The Last One To Know
Reba McEntire Lyrics


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I didn't see the fire burn to ashes
I couldn't feel the winds of change
I was lost inside the passion
Blinded by the memory of a flame

I guess I should've felt it when you touched me
I should've seen it in your eyes
Well, I believed you really loved me,
Why can't I believe you said goodbye?

Oh, why is the last one to know
The first one to cry and the last to let go
Oh, why is the one left behind
The one left alone with no one to hold
The last one to know

It would be easier to face the morning
If you were holding me tonight
But you left me without a warning
Holding on to a heartache
While she's holding you tight

Tell me why is the last one to know
The first one to cry and the last to let go
Why, is the one left behind

The one left alone with no one to hold
The last one to know

Overall Meaning

Reba McEntire's song "How Was I To Know" is a powerful anthem about finding strength within oneself after the end of a failed relationship. In the verses, Reba sings about how much her life revolved around her partner, and how every word he said was a promise she clung to. She was swept up in the excitement of the relationship, unable to see the end until he was gone. When the relationship inevitably ended and she was left alone, Reba thought that she would fall apart. She was left with shattered dreams and a broken heart, scrambling in the dark to try to pick up the pieces of her life.


But as the chorus comes in, Reba's tone shifts. She asks, "How was I to know that I'd be OK?" She realizes that she had the strength within her all along to overcome the pain and heartbreak. What she was so afraid of - being alone - turned out to be the one thing that set her free. Now that she has had time to reflect on the relationship, Reba knows that she put too much faith in someone else and gave up on herself. But in learning that lesson, she has become stronger and more resilient than ever before.


Line by Line Meaning

My world revolved around you
I centered my life around you


Every word was a promise I was hangin' on
I trusted every word you said


Swept up inside a whirlwind
I was caught up in a frenzy


I just couldn't see the end till you were gone
I was blinded to the outcome until you left me


I thought I would fall apart
I believed I would crumble


(With) shattered dreams and a broken heart
My hopes were destroyed, and my heart was shattered


Scramblin' in the dark
I was struggling blindly


What I was so afraid of
My fear was unwarranted


Turned out to be my freedom in disguise
My fear was actually liberation in disguise


Now i know what I'm made of
Now I realize my own strength


Guess it just took some time to realize
I needed time to comprehend it all


I was blind, I couldn't tell
I was ignorant to the truth


I put too much faith in someone else
I relied on someone else too heavily


Gave up on myself
I lost faith in myself


How was I to know
How could I have known


That I'd be ok
That I would be fine


Thought I'd lose it all when you walked away
I believed everything would crumble when you left me


I would be this strong
That I would possess the strength I have


I had what it takes all along
I had the strength and ability within myself all along


How was I to know
How could I have known




Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC
Written by: Jane Mariash, Matraca Maria Berg

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@nandoism

I didn't see the fire burn to ashes.
I couldn't feel the winds of change.
I was lost inside the passion,
Blinded by the memory of a flame.
I guess I should've felt it when you touched me.
I should've seen it in your eyes.
But I believed you really loved me .
Why can't I believe you've said goodbye.
Oh why is the last one to know
The first one to cry and the
Last to let go.
Why is the one left behind
The one left alone with no one to hold.
It would be easier to face the morning,
If you were holding me tonight.
But you left me without a warning.
Holding onto a heartache while she's
Holding you tight.
Oh why is the last one to know
The first one to cry and the
Last to let go.
Why is the one left behind
The one left alone with no one to hold.



All comments from YouTube:

@stephaniedoyle7171

Powerful Song Hits Hard in 2023

@lindaschmidt3780

…and 2024! 😢❤

@CharlesCarey77

Last one to know always hurts the most....

@michaelsmith_32329_

Hello Anita.. how are you doing?

@CharlesCarey77

​@@michaelsmith_32329_ Thank you and Have an Amazing journey in life. Thanks for your asking.

@CharlesCarey77

​@@michaelsmith_32329_She's a married woman,that says it all keep on stepping

@JDLay-f8u

They don’t make country music like like this anymore cherish it when you have it

@JamesGaines-y6q

I loved her early songs as she was becoming a star ❤

@edgefan4437

It's a Reba's classics kind of day.

@MonicaGriego22

This song should be dedicated to all Narcissists. ALL! 💔😭

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