It's Hard To Find A Way
Accept Lyrics


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You tried to make me feel
Our love could be real
And I tried, tried to make you feel
You and me have a chance

We tried to understand
Promises have to be kept
But it's only a game
Where both of us hope to win

But I just found the first little cut
And I wonder why, oh God, but so what

It's hard to understand, and find a way
To give you all my life
Hard to understand, and hard to say
To give you all my life

Well, I pretend tonight
Our life is alright
But I feel the weakness now
Of living with a lie

I'm acting sweetness
But I'm burning in hate
'Cause I can't stand you hurting me
The same way I hurt you

But I just found the first little cut
And I wonder why, oh God, but so what

It's hard to understand, and find a way
To give you all my life
Hard to understand, and hard to say
To give you all my life
It's hard to understand, and find a way
To give you all my life
Hard to understand, so hard to say
To give you all my life

It's hard to understand, and find a way
Hard to understand, to understand
Hard to understand, you and me have a chance
To give you all my life
I'm burning in hate 'cause it's just a game
To give you all my life
It's hard to understand, so hard to understand
To give you all my life




Hard to understand, so hard to say
To give you all my life

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to the song "It's Hard To Find A Way" by Accept/DEAFFY discuss the struggles and complexities of a romantic relationship. The song portrays the effort that both partners put into trying to make their love work, but ultimately, they find it challenging to understand each other and find a way to make things work. The beginning of the song depicts the optimism and the initial attempts of trying to make the relationship work. However, as the song progresses, the lyrics reveal the apprehension and reservations towards this relationship. The lines "But I'm burning in hate 'cause I can't stand you hurting me the same way I hurt you" suggest that both partners are experiencing difficulty in the relationship and are struggling with feelings of guilt.


Line by Line Meaning

You tried to make me feel
The other person attempted to manipulate me emotionally


Our love could be real
The other person claimed our love could be genuine


And I tried, tried to make you feel
I attempted to reciprocate those feelings


You and me have a chance
We may still have an opportunity for a relationship


We tried to understand
We both made an effort to comprehend each other


Promises have to be kept
We both made promises that should be kept


But it's only a game
Our relationship seems to be a competition rather than genuine


Where both of us hope to win
We both want to be the one who comes out on top


But I just found the first little cut
I've recently discovered something that's harmed our relationship


And I wonder why, oh God, but so what
I'm questioning why this happened, but it doesn't matter now


It's hard to understand, and find a way
Trying to save our relationship is difficult


To give you all my life
To commit to you fully


Hard to understand, and hard to say
It's difficult to express my feelings


Well, I pretend tonight
I'm putting on a façade tonight


Our life is alright
Our life is not actually alright


But I feel the weakness now
However, I feel vulnerable now


Of living with a lie
Of pretending our relationship is okay when it's not


I'm acting sweetness
I'm putting on a fake persona


But I'm burning in hate
Despite faking sweetness, I'm filled with anger


'Cause I can't stand you hurting me
Because I can't tolerate pain inflicted by the other person


The same way I hurt you
However, I have also harmed the other person in the past


It's hard to understand, and find a way
Saving our relationship is a complicated task


To give you all my life
Commit fully to the other person


Hard to understand, and hard to say
Difficult to express my emotions


It's hard to understand, and find a way
The task of saving our relationship is difficult


To give you all my life
Committing to the other person fully


Hard to understand, so hard to say
My emotions are difficult to express


It's hard to understand, and find a way
Saving our relationship is a daunting task


Hard to understand, to understand
Difficult to entirely comprehend the situation


Hard to understand, you and me have a chance
There still may be hope for our relationship


To give you all my life
To give myself entirely to the other person


I'm burning in hate 'cause it's just a game
The relationship feels competitive and causing me to harbor resentment


It's hard to understand, so hard to understand
The situation is difficult to comprehend entirely


To give you all my life
To give myself entirely to the other person


Hard to understand, so hard to say
It's tough for me to articulate my true feelings




Lyrics © SCHACHT MUSIC (REFERENCE), THE ROYALTY NETWORK INC. , Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: CRAIG MICHAEL WISEMAN, JAMES TIMOTHY NICHOLS, TIM NICHOLS

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stevestilsp

this is phenomenal song !

Beau Brown

One of the most underrated bands

Riccardo

2:07 Esas dos guitarras son increíbles 🎸🎸🎶🎶

Dean Ladue

They were never the same after Udo left the band, guess I'll always love the classic Accept lineup.

Chris W

@septemberfire Only Ac/DC suck ass and are cringey as fuck. Accept though are timeless. This music still holds it's own without the 80's cheese factor most bands used.

Clarkké Peterson

No doubt

septemberfire

of course it's like if angus were to leave ac dc

Louis Csanko

AS THE YEARS FLY BY I APPRECIATE THIS. AWESOME BAND FROM SOLINGEN, GERMANY// I LOVE THIS MUSIC// IT TAKES ME BACK TO THE MID 80'S// SOME HEAVY METAL CRAZY NIGHTS \,,,/

Larry Nault

Hard to "ACCEPT" that we are only young once, thanks friend! Sincerely.

Buckweed 6820

Accept. This Album kicks ass period.. They can't make metal like this anymore..

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