Dying
XTC Lyrics


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It frightens me when you come to mind
The day you dropped in the shopping line
And my heart beats faster when I think of all the signs, all the signs
When they carried you out your mouth was open wide
The cat went astray and the dog did pine for days and days
And I felt so guilty when we played you up
When you were ill, so ill
What sticks in my mind is the sweet jar
On the sideboard. And your multicolored tea cozy
What sticks in my mind is the dew-drop hanging off your nose
Shriveled up and blue
And I'm getting older, too




But I don't want to die like you
Don't want to die like you, don't want to die like you

Overall Meaning

The XTC song "Dying" delves into the fear of death and the memories that come flooding back when one thinks about the people they have lost. The song is written from the perspective of someone who is haunted by the memory of a person who died, whom they knew and felt guilty about not being able to help while they were alive.


The lyrics describe how the mere thought of this person returning to mind is frightening. It was in a shopping line that this person died, and the singer's heart beats faster when they think of all the signs. There were likely clues or symptoms that the person was ill and could have potentially been helped. However, the singer couldn't act or intervene, and the person died, leaving them feeling guilty.


The aftermath of this person's death is recounted in the lyrics as well. The cat went astray, and the dog pined for days and days, indicating how deeply the loss was felt by those around the person who died. The singer also mentions feeling guilty for "playing up" the person when they were ill. This could refer to not taking their illness seriously, or not giving them the attention they deserved, which is something that can be difficult to come to terms with after a person has died.


The final verse of the song is particularly poignant, as the singer observes that they too are getting older, and they don't want to die like the person in their memories. The sweet jar on the sideboard and the multicolored tea cozy stick in their mind, along with the image of the dew-drop hanging off the person's nose, shriveled up and blue. It's a powerful image that stays with them, reminding them of the fragility of life.


Overall, "Dying" is a thought-provoking song about mortality, loss, and the difficulty of coming to terms with the death of someone you cared about deeply. It's a reminder to appreciate the people in our lives while we still have them and to try to live life to the fullest.


Line by Line Meaning

It frightens me when you come to mind
The thought of you invokes a sense of fear within me


The day you dropped in the shopping line
I remember the exact day you passed away in the market


And my heart beats faster when I think of all the signs, all the signs
Every memory of the signs that showed your health declining causes my heart to race


When they carried you out your mouth was open wide
As you were carried away, your mouth hung open which adds to the tragedy of your loss


The cat went astray and the dog did pine for days and days
Your pets were also affected by your loss and it took them days to recover


And I felt so guilty when we played you up
I feel remorseful about making jokes at your expense when you were unwell


When you were ill, so ill
You were extremely unwell and I failed to take notice of the severity of the situation


What sticks in my mind is the sweet jar
The one thing that is vividly etched in my memory is the jar of sweets in your home


On the sideboard. And your multicolored tea cozy
I cannot forget the colorful tea cozy placed on your sideboard


What sticks in my mind is the dew-drop hanging off your nose
I cannot shake off the image of the dew-drop hanging from your nose, which made you seem otherworldly


Shriveled up and blue
You looked lifeless and morose due to your illness


And I'm getting older, too
I am also aging, and the thought of mortality is starting to affect me


But I don't want to die like you
I do not want to pass away in a similar way to you


Don't want to die like you, don't want to die like you
I repeat it twice to emphasize my fear of dying like you did




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Written by: COLIN MOULDING

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