River Man
The Flaming Lips Lyrics


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Betty came by on her way
Said she had a word to say
About things today
And fallen leaves.

Said she hadn't heard the news
Hadn't had the time to choose
A way to lose
But she believes.

Going to see the river man
Going to tell him all I can
About the plan
For lilac time.

If he tells me all he knows
About the way his river flows
And all night shows
In summertime.

Betty said she prayed today
For the sky to blow away
Or maybe stay
She wasn't sure.

For when she thought of summer rain
Calling for her mind again
She lost the pain
And stayed for more.

Going to see the river man
Going to tell him all I can
About the ban
On feeling free.

If he tells me all he knows
About the way his river flows
I don't suppose
It's meant for me.





Oh, how they come and go
Oh, how they come and go.

Overall Meaning

The Flaming Lips's song, "River Man," features Betty, a mysterious character who comes to the singer and tells him about her thoughts and experiences with the changing seasons. She speaks of her uncertainty about whether to welcome the summer rains or wish for them to go away. Betty also tells the singer that she plans to go to the river man to tell him about the upcoming lilac time and the ban on feeling free. She wants to learn about the way his river flows and the night shows he puts on in the summertime.


The river man in the song is a character shrouded in mystery. He is the keeper of knowledge about the river and has the ability to provide answers to Betty's questions. The singer is unable to say whether the information the river man holds is meant for him. The song paints a picture of the transient nature of life and how things come and go. Betty, the river man, and the singer are all temporary beings in a constantly changing world.


"River Man" is a song that is open to interpretation, and it is not always clear what the lyrics mean. However, it is clear that the song is full of symbolism and metaphors about life, death, and the passage of time. The song's cryptic message and haunting melody have made it a favorite among fans and one of the most beloved of The Flaming Lips's songs.


Line by Line Meaning

Betty came by on her way
Betty, an acquaintance, stopped by on her path to somewhere else


Said she had a word to say
She mentioned that she has something important to share


About things today
About current topics


And fallen leaves.
Including things that have passed or are soon to end


Said she hadn't heard the news
Betty admitted she isn't up to date with the latest happenings


Hadn't had the time to choose
Betty hasn't had a chance to make decisions


A way to lose
A method to handle loss or defeat


But she believes.
Despite that, Betty still has faith in something


Going to see the river man
Changing perspectives and seeking the wisdom of the river man


Going to tell him all I can
Sharing everything there is to share


About the plan
About one's current mission or ambition


For lilac time.
For a time of rejuvenation and prosperity


If he tells me all he knows
If the river man shares all his knowledge


About the way his river flows
Teaching another perspective on how things go


And all night shows
Revealing the beauty that occurs in the dark


In summertime.
During times of abundance and growth


Betty said she prayed today
Betty took time to reflect or depend on a higher being


For the sky to blow away
Hoping to relieve oneself of suffering


Or maybe stay
Or perhaps remain unchanged


She wasn't sure.
She had doubts of what will happen


For when she thought of summer rain
When Betty reminisces the feeling of summer rain


Calling for her mind again
Stirring a memory or desire once more


She lost the pain
She finds some relief or solace


And stayed for more.
She asks for more of it


Going to see the river man
Repeating a plan to visit the wise river man


Going to tell him all I can
Sharing as much insight as possible


About the ban
About the prohibition or restriction


On feeling free.
On the absence of freedom of expression and thought


If he tells me all he knows
If the river man offers his complete understanding


About the way his river flows
About how things happen and work


I don't suppose
Unsure of how it applies to oneself


It's meant for me.
It may not be relevant or fitting to one's personal journey


Oh, how they come and go
Reflection about reality and fleetingness


Oh, how they come and go.
Reiteration of that reflection




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Written by: Emily Dickinson, Nick Drake

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Darren Lucas

I worked as a doorman for twelve years, at 3 in the morning this song was my blanket of calm as i drove home.
Thankyou

Edward. Davis 060

Beautiful song, haven’t heard for a while!

AlexAndrA

this is soooo good that melody im hooked , anyone knows more things like this?

truth via music

vetiver's self titled album, adem - homesongs, and kings of convenience. but there's only one nick drake, and this particular song is immaculate.

J B

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snowy white - midnight blues?

Paul Sutton

beautiful😊

Janet Broadley

Why can't ppl blast this on the top deck of the bus instead

Daniel Clutton

Spine shivering

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Alma ....

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