I Married Sonja
The Wrens Lyrics


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a rain of fast years and times whipped done me whipped good
this very treatment's beaten / this very world way's bush whacked
most bachelor uncles into marrying men
labor day 1930 / they darken dane pavilion
pushing reluctant millions / from innocents to tangle men
i shrine the good past / to polished perfect locket
i carry and stare into / wallow around in
while soon to be ghosts / and pretty tributes look in
their wasted time turned




back flast with thoughts of woman a trip sleep prayer for winning
don't look at me son / with my doings undone and my bushes bending

Overall Meaning

The Wrens's song "I Married Sonja" is a poignant meditation on the experience of growing older, and how our memories of the past can both comfort and haunt us as we approach the end of our lives. The opening lines of the song paint a vivid picture of the singer's world-weariness, as he describes himself as being "whipped down" and "whipped good" by the relentless march of time. He suggests that the world itself has become "bush-whacked," a reflection of the many challenges and hardships that he has seen over the years.


As the song progresses, the singer muses on the choices that he has made in life, and the ways in which he has been shaped by his upbringing and cultural background. He notes that many of his "bachelor uncles" were pushed into marriage by societal expectations and pressures, and suggests that he too may have felt compelled to follow a certain path in life. Yet despite this, the singer still cherishes the past, and carries with him a "polished perfect locket" of memories that he can't help but return to time and time again.


The final lines of the song are perhaps the most poignant, as the singer acknowledges the reality of his own mortality and the fact that he may soon be forgotten. He tells his son not to judge him too harshly for his mistakes and failings, reminding him that we are all flawed and imperfect in our own ways. Overall, "I Married Sonja" is a deeply moving meditation on the complex experiences of aging, memory, and mortality, and a powerful meditation on the human condition itself.


Line by Line Meaning

a rain of fast years and times whipped done me whipped good
I have endured many hardships and challenges throughout my life, which have shaped me into the person I am today.


this very treatment's beaten / this very world way's bush whacked
The harsh realities of life have taken a toll on me, leaving me feeling weary and beaten down.


most bachelor uncles into marrying men
Even those who have sworn off marriage and commitment can be persuaded or forced into it under the right circumstances.


labor day 1930 / they darken dane pavilion
I have vivid memories of a particular event in my past when the world around me seemed to change and become darker and more ominous.


pushing reluctant millions / from innocents to tangle men
The world can be a confusing and overwhelming place, and it can be easy to lose one's innocence and become entangled in its complexities.


i shrine the good past / to polished perfect locket
I hold onto memories of happier times, cherishing them like a precious keepsake that I can always turn to for comfort.


i carry and stare into / wallow around in
My memories are so vivid and powerful that I often find myself lost in them, reliving past experiences and emotions.


while soon to be ghosts / and pretty tributes look in
As I reflect on my past, I am aware of how much has been lost to time, and I am haunted by the memories of those who are no longer with me.


their wasted time turned
The passage of time can be both beautiful and tragic, as it inevitably leads to loss and change.


back flast with thoughts of woman a trip sleep prayer for winning
My past experiences with love and romance continue to shape my thoughts and emotions, and I often yearn for the type of connection and intimacy that only a special someone can provide.


don't look at me son / with my doings undone and my bushes bending
I feel as though I am not living up to my own expectations, and I am ashamed of the mistakes and shortcomings that I have accumulated over the years.




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