Too Bad on Your Birthday
Joan Jett and the Blackhearts Lyrics


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I heard your best friend say
You shouldn't have treated her that way
You could've been a little bit kinder
He didn't send you no note
Didn't give you no gift
He didn't even try to find ya
Well, that's too bad, too bad
Too bad on your birthday
I said it's too bad, too bad
Too bad on your birthday
You were my love once
It lasted several months
And I was in love even blinder
When you left me I cried
All my tears haven't dried
So I'm leavin' this little reminder
Oh, it's too bad, too bad
Too bad on your birthday
Oh, too bad, too bad
Too bad on your birthday
And now you're the girl
With cake on her face
Yeah, you're the one who's cryin'
Blow out the candles and make a wish
If you need a drink, babe
I'm buyin', yeah
Too bad, too bad
Too bad on your birthday
I said it's too bad, too bad
Too bad on your birthday
Woe, too bad, too bad
Too bad on your birthday
I said that's too bad, that's too bad




Too bad on your birthday
That's too bad

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Joan Jett and the Blackhearts's song "Too Bad on Your Birthday" convey a message of sweet revenge. The singer reflects on a past relationship and how the person treated her badly, and despite her pain, decides to return the favor. She does so by wishing that person a happy birthday, but do so in a slightly passive-aggressive manner. She mentions that their mutual friends think poorly of him, and then wishes him "too bad" on his special day. What makes the song unique is its playful tone, which makes the vengeful lyrics almost feel like a joke.


One interpretation of the song is that it is about the joy that comes from getting revenge. The lyrics convey a sense of satisfaction that the singer feels from seeing her ex-partner hurt. The line "Blow out the candles and make a wish, if you need a drink babe I'm buying" is especially telling because it shows the singer extending an olive branch to her former partner while also realizing that their negativity has no effect on her anymore. The song demonstrates that despite the hurt she may have gone through, the singer has moved on and is comfortable in her position of power.


Line by Line Meaning

I heard your best friend say
I overheard your friend telling you that you were unkind to her


You shouldn't have treated her that way
You acted inappropriately towards her


You could've been a little bit kinder
You should have shown more compassion


He didn't send you no note
He didn't mail you a letter


Didn't give you no gift
He didn't provide you with any present


He didn't even try to find ya
He didn't attempt to locate you


Well, that's too bad, too bad
That's unfortunate


Too bad on your birthday
It is unfortunate that this happened on your birthday


I said it's too bad, too bad
I repeat, it is unfortunate


You were my love once
You used to be my romantic partner


It lasted several months
Our relationship continued for a number of months


And I was in love even blinder
I was blindly and deeply infatuated with you


When you left me I cried
I shed tears when you walked away from our romance


All my tears haven't dried
I am still deeply emotional about our separation


So I'm leavin' this little reminder
I am leaving you this message as reminder


Oh, it's too bad, too bad
Once again, this is very unfortunate


And now you're the girl
Currently, you are the individual


With cake on her face
Who has birthday cake on her face


Yeah, you're the one who's cryin'
You are the person who is currently weeping


Blow out the candles and make a wish
Extinguish the candles on your cake while making a desire


If you need a drink, babe
If you need a beverage, my darling


I'm buyin', yeah
I will purchase it for you


Woe, too bad, too bad
Once again, this is very unfortunate


That's too bad, that's too bad
Very unfortunate indeed


Too bad on your birthday
What an awful way for your birthday to be ruined




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: A. RESNICK, C. KARP

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