The Last One To Know
Reba McEntire Lyrics


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I didn't see the fire burn to ashes
I couldn't feel the winds of change
I was lost inside the passion
Blinded by the memory of a flame

I guess I should've felt it when you touched me
I should've seen it in your eyes
Well, I believed you really loved me,
Why can't I believe you said goodbye?

Oh, why is the last one to know
The first one to cry and the last to let go
Oh, why is the one left behind
The one left alone with no one to hold
The last one to know

It would be easier to face the morning
If you were holding me tonight
But you left me without a warning
Holding on to a heartache
While she's holding you tight

Tell me why is the last one to know
The first one to cry and the last to let go
Why, is the one left behind




The one left alone with no one to hold
The last one to know

Overall Meaning

Reba McEntire's song "How Was I To Know" is a powerful anthem about finding strength within oneself after the end of a failed relationship. In the verses, Reba sings about how much her life revolved around her partner, and how every word he said was a promise she clung to. She was swept up in the excitement of the relationship, unable to see the end until he was gone. When the relationship inevitably ended and she was left alone, Reba thought that she would fall apart. She was left with shattered dreams and a broken heart, scrambling in the dark to try to pick up the pieces of her life.


But as the chorus comes in, Reba's tone shifts. She asks, "How was I to know that I'd be OK?" She realizes that she had the strength within her all along to overcome the pain and heartbreak. What she was so afraid of - being alone - turned out to be the one thing that set her free. Now that she has had time to reflect on the relationship, Reba knows that she put too much faith in someone else and gave up on herself. But in learning that lesson, she has become stronger and more resilient than ever before.


Line by Line Meaning

My world revolved around you
I centered my life around you


Every word was a promise I was hangin' on
I trusted every word you said


Swept up inside a whirlwind
I was caught up in a frenzy


I just couldn't see the end till you were gone
I was blinded to the outcome until you left me


I thought I would fall apart
I believed I would crumble


(With) shattered dreams and a broken heart
My hopes were destroyed, and my heart was shattered


Scramblin' in the dark
I was struggling blindly


What I was so afraid of
My fear was unwarranted


Turned out to be my freedom in disguise
My fear was actually liberation in disguise


Now i know what I'm made of
Now I realize my own strength


Guess it just took some time to realize
I needed time to comprehend it all


I was blind, I couldn't tell
I was ignorant to the truth


I put too much faith in someone else
I relied on someone else too heavily


Gave up on myself
I lost faith in myself


How was I to know
How could I have known


That I'd be ok
That I would be fine


Thought I'd lose it all when you walked away
I believed everything would crumble when you left me


I would be this strong
That I would possess the strength I have


I had what it takes all along
I had the strength and ability within myself all along


How was I to know
How could I have known




Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC
Written by: Jane Mariash, Matraca Maria Berg

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Comments from YouTube:

@MonicaGriego22

This song should be dedicated to all Narcissists. ALL! 💔😭

@rebamcentire9997

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@leeshepherd5669

I had been out record shopping all day...Went into a record store called Sam Jams....Saw this album right in front of me as I walked in ..They we're playing it... This song was playing..I froze in my track ,I heard .. 'It would be easier to face the morning ....I heard that as I walked in ...I asked is this album here on display what's playing - This is REBA right ? Yep he said..I said where is the album..?. It wont be out for another week this is a promotional copie he said ... I begged the guy to make me a copie (He had a cassete player right there behind the stand ,,,,Long story short .. He made me a copie gave it to me ..I wore it out before the album came out... Love love love this song..and video Been a die hard REBA fan ever since!1

@WilliamHarrison88

Awesome story. I love it!

@mrbutch

At the ripe old age of 56 I think I finally realize people enter and leave your life. Some stay a long time, some a short time. Some you love, Some you are in love with. But they stay long enough to teach you a new lesson in life. And in the end you become stronger and wiser.

@rhondaboncutter5812

Yeah had a couple of those! I am stronger now! I have been a widow for over 4 years! Miss him, scared to try again!

@gypsytreasures3856

Amen to that

@troydixon2722

The ones that teach u a lesson he'll u still should love I mean cause if they were there that long to teach me a lesson I taught them several

@rebamcentire9997

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@limeforesterry

this is so relevant to me

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