Hats Off to Marriage Baby
The Wrens Lyrics


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Chip crack a perfect Plaster
Of what a man how big
White as bath soap, yellow fetch rope
Like a me three times as big

Compare your worth to riches
Dick rank your kiss and tells
At others cursing, show no mercy
Go home team, yeah, go to hell

Locked in, self-collapsing, days of
Fruitless, lengthy, cracking
Well I'll fry

Hats off to marriage, baby
Hats off to maiden names
Marked as Mrs. sex not kisses
How long you think you'll fan his flames

When truth comes to shake your trophies
That failed run woods and hide
Live a life cast, take the cleared path
Hold forth at cozy fireside

Paint me, crack me, crawl me
I'm your woman, shave me, ball me
For your pleasure, pleasure, fear cure
Homestead and pleasure, lonesome
Your equal and hurting your namesake and all

Please, please
Just this once, once
Oh please, please
Listen

Paint me, crack me, crawl me
I'm your woman, shave me, ball me
For your pleasure, pleasure, fear cure




Homestead and pleasure, lonesome
Your equal and hurting your namesake and all

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Hats Off to Marriage Baby" by The Wrens delve into themes of societal expectations, gender roles, and the complexities of relationships. The opening lines describe the facade of masculinity that men are expected to uphold, with references to physical appearance and societal status. The comparison of worth to riches and the ranking of intimacy highlight the judgment and pressure individuals face in fulfilling these roles.


The lyrics also touch upon the idea of self-deception and the toll it takes on individuals in their daily lives. The repetition of "self-collapsing, days of fruitless, lengthy, cracking" suggests a sense of inner turmoil and struggle, possibly stemming from trying to live up to societal standards and expectations. The imagery of being locked in and collapsing mirrors the feeling of being trapped in a cycle of unfulfillment and disillusionment.


The chorus, "Hats off to marriage, baby / Hats off to maiden names," questions the traditional notions of marriage and identity. The reference to maiden names and the expectation of women to take on their husband's last name symbolize the loss of individual identity and autonomy in a relationship. The lyrics challenge these conventions and raise questions about the power dynamics and expectations within marriages.


The repeated phrases at the end of the song emphasize a sense of submission and sacrifice within relationships. The lyrics depict a plea for acceptance and validation, while also highlighting the internal conflict and longing for something more. The juxtaposition of pleasure and fear, homestead and lonesomeness, reflects the complex emotions and experiences that come with love and companionship. Overall, the song delves into the complexities of relationships and the societal pressures that shape them, urging listeners to reflect on their own connections and identities.


Line by Line Meaning

Chip crack a perfect Plaster
Compare and try to imitate perfection


Of what a man how big
Measure yourself against a man's standards


White as bath soap, yellow fetch rope
Pretend to be clean and pure, but actually deceitful


Like a me three times as big
Feel inadequate in comparison


Compare your worth to riches
Base your value on material wealth


Dick rank your kiss and tells
Rank your relationships based on sexual encounters


At others cursing, show no mercy
Judging and condemning others without compassion


Go home team, yeah, go to hell
Rejecting traditional values and embracing selfishness


Locked in, self-collapsing, days of
Feeling trapped and overwhelmed by life


Fruitless, lengthy, cracking
Struggling with unproductive and exhausting efforts


Well I'll fry
Accepting defeat and consequences


Hats off to marriage, baby
Sarcastically acknowledging the challenges of marriage


Hats off to maiden names
Applauding independence and identity


Marked as Mrs. sex not kisses
Reduced to sexuality rather than affection


How long you think you'll fan his flames
Wondering how long you can sustain a relationship


When truth comes to shake your trophies
Facing reality and questioning achievements


That failed run woods and hide
Attempting to escape from mistakes and failures


Live a life cast, take the cleared path
Follow a predetermined path and conform to societal norms


Hold forth at cozy fireside
Seek comfort and security


Paint me, crack me, crawl me
Surrendering and allowing yourself to be controlled


I'm your woman, shave me, ball me
Submitting to masculine authority and expectations


For your pleasure, pleasure, fear cure
Prioritizing others' pleasure over your own well-being


Homestead and pleasure, lonesome
Estranged and isolated despite conformity


Your equal and hurting your namesake and all
Absorbing pain and devaluing yourself for the sake of others


Please, please Just this once, once Oh please, please Listen
Desperately seeking attention and validation




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Written by: The Wrens

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