Stand By
The Righteous Brothers Lyrics


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There she goes
Walking with him
Wearing the smile she wore
When she used to be mine

But I know that she'll
Come to my side
The minute he
Tells her goodbye

But my heart won't let me forget
That I'm just a standby
For when he's gone
Even though I know it's wrong

I can pretend
That her love is mine
I can pretend she is there
All the time

But it breaks my heart
To know that I'm
Not her man
I'm just a standby

I know I'm a fool
But I don't care
My heart grows so cold when she's gone
But so warm when she's there

I'd rather be a fool
And share her love
Than to be a man
Who's not involved at all

So I will pretend
That her love is mine
I can pretend she is there
All the time

But it breaks my heart
To know that I'm




Not her man
I'm just a standby

Overall Meaning

The Righteous Brothers's song "Stand By" is a heart-wrenching ballad about a man who is hopelessly in love with a woman who is with another man. The song begins with the singer seeing this woman walking with her new man and wearing the same smile she wore when she was with him. He knows that she will come back to him the minute she is done with her current man, but he also knows that he is just a standby for her. He cannot forget about her, even though he knows that what he is doing is wrong. He continues to pretend that her love is his, but it breaks his heart to know that he is not her man, he is just a standby.


The tone of the song is one of resignation and sadness, as the singer knows that he cannot be with the woman he loves, but he cannot help but continue to be there for her when she needs him. He would rather be a fool and share her love than be completely uninvolved in her life. The lyrics are powerful and evoke strong emotions in anyone who has ever been in love with someone they cannot have.


Overall, "Stand By" is a beautifully written and performed song that explores the complexities of love and heartbreak. It is a timeless classic that continues to resonate with audiences decades after its release.


Line by Line Meaning

There she goes
I see that woman walking away


Walking with him
She's walking next to another man


Wearing the smile she wore
She seems happy and content in his company


When she used to be mine
She was once my girlfriend or partner


But I know that she'll
I am confident that she will


Come to my side
Return to me


The minute he
As soon as he


Tells her goodbye
Breaks up or ends their relationship with her


But my heart won't let me forget
I can't help but remember


That I'm just a standby
I'm only an option or backup


For when he's gone
In case he's no longer with her


Even though I know it's wrong
Although I realize it's not right


I can pretend
I can imagine or act as if


That her love is mine
She cares for me and loves me


I can pretend she is there
I can visualize her being with me


All the time
Always by my side


But it breaks my heart
It hurts me deeply


To know that I'm
Realizing that I am


Not her man
I'm not her main or only romantic partner


I'm just a standby
I'm just someone she can turn to when needed


I know I'm a fool
I'm aware that I'm foolish or naive


But I don't care
But I still want to pursue her


My heart grows so cold when she's gone
I feel lonely and empty when she's not around


But so warm when she's there
But happy and elated when I'm with her


I'd rather be a fool
I'd rather act foolishly


And share her love
To be involved in a relationship with her


Than to be a man
Instead of being someone


Who's not involved at all
Who has no connection or relationship with her


So I will pretend
I'll keep imagining


That her love is mine
Believing that she loves me


I can pretend she is there
Visualizing or dreaming about her presence


All the time
Consistently and constantly


But it breaks my heart
But it still hurts me


To know that I'm
To understand that I am


Not her man
Not being her only or primary romantic partner


I'm just a standby
I'm just an option or back-up




Lyrics © Sentric Music
Written by: William Medley

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