The Union
Taking Back Sunday Lyrics


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I wait around from this still small center
From state to center
Well which one is it?
Just who do you think you are?
(Who do you think you are?)

Well who did you come to
Well is it who I think it is I swear to god
Well is it who I think it is?

You always knew it was on purpose
Yeah what's the point if it don't serve it's purpose
Splits up to focus your eyes couldn't swell
You're built from distractions so brilliantly dull
Well I had a better friend in my worst ..
That I'd rather have then either one of you

Well I never made a scene
(Well they came to me)
I never made a scene
Well they came to me
I didn't have to I didn't have to
Well I never made a scene
I didn't have to I didn't have to
Well I never made a scene

I always know to avoid the issue
Got me alone so I couldn't address you
Don't do this where your making love
Don't get yourself confused
Besides what's it to you?
Well I'm training in my conscience for your
For your confidence
Attacked my lungs with lies still past the time

I didn't have to I didn't have to
I never made a scene
I didn't have I didn't have to
Well I never made a scene
I didn't have to I didn't have to
Well I never made a scene
I didn't have to I didn't have to
Well I never made a scene

I never made a scene
Well they came to me
I never made a scene
Well they came to me

I didn't have to I didn't have to
Well I never made a scene
I didn't have to I didn't have to
Well I never made a scene
I didn't have to I didn't have to
Well I never made a scene




I didn't have to I didn't have to
Well I never made a scene

Overall Meaning

The song "The Union" by Taking Back Sunday seems to be about trying to find one's place in life and dealing with difficult relationships. The opening lines suggest that the singer is waiting around for something to happen, but they are unsure where to focus their attention. The repetition of "Well, which one is it?" suggests that they are feeling conflicted and unsure of the direction they should take. The question of "Who do you think you are?" could be directed at themselves, or at someone else who is pressuring them to make a decision.


The second verse seems to be about a difficult relationship, with the singer saying that "you always knew it was on purpose", suggesting that the other person may have been intentionally causing them pain. The lines "Splits up to focus your eyes couldn't swell/You're built from distractions so brilliantly dull" could be interpreted as the singer trying to distract themselves from the pain by focusing on other things, but ultimately finding that it doesn't help. The line "I had a better friend in my worst" suggests that the singer has been let down by people they thought were their friends.


The final verse seems to be about trying to avoid confrontation and dealing with conflict. The line "I always know to avoid the issue" suggests that the singer is trying to keep the peace, even when they should be addressing problems head-on. The line "attacked my lungs with lies still past the time" could be interpreted as the other person continuing to hurt the singer even after the relationship has ended.


Overall, "The Union" seems to be a song about struggling to find one's place in life and dealing with difficult relationships. The lyrics are open to interpretation, but they suggest a sense of confusion and frustration with the world.


Line by Line Meaning

I wait around from this still small center
I am stuck in the same place without making any progress


From state to center
Trying to figure out where I belong


Well which one is it?
I'm confused and don't know which path to take


Just who do you think you are?
Questioning someone's actions and motives


(Who do you think you are?)
Continuing to question someone's actions and motives


Well who did you come to
Asking who is visiting or coming to see me


Well is it who I think it is I swear to god
Expressing surprise or disbelief about who is coming to see me


Well is it who I think it is?
Continuing to express surprise and disbelief about who is coming to see me


You always knew it was on purpose
Accusing someone of pre-planning their actions


Yeah what's the point if it don't serve it's purpose
Asking what good comes from something that wasn't planned


Splits up to focus your eyes couldn't swell
Feeling like my vision is blurry or unfocused


You're built from distractions so brilliantly dull
Calling someone out for being boring or uninteresting


Well I had a better friend in my worst ..
Stating that I would prefer the company of someone else, even in bad times


That I'd rather have then either one of you
Saying that I don't enjoy someone's company and would rather be with someone else


Well I never made a scene
Claiming that I didn't cause any drama or commotion


(Well they came to me)
Implies that someone else started the drama


I always know to avoid the issue
Avoiding conflicts or drama


Got me alone so I couldn't address you
Feeling tricked or manipulated into not being able to confront someone


Don't do this where your making love
Asking someone not to do something in a romantic or intimate location


Don't get yourself confused
Advising someone not to mix up reality with their own perceptions


Besides what's it to you?
Asking why someone else is concerned with something that is none of their business


Well I'm trading in my conscience for your
Compromising my beliefs or values for someone else's approval


For your confidence
Doing something to boost someone else's self-esteem or sense of power


Attacked my lungs with lies still past the time
Feeling suffocated or overwhelmed by the lies someone has told me in the past


I never made a scene
Repeating that I didn't cause any drama or commotion


I didn't have to I didn't have to
Repeatedly stating that I didn't do something that someone is accusing me of doing


Well they came to me
Blaming someone else for causing a problem or confrontation




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: ADAM BURBANK LAZZARA, EDWARD REYES, FREDERICK PAUL MASCHERINO, MARK O'CONNELL, MATTHEW A. RUBANO

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