Sander L Nelson was born on 1 December 1938 in Santa Monica, California. He attended high school with Jan Berry, Dean Torrence (who together became Jan and Dean), and Kim Fowley. After gaining respect as a session drummer, he played on such well-known songs as "To Know Him Is To Love Him" (Phil Spector's Teddy Bears, 1958), "Alley-Oop" (The Hollywood Argyles, 1960), "A Thousand Stars" (Kathy Young and the Innocents, 1960) and more.
Nelson continued to record into the early 1970s.
Mother In Law
Sandy Nelson Lyrics
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She worries me so, mother-in-law,mother-in-law
If she leaves us alone, we would have a happy home
Sent down from below
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
Sin should be her name, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
To me, they're about the same, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
How could she stoop so low?
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
I come home with my pay, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
She asks me what I make, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
She thinks her advice is a contribution
But if she will leave that will be a solution
And don't come back no more
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
Sin should be her name, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
To me, they're about the same, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
Every time I open my mouth, she steps in, tries to put me out
How could she stoop so low?
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
The lyrics of Sandy Nelson's song Mother-In-Law are a humorous ode to the frustrating relationship that can often develop between a person and their spouse's mother. Nelson sings of his mother-in-law as the "worst person" he knows, who worries him so much that he longs for her to leave them alone so they can have a happy home. He describes her as someone who is always stepping in and trying to put him out, always giving unsolicited advice, and always asking about his pay.
The lyrics express the frustration and exasperation that many people feel when dealing with a difficult mother-in-law. The repeated refrain of "mother-in-law, mother-in-law" emphasizes the overwhelming presence of this person in the singer's life. The line "sin should be her name" is a playful nod to the idea of the mother-in-law as a villain in popular culture. Overall, the song captures the universal experience of dealing with difficult family members while maintaining a lighthearted tone.
Line by Line Meaning
The worst person I know, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
The singer considers his mother-in-law to be the worst person he knows.
She worries me so, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
The mother-in-law causes the singer a great deal of worry.
If she leaves us alone, we would have a happy home
The singer believes that if his mother-in-law would leave them alone, their home could be happy.
Sent down from below
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
The singer jokingly suggests that his mother-in-law was sent from hell.
Sin should be her name, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
The singer believes that his mother-in-law is a sinful person.
To me, they're about the same, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
The singer thinks that his mother-in-law and the concept of sin are similar.
Every time I open my mouth, she steps in, tries to put me out
The mother-in-law interrupts the singer and tries to shut him down every time he speaks.
How could she stoop so low?
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
The singer is frustrated with the mother-in-law's behavior and wonders how she could act so poorly.
I come home with my pay, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
The singer returns home from work and encounters his mother-in-law.
She asks me what I make, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
The mother-in-law asks the singer how much money he makes.
She thinks her advice is a contribution
But if she will leave that will be a solution
And don't come back no more
The mother-in-law believes that her advice is helpful, but the singer thinks that the best solution is for her to leave and not come back.
Sin should be her name, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
The singer reiterates his belief that his mother-in-law is a sinful person.
To me, they're about the same, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
The singer reiterates his belief that his mother-in-law and the concept of sin are similar.
Every time I open my mouth, she steps in, tries to put me out
The mother-in-law continues to interrupt and undermine the singer every time he speaks.
How could she stoop so low?
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, mother-in-law
The singer continues to express his frustration with the mother-in-law's behavior.
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