The members of the band are Ben Folds, the lead singer and pianist, who also wrote most of the songs; Robert Sledge on bass; and Darren Jessee on drums. The group enjoyed the success of the single Brick in 1997, a ballad written by Folds (with a chorus by Jessee) about his high school girlfriend getting an abortion. This song has, to a large degree, misrepresented the band to fans who aren't familiar with their other work; "Brick" is a serious ballad, whereas most of their music is characterised by jazz inflections and witty, humorous lyrics.
After the band's not-so amicable breakup in October 2000 over Ben's over shadowing of Sledge and Jessee, Folds began a solo career. Robert Sledge's subsequent band International Orange has broken up, while Darren Jessee is the frontman for the band Hotel Lights.
Folds once described their music as "punk rock for pussies" - a reaction to the angst prevalent in 90s rock. When asked about his band's name he jokingly responded "you mean a trio isn't five?". In other interviews the band said that the name was simply because Ben Folds Five sounded better than Ben Folds Three.
Ben Folds has continued with producing music on his own, striking a subtler tone than Ben Folds Five's earlier recordings. His personal relationship with William Shatner has opened the doors for a great professional one. Ben Folds produced William Shatner's album Has Been and they have since worked together on The 'Over The Hedge' soundtrack.
On September 18, 2008 at the UNC Memorial Hall in Chapel Hill, North Carolina, the band reunited for the first time in nearly 10 years for one special gig playing their critically acclaimed final album: The Unauthorized Biography of Reinhold Messner in its entirety.
The House Songfacts reports that the trio got together in 2011 to record three new Ben Folds Five songs for the compilation,The Best Imitation of Myself: A Retrospective.
Their 4th studio album "The Sound Of The Life Of The Mind" released September 18th, 2012. A live album titled "Ben Folds Live" released soon after on June 3rd, 2013.
Another live album "The Complete Sessions at West 54th" originally recorded in June of 1997, released on July 10, 2018.
Mess
Ben Folds Five Lyrics
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Oh, this mess I have made
But then things got complicated
My innocence has all but faded
Oh, this mess I have made
And I don't believe in god
So I can't be saved
In this mess I have made
All the untested virtue
The things I said I'd never do
Least of all to you
I know he's kind and true
I know that he is good to you
He'll never care for you more than I do
But I don't believe in love
And I can't be tamed
All alone as I've learned to be
In this mess
I have made the same mistakes
Over and over again
There are rooms in this house that I don't open anymore
Dusty books of pictures on the floor
That she will never see
She'll never see that part of me
I want to be for her
What I could never be for you
But I don't believe in god
So I can't be saved
All alone as I've learned to be
In this mess I have made
The lyrics to Ben Folds Five's song "Mess" tell the story of someone who has made mistakes and created a mess out of their life. At first, the singer acknowledges that they had nothing to explain and that they had made a mess. However, as things become more complicated, their innocence fades and they come to realize that they are all alone. The singer doesn't believe in God, so they can't be saved from the mess they've created.
The song then goes on to discuss how the singer has made the same mistakes over and over again. They talk about rooms in their house that they no longer open and dusty books of pictures on the floor that someone else may never see. The singer wants to be someone different for this person but acknowledges that they don't believe in love and can't be tamed. They end the song by repeating that they are all alone in this mess they have made.
Overall, the lyrics to "Mess" are heartfelt and honest. They convey the struggles of someone who has made mistakes and is trying to come to terms with who they are and what they've done. The song's lyrics are relatable to many people who have made mistakes in their lives and can't seem to find their way out of the mess they've created.
Line by Line Meaning
There was a time when I had nothing to explain
I once had a simple life without any complications or mistakes to defend.
Oh, this mess I have made
I am now responsible for a chaotic and troublesome situation that I have created.
But then things got complicated
My life became more complex and difficult to manage.
My innocence has all but faded
I have lost my purity and naivety through my actions and experiences.
And I don't believe in god
I have no faith or belief in a higher power or divine being.
So I can't be saved
There is no salvation or redemption for me from a godly force.
All alone as I've learned to be
I have become isolated and self-sufficient due to my lack of trust in others.
All the untested virtue
I have not yet been tested or challenged morally.
The things I said I'd never do
I have gone back on my own promises and acted against my moral code.
Least of all to you
I never intended to hurt you specifically, but I did so anyway.
I know he's kind and true
I recognize that the person you are with is a good and genuine person.
I know that he is good to you
I acknowledge that your partner treats you well and cares for you.
He'll never care for you more than I do
I still love you and believe that no one could ever love you more than I do.
But I don't believe in love
I do not have faith or trust in love as a concept or emotion.
And I can't be tamed
I am untamable and unable to be controlled by others.
In this mess I have made the same mistakes
I continue to make the same errors and cause the same problems.
Over and over again
I repetitively fall back into the same patterns of behavior and actions.
There are rooms in this house that I don't open anymore
There are parts of myself and my past that I keep hidden and closed off from others.
Dusty books of pictures on the floor
Memories and photos of the past that have been neglected and forgotten.
That she will never see
The person I am with now will never know about my past or these hidden parts of myself.
She'll never see that part of me
I will never open up and reveal my past or innermost self to my current partner.
I want to be for her
I desire to change and become a better person for my current partner.
What I could never be for you
However, I realize that I could not be this person for my past partner.
In this mess I have made
Once again, I am in a chaotic and troublesome situation that I am responsible for creating.
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BEN FOLDS
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