Not the Same
Ben Folds Lyrics


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You took a trip and climbed a tree
At Robert Sledge's party
And there you stayed 'till morning came
And you were not the same after that

You gave your life to Jesus Christ
And after all your friends went home
You came down, you looked around
And you were not the same after that

You were not the same after that
You were not the same after that

You see 'em drop like flies from the bright sunny skies
They come knocking at your door with this look in their eyes
You've got one good trick and you're hanging on you're hanging on...
To it

You took the word and made it heard
And eased the people's pain and for that
You were idolized, immortalized
And you were not the same after that

Walking tall, you'd bought it all
And you were not the same after that
Till someone died on the water slide
And you were not the same after that

You see 'em drop like flies from the bright sunny skies
They come knocking at your door with this look in their eyes
You've got one good trick and you're hanging on you're hanging on to it

(ooh ooh ooh ooh)
(You were not the same!)
(ooh ooh ooh ooh)

You see 'em drop like flies from the bright sunny skies
They come knocking at your door with this look in their eyes
You've got one good trick and you're hanging on
you're hanging on:





You're hanging on
You're hanging on

Overall Meaning

The opening lines of Ben Folds's song Not The Same describe a transformative experience the singer had while attending a party: he climbed a tree and stayed there until morning, only to come down to find that he was "not the same after that." The song goes on to describe various other experiences that altered the singer's life, such as giving his life to Jesus and becoming a religious fanatic, and achieving fame as a musician only to be brought back down to earth by tragedy. The recurring lyric "you were not the same after that" underscores the theme of transformation and the idea that one event, one decision, or one realization can completely change a person's life.


The song can be read as a commentary on the nature of identity and how it can sometimes shift dramatically over the course of a single incident or moment. The singer seems to be grappling with the fact he can never be the same as he once was, no matter how hard he tries or how much he longs for that old self. Instead, he must embrace the person he has become, for better or for worse.


Overall, "Not The Same" is a powerful, introspective song that speaks to the universal experience of change and transformation. It reflects on the various forces that can shape us, and how they can sometimes be out of our control.


Line by Line Meaning

You took a trip and climbed a tree
You experienced something new and adventurous


At Robert Sledge's party
You were somewhere you don't usually go


And there you stayed 'till morning came
You didn't leave when others did, you stayed longer


And you were not the same after that
This experience changed you in some way


You gave your life to Jesus Christ
You had a religious conversion


And after all your friends went home
You were alone with your new beliefs


You came down, you looked around
You returned to reality and took stock of your surroundings


And you were not the same after that
Your new beliefs changed you in some way


You see 'em drop like flies from the bright sunny skies
People around you are falling victim to something


They come knocking at your door with this look in their eyes
People are seeking help from you


You've got one good trick and you're hanging on you're hanging on...
You have one skill, and you're trying to keep it relevant


You took the word and made it heard
You spread a message and made it popular


And eased the people's pain and for that
Your message helped people in some way


You were idolized, immortalized
You became a beloved figure and your message lived on


And you were not the same after that
Your newfound fame and impact changed you in some way


Walking tall, you'd bought it all
You had achieved success and felt confident


And you were not the same after that
Your success changed you in some way


Till someone died on the water slide
A tragedy occurred


And you were not the same after that
The tragedy changed you in some way


You're hanging on
You're trying to hold onto what you've achieved




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: BEN FOLDS, BENJAMIN SCOTT FOLDS

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@SuperballsSupervidsOnYT

In the 90s I knew Brick by Ben Folds 5.

I knew nothing about Ben Folds until the Sing Off.

When he did this song with the crowd on that show I thought it was awesome. And never really heard such a beautiful crowd part. This was about 2 months before my wife and I married.


I checked out Rockin' the Suburbs and it is now one of my favorite albums of all time.

My wife and I played The Luckiest as our first dance at our wedding.



@instinctivelychelsea2905

You took a trip and climbed a tree
At Robert Sledge's party
And there you stayed 'till morning came
And you were not the same after that

You gave your life to Jesus Christ
And after all your friends went home
You came down, you looked around
And you were not the same after that

You were not the same after that
You were not the same after that

You see 'em drop like flies from the bright sunny skies
They come knocking at your door with this look in their eyes
You've got one good trick and you're hanging on you're hanging on...
To it

You took the word and made it heard
And eased the people's pain and for that
You were idolized, immortalized
And you were not the same after that

Walking tall, you'd bought it all
And you were not the same after that
Till someone died on the water slide
And you were not the same after that

You see 'em drop like flies from the bright sunny skies
They come knocking at your door with this look in their eyes
You've got one good trick and you're hanging on you're hanging on to it

You see 'em drop like flies from the bright sunny skies
They come knocking at your door with this look in their eyes
You've got one good trick and you're hanging on
you're hanging on:

You're hanging on
You're hanging on



All comments from YouTube:

@JellyGoat666

I was in this crowd. What a song, man…

@MyGran

Long Lost Cousin Ben. Thanks Guv.

@ericcarlisle

Sang along in Baltimore, MD w/ Ben & the Baltimore Symphony Orchestra. A completely amazing experience! We love you Ben & the BSO!!!

@Tw0shedz08

I’d love to be able to be in a crowd like this just once.

@Porkleaker

Yeah wish he came here, all I've seen is Tool and Sigur Ros both awesome but this is more up my alley now lol.

@Abergstrom8

I was fortunate to see Ben in Glasgow in 2015 or 2016 ish and when he played this song, I got shivers as the audience did this singing part. It was amazing!

@rishoutfield2043

I effing love this version of the song. And I also like that shot of the crowd...and only one person is on their cellphone.

@charlisparkles

Regret so much not making it to Ben Folds live gig some 10 years ago ... this is too awesome.

@stevegoodson9022

Ben Folds has two instruments and plays both masterfully, his piano (or little red keyboard) and the audience

@sleepingdeadman1

I miss the screaming of "you were not the SAAAAAMMMMEEE" that occurs around 3 minutes in on the original... but this is still great.

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