So Lonely
The Whigs Lyrics


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SHE’S BRINGING ME BACK TO 1960 AGAIN
WHEN WE MET ON THE FRONT PORCH OF HER FATHER’S HOME
AND SHE SAID THAT SHE’D NEVER LEAVE ME
SO I SAID I’D NEVER LET HER GO

HEY!
I DON’T WANNA BREAK DOWN WHY I’M FEELING SO LONELY WHEN YOU’RE AROUND
HEY!
I DON’T WANNA BREAK DOWN WHY I’M FEELING SO LONELY WHEN YOU’RE AROUND

SHE’S MAKING IT UP THAT SHE WAS MISTREATED SOMEHOW
I DON’T KNOW…
…BUT I GOTTA KILL HER ANYWAY

WELL I TRIED MY BEST TO MAKE HER LISTEN
BUT SHE LEFT ME LONG AGO

HEY!
I DON’T WANNA BREAK DOWN WHY I’M FEELING SO LONELY WHEN YOUR’E AROUND

HEY!
I DON’T WANNA BREAK DOWN WHY I’M FEELING SO LONELY WHEN YOUR’E AROUND

TELL ME WE’RE THE GREATEST GIRL
DON’T YOU DISCONNECT ME
DON’T YOU DISCONNECT MY WORLD

PUT OUT THE FIRE NOW
I’M GONNA TAKE YOU HIGHER NOW

HEY!
I DON’T WANNA BREAK DOWN
HEY!
I DON’T WANNA BREAK DOWN
WHY I’M
FEELING SO LONELY




I’M FEELING SO LONELY
I’M FEELING SO LONELY WHEN YOU’RE AROUND

Overall Meaning

The Whigs's song "So Lonely" is an emotionally charged rock tune about the push and pull of a tumultuous relationship. The singer describes his lover as someone who takes him back in time to when they first met, in 1960, on the front porch of her father’s home. She promised him she would never leave him, and he pledged to never let her go. However, there is an underlying sense of sadness and isolation, as the singer admits that he feels lonely even when his lover is around. There is an unspoken tension between them, as she claims to have been mistreated and he struggles to make her understand.


The chorus of the song repeats the line "I don't wanna break down why I'm feeling so lonely when you're around" twice, emphasizing the conflicting emotions the singer experiences in his relationship. He tries to persuade his lover to stay with him and affirms that they are the "greatest girl," but he fears being disconnected from her world. The song's intense climax features the singer urging his lover to put out the fire and promising to take her higher.


Overall, "So Lonely" captures the complexities of a passionate but challenging relationship, exploring themes of trust, isolation, and communication breakdowns.


Line by Line Meaning

SHE’S BRINGING ME BACK TO 1960 AGAIN
She reminds me of a time when we first met, in 1960 at her father's home


WHEN WE MET ON THE FRONT PORCH OF HER FATHER’S HOME
The place where we first met was on the front porch of her father's home


AND SHE SAID THAT SHE’D NEVER LEAVE ME
She promised that she would never leave me


SO I SAID I’D NEVER LET HER GO
I promised that I would never let her go


HEY! I DON’T WANNA BREAK DOWN WHY I’M FEELING SO LONELY WHEN YOU’RE AROUND
Even though she’s with me, I still feel lonely and I don't want to understand why


SHE’S MAKING IT UP THAT SHE WAS MISTREATED SOMEHOW
She's lying about being mistreated in some way


I DON’T KNOW… …BUT I GOTTA KILL HER ANYWAY
Even though I'm not sure why, I feel like I need to get rid of her


WELL I TRIED MY BEST TO MAKE HER LISTEN
I did everything I could to make her listen to me


BUT SHE LEFT ME LONG AGO
But she's already left me behind


TELL ME WE’RE THE GREATEST GIRL
Tell me that we are the best couple and that we will always be together


DON’T YOU DISCONNECT ME
Don't leave me, don't cut me off


DON’T YOU DISCONNECT MY WORLD
Don't disconnect the world that we've created together


PUT OUT THE FIRE NOW I’M GONNA TAKE YOU HIGHER NOW
Stop the negative emotions between us and let's move forward together


HEY! I DON’T WANNA BREAK DOWN HEY! I DON’T WANNA BREAK DOWN WHY I’M FEELING SO LONELY I’M FEELING SO LONELY I’M FEELING SO LONELY WHEN YOU’RE AROUND
Repeated reminder that I still feel lonely even though you're with me, and I don't want to understand why




Writer(s): Parker Gispert, Timothy Deaux, Julian Dorio Copyright: Lil Dil, Hot Waltz, Chelsea'S Table Jellies Music

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@gonebymidnight2881

One of my favourite bands, you guys bring hope to rock n roll ✨

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I remember when I saw you the first time at outside lands festival, back in 2010 i fell in love with you guys. Greetings from mexico

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Stoked for tomorrow afternoon at the Highball Music Festival in Atlanta!

@Antifa_Alex

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@rmrabi09

this song is my shit!

@tanced

Hey guys, we miss having you next door (on Boulevard). Benjamin still calls it "the house where the Whigs used to live." Sorry we didn't get a chance to say goodbye. So was this your "moving out video"? Regardless, great song! Break a leg.

@WASIII23

chicago tonight. me gusta.

@ConassEirE

Slane Saturday, Bert!

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