You Really Gotta Hold on Me
The Beatles Lyrics


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I don't like you
But I love you
Seems that I'm always
Thinking of you
Oh, oh, oh,
You treat me badly
I love you madly
You've really got a hold on me
You've really got a hold on me, baby

I don't want you,
But I need you
Don't want to kiss you
But I need you
Oh, oh, oh
You do me wrong now
My love is strong now
You've really got a hold on me
You've really got a hold on me, baby

I love you and all I want you to do
Is just hold me, please, hold me, squeeze,hold me
Tied up. Tied up.

I want to leave you
Don't want to stay here
Don't want to spend another day here
Oh, oh, oh, I want to split now
I just can quit now
You've really got a hold on me
You've really got a hold on me, baby

I love you and all I want you to do
Is just hold me, hold me, hold me, hold me





You've really got a hold on me
You've really got a hold on me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "You Really Gotta Hold on Me" by The Beatles are about the conflicting emotions between love and hate. The singer is in love with someone who doesn't treat him well and he is aware of that fact, but he can't help his feelings. On one hand, he wants to leave this person and detach himself, but on the other, he needs the hold that the person has on him. The chorus, "You've really got a hold on me," is an admission of the singer's weakness and the inability to break free from the relationship. The last verse expresses a desire to leave this person but with the acknowledgement that the hold the person has is very strong.


The song is full of metaphors and comparisons that reveal the singer's emotional turmoil. For example, he says "You really got a hold on me, baby" as if the person has him tied up and he can't escape. He also says "Don't want to kiss you, but I need you" which shows that although he is repulsed by the person's treatment of him, he still can't resist the pull of their presence. Overall, the song illustrates the complexities of love and how it can be difficult to let go even when it hurts.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't like you
I have negative feelings towards you.


But I love you
Despite my negative feelings towards you, I am still in love with you.


Seems that I'm always
You are always on my mind and I can't stop thinking about you.


Thinking of you
You are constantly present in my thoughts.


Oh, oh, oh,
An expression of intense emotions and feelings.


You treat me badly
You mistreat me and do not show me the love and respect I deserve.


I love you madly
Despite your mistreatment, I still love you deeply and passionately.


You've really got a hold on me
You have a powerful and irresistible influence over me that I cannot escape.


You've really got a hold on me, baby
Your hold over me is especially strong because of our intimate relationship.


I don't want you,
I have conflicting emotions and desires about you.


But I need you
Despite not wanting you, I still have a strong dependency and need for you.


Don't want to kiss you
I do not have romantic or physical desires towards you.


But I need you
Despite lacking romantic or physical desires for you, I still have a strong dependency and need for you.


Oh, oh, oh
An expression of intense emotions and feelings.


You do me wrong now
You have started to treat me even worse than before.


My love is strong now
Despite your worsening treatment, my love for you has become even stronger.


Tied up. Tied up.
Feeling trapped and unable to break free from my feelings for you.


I want to leave you
I have a desire to end our relationship and move on from you.


Don't want to stay here
I do not want to remain in this unhappy and toxic relationship any longer.


Don't want to spend another day here
I am unhappy and dissatisfied with our relationship and do not see a future for us together.


Oh, oh, oh, I want to split now
An expression of intense emotions and feelings about wanting to end the relationship and go our separate ways.


I just can't quit now
Despite my desires to leave you, I am still unable to break free from my deep love and attachment to you.


You've really got a hold on me
You have a powerful and irresistible influence over me that I cannot escape.


You've really got a hold on me, baby
Your hold over me is especially strong because of our intimate relationship.


I love you and all I want you to do
My love for you is unconditional, and all I want you to do is show me love and affection.


Is just hold me, hold me, hold me, hold me
I crave physical intimacy and closeness with you, despite our problems.


You've really got a hold on me
You have a powerful and irresistible influence over me that I cannot escape.


You've really got a hold on me
Your hold over me is especially strong because of our intimate relationship.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: SMOKEY ROBINSON, WILLIAM ROBINSON JR.

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