your life and forget / You are poor, poor mum," offer a message of empowerment and suggest that it's never too late to take control of one's life.


Overall, "Poor Mum" is a poignant and introspective exploration of life's disappointments and the importance of moving forward despite them.


Line by Line Meaning

Poor mum
Sorrowful lament for mother's unfortunate circumstances that indicate her unattained desires and aspirations.


Poor mum
An expression of pity for the mother's prevailing situation in life.


After a lifetime of dreaming
Acknowledging that the mother too had dreams and desires that persisted throughout her life.


Poor mum
Repeating the phrase to emphasize the sadness in the situation.


Whatever became of your scheming
Reflecting on the mother's plans and ambitions that have not been fulfilled as life did not turn out the way she had planned.


Nothing worked out in the way that you planned
A statement of fact that things didn't go as planned for the mother in her life so far.


Nothing was quite as you thought
Highlighting the disparity between what the mother had visualized and the reality that she faced throughout her life's journey.


Try very hard not to misunderstand
Encouragement to the listener to understand and not be misled by the mother's struggles and failures in life.


Joy as it flies cannot be caught
An explanation that how one can't hold on to joy and happiness in life forever, as the phase of joy is transitory.


Poor mum
Repeating the phrase to continue with the sentiment of sorrow and condolence.


Where did you take a wrong turning
Questioning the mother's circumstances and trying to understand how things went wrong and where she lost control or direction in life.


Poor mum
Continuing the lament for the mother's plight.


Pack up that last little yearning
Advising the mother to let go of her desires, and packing them up like books and toys that people outgrow, to move on with life.


Pack it away with the books and the toys
Further explanation of the need to pack connections with things that bring nostalgia and block progress to new experiences.


Silent and bound
Describing how the mother may feel- confined and held back.


Silent and mend
Recovery of control and rebuilding life for the self.


Go out and grab at you life and forget
Encouraging the mother to pursue new experiences for herself and focus less on what hasn't worked out thus far.


You are poor, poor mum
A final acknowledgement of the mother's dire circumstances and the profound sense of pity for the mother during these many years.




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Francine Roch

Poor Mum, poor Mum, after a lifetime of dreaming,
Poor Mum, poor Mum, whatever became of your scheming?
Nothing worked out in the way that you planned
Nothing was quite as you thought
Try very hard not to misunderstand
Joy as it flies can not be caught
Poor Mum, poor Mum, where did you take a wrong turning?
Poor Mum, poor Mum, pack up that last little yearning
pack it away with the books and the toys
Silent and dumb, sillent and mum
Go out and grab at your life and forget
You are poor poor ....
Mum?



All comments from YouTube:

redfrogrodeo

I haven’t seen or spoken to my mother in 7 years. She’s a very mental Ill woman with a traumatic past. She caused me a lot of pain and I can’t be around her. I hold no grudge and feel bad for her suffering. When I feel sad about our relationship I listen to this beautiful haunting song.

mikalovfydorzebrowski

Wiw... She uses exactly the same phrasing and melodic soundscape Nick Drake explored. Shows you that sometimes talent of genius doesn't appear out of the blue

Randall Throckmorton

It’s amazing how those similarities can be heard across different genres, instruments and eras. I wonder if she had a family influence herself or did her genius emerge out of the blue.

Jessica Haines

@Randall Throckmorton and isn't it incredible how if Nick Drake is a musical influence, it's also his mother who is your influence! Even if you've never heard her.

Ivory Khan

Molly was NIck's primary influence.

Erik Thorsen

@Randall Throckmorton No. The whole family was remarkably musical. That extends to aunts, uncles, grandparents. They seem to have played nearly constantly.

Oronzo Persano

One of the most brilliant and sublime song that I ever heard here. Thanks you Mum, thank you Molly, Thanks you Nick

Molly Potter - Emotions!

Oh my. How poignant and fatalistic. Mesmerising. Love it.

gloomandglow

This is her best one, by far.

Rich P

Almost impossibly poignant in the light of subsequent events. Lovely even on its own.

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