Getting Out Of Hand
The Bangles Lyrics


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A friend told me yesterday
You've been lookin' for me
If I've been stayin' out of your way
I've done it intentionally

Saw you walking with her (walkin' with her)
Always kept that few steps behind, yeah
Wonder if she knows for sure (she knows for sure)
Her man's goin'on walking the line

Then I say to myself 'beware'
It's getting out of hand (out of hand)
It's getting out of hand (don't look now)
If he's lovin' you, he's not being true
He's got another woman, yeah

Look me right in the eye
Tell me I'm the one that you love
Right back into your lies
Forgetting how determined I was

Then I say to myself 'beware'
It's getting out of hand (out of hand)
It's getting out of hand (don't look now)
If he's lovin' you, he's not being true
He's got another woman, yeah





A friend told me yesterday, hey

Overall Meaning

, have you seen the lyrics to The Bangles' "Getting Out of Hand"? They're a great example of a song about romantic jealousy and suspicion, and the insecurity that can creep in when we begin to mistrust our partners. The song's narrator explains that she intentionally avoided the object of her affections for fear of discovering something she didn't want to see - in this case, that he's cheating on her with another woman.


The lyrics paint a vivid picture of her observing her lover from a distance, watching as he walks with another woman and wondering if she knows that he's not being faithful. The singer is torn between wanting to confront him and wanting to believe his lies, and she struggles to shake the feeling that things are spiraling out of control.


Throughout the song, the singer urges herself to "beware" of the situation, recognizing that her own emotions are getting the better of her and that she needs to be careful not to let her insecurity push her to do something she'll regret. Ultimately, the song offers a poignant reflection on the fear and vulnerability we experience when we're in love, and the ways in which we often struggle to trust those closest to us.


Line by Line Meaning

A friend told me yesterday
Someone told me recently


You've been lookin' for me
You have been trying to find me


If I've been stayin' out of your way
If I have been avoiding you


I've done it intentionally
I did it on purpose


Saw you walking with her (walkin' with her)
I saw you with another woman


Always kept that few steps behind, yeah
You were intentionally keeping some distance from me


Wonder if she knows for sure (she knows for sure)
I wonder if she is aware


Her man's goin'on walking the line
The man she is with is being unfaithful


Then I say to myself 'beware'
I caution myself


It's getting out of hand (out of hand)
This situation is escalating


It's getting out of hand (don't look now)
Things are getting worse and there's no easy way out


If he's lovin' you, he's not being true
If he is seeing you and someone else, he is not being honest


He's got another woman, yeah
He is involved with another woman too


Look me right in the eye
Face me directly


Tell me I'm the one that you love
Declare that you love only me


Right back into your lies
But then go back to telling me falsehoods


Forgetting how determined I was
I forgot how resolved I once was




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: VICKI PETERSON

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