Ray was born on August 15, 1978 in a small town in South Africa and grew up in the North West area of the country.Dylan kicked off his career by performing in clubs and bars, he performed with fellow South African stars in South Africa. Dylan sings a lot of ballads, and incorporates electric guitar into most of his hits.
Coward of the Country
Ray Dylan Lyrics
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He'd never stood one single time to prove the county wrong
His mama named him Tommy, but folks just called him yellow
Something always told me they were reading Tommy wrong
He was only ten years old when his daddy died in prison
I looked after Tommy, 'cause he was my brother's son
I still recall the final words my brother said to Tommy
"Son, my life is over, but yours has just begun"
Walk away from trouble if you can
It won't mean you're weak if you turn the other cheek
I hope you're old enough to understand
Son, you don't have to fight to be a man"
There's someone for everyone, and Tommy's love was Becky
In her arms, he didn't have to prove he was a man
One day while he was working, the Gatlin boys came calling
They took turns at Becky, n'there was three of them
Tommy opened up the door, and saw his Becky crying
The torn dress, the shattered look was more than he could stand
He reached above the fireplace, and took down his daddy's picture
As the tears fell on his daddy's face, he heard these words again
"Promise me, son, not to do the things I've done
Walk away from trouble if you can
Now, it won't mean you're weak if you turn the other cheek
I hope you're old enough to understand
Son, you don't have to fight to be a man"
The Gatlin boys just laughed at him when he walked into the barroom
One of them got up and met him halfway 'cross the floor
When Tommy turned around they said, "hey look, old yeller's leaving"
But you could've heard a pin drop when Tommy stopped and locked the door
Twenty years of crawling was bottled up inside him
He wasn't holding nothin' back, he let 'em have it all
When Tommy left the barroom, not a Gatlin boy was standing
He said, "this one's for Becky, as he watched the last one fall
(And I heard him say) "I promised you, Dad, not to do the things you've done
I walk away from trouble when I can
Now please don't think I'm weak, I didn't turn the other cheek
And papa, I sure hope you understand
Sometimes you gotta fight when you're a man"
Everyone considered him the coward of the county
The song "Coward of the County" by Ray Dylan tells a story of a young man named Tommy who'd been labeled as the coward of the county. This reputation was due to his refusal to engage in any physical altercations, even when provoked. Growing up, Tommy's father was imprisoned, and he died shortly after, leaving Tom with his uncle. Before his uncle died, he gave Tom some words of advice on how to handle life. He told Tom that he should make a promise never to do the things that he did, walk away from trouble if he can, and that turning the other cheek doesn't mean that he's weak. These pieces of advice stayed with Tom as he grew up, and he lived his life quietly, working hard for a living, and loving a girl named Becky, without ever feeling the need to prove himself strong or brave.
One day, while Tommy was working, the Gatlin boys came and sexually assaulted Becky. When Tommy saw her crying and distraught, he was overwhelmed with emotion, and he grabbed his father's picture. As he wept, Tommy remembered his uncle's words, promising his father he wouldn't be like him, but he also had to protect his love. Tommy went to the bar to fight the Gatlin boys, delivering a beating to them all, in the process proving himself not to be the coward the town always thought he was. The song ends on a note of resolution and a message of bravery that sometimes it takes a fight to be a man.
Line by Line Meaning
Everyone considered him the coward of the county
Everyone thought that Tommy was a coward because he never stood up for himself or his loved ones
He'd never stood one single time to prove the county wrong
Tommy was afraid to stand up to anyone and had never defended himself or his loved ones before
His mama named him Tommy, but folks just called him yellow
Although Tommy's given name was Tommy, people called him 'yellow' or a coward because of his fear of confrontation
Something always told me they were reading Tommy wrong
Despite what people thought, there was more to Tommy than his outward fearfulness and cowardice
He was only ten years old when his daddy died in prison
Tommy's father died when he was young and was never there to guide him through life
I looked after Tommy, 'cause he was my brother's son
The singer felt responsible for looking after Tommy because he was his nephew
I still recall the final words my brother said to Tommy
The singer remembered the last advice that Tommy's father gave him before he died
"Son, my life is over, but yours has just begun"
Even though Tommy's father died, he believed that his son had a bright future ahead of him
"Promise me, son, not to do the things I've done
Tommy's father wanted him to make better choices and not follow in his footsteps
Walk away from trouble if you can
Tommy's father advised him to avoid confrontations whenever possible
It won't mean you're weak if you turn the other cheek
According to Tommy's father, it wasn't a sign of weakness to turn the other cheek in a conflict
I hope you're old enough to understand
Tommy's father hoped that his son was mature enough to understand his advice
Son, you don't have to fight to be a man"
Tommy's father wanted him to know that true strength did not come from fighting or violence
There's someone for everyone, and Tommy's love was Becky
Tommy had found love with a woman named Becky
In her arms, he didn't have to prove he was a man
Tommy was comfortable being himself and did not feel the need to prove his manhood when he was with Becky
One day while he was working, the Gatlin boys came calling
While Tommy was at work, a group of men called the Gatlin boys came to visit him
They took turns at Becky, n'there was three of them
The Gatlin boys assaulted Becky while Tommy was away
Tommy opened up the door, and saw his Becky crying
When Tommy returned home, he found Becky in distress
The torn dress, the shattered look was more than he could stand
The sight of Becky's torn dress and distraught expression made Tommy angry and upset
He reached above the fireplace, and took down his daddy's picture
Tommy retrieved a picture of his father from above the fireplace
As the tears fell on his daddy's face, he heard these words again
While looking at the picture of his father, Tommy thought about the advice his father had given him years before
"Promise me, son, not to do the things I've done
Tommy remembered his father's advice to make better choices
Walk away from trouble if you can
His father's words echoed in his mind as he considered his next move
Now, it won't mean you're weak if you turn the other cheek
Tommy remembered that it was okay to avoid violence even if others saw it as a sign of weakness
I hope you're old enough to understand
Tommy's father had hoped he was mature enough to understand his advice about avoiding violence
Son, you don't have to fight to be a man"
True manhood did not come from fighting or violence, according to Tommy's father's advice
The Gatlin boys just laughed at him when he walked into the barroom
The Gatlin boys taunted and laughed at Tommy when he entered the bar
One of them got up and met him halfway 'cross the floor
One of the Gatlin boys stood up and approached Tommy as he walked into the room
When Tommy turned around they said, "hey look, old yeller's leaving"
The Gatlin boys made fun of Tommy, calling him 'yellow' or a coward
But you could've heard a pin drop when Tommy stopped and locked the door
The room fell silent when Tommy locked the door, showing that he meant business
Twenty years of crawling was bottled up inside him
Tommy had been bottling up his anger and frustration for twenty years
He wasn't holding nothin' back, he let 'em have it all
Tommy unleashed all of his anger and frustration on the Gatlin boys
When Tommy left the barroom, not a Gatlin boy was standing
After the fight, all of the Gatlin boys had been defeated, and Tommy emerged victorious
He said, "this one's for Becky, as he watched the last one fall
Tommy fought for Becky's honor, and took his revenge on the men who had hurt her
(And I heard him say) "I promised you, Dad, not to do the things you've done
Tommy reflected on his father's advice and remembered that he had promised to make better choices
I walk away from trouble when I can
Although he had fought the Gatlin boys, Tommy still believed in avoiding violence whenever possible
Now please don't think I'm weak, I didn't turn the other cheek
Tommy wanted his father to know that he had not backed down or 'turned the other cheek' out of fear or weakness
And papa, I sure hope you understand
Tommy hoped his father would be proud of him and understand why he had fought the Gatlin boys
Sometimes you gotta fight when you're a man"
Despite his desire to avoid violence, Tommy had to fight in order to defend himself and the people he loved
Writer(s): Billy Ed Wheeler, Roger Dale Bowling
Contributed by Noah R. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
Sharlene Erasmus
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Jaco de Jager
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What was the original song before it was perfectly converted to afrikaans?