Don't Say You Win Don't Say You Loose
Neil Young Lyrics


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Don't say you love me
That's what she said
Don't say you love me
That's what she said

Hey baby
I'm your man
I know I treated you bad
But I'm doin' the best I can

Now is not the time
To cash it in
I'm with you babe
I've always been

And I got to tell you baby
That our love is strong
And I'm the one
The one that did you wrong

Don't say you love me
That's what she said
Don't say you love me
That's what she said

Hey baby
Don't count me out
I still got a lot to give
Stick around and find out

I might surprise you
With what our love still brings
I'm never quiting you
Even if you quit me

And I got to tell you baby
Our love is strong
And I'm the one
The one that did you wrong

Don't say you love me
That's what she said
Don't say you love me
That's what she said

Don't say you love me
Don't say you love me




Don't say you love me
Don't say you love me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Neil Young's "Don't Say You Win Don't Say You Loose" portrays a man's attempt to mend a relationship after having mistreated his partner in the past. The titular phrase serves as a reminder that by saying "I love you," he might be causing more harm than good. Instead, he focuses on reassuring his partner of his loyalty and the strength of their love. He acknowledges his shortcomings and expresses his desire to make things right, asking for another chance to prove his worth. The lyrics' overall tone is apologetic but steadfast in his commitment to making the relationship work.


The song's message can be interpreted as a call for communication and trust in a healthy relationship. By avoiding empty promises and focusing on actions, the singer seeks to build a more honest and meaningful connection with his partner. The repetition of "don't say you love me" emphasizes the significance of actions over words in romantic relationships.


Neil Young is known for his inclusion of political and social commentary in his music. However, "Don't Say You Win Don't Say You Loose" is a more personal and introspective work, drawing from his own experiences and emotions. The song was released on the album "Landing on Water" in 1986 and received mixed critical reviews.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't say you love me
The singer is asking the person not to express their love for them.


That's what she said
The person being addressed has previously made this statement.


Hey baby
The singer is addressing the person they are speaking to in an affectionate manner.


I'm your man
The artist wants the person they are addressing to see them as someone they can rely on.


I know I treated you bad
The artist acknowledges that they have not always treated the person they are addressing with the respect they deserved.


But I'm doin' the best I can
The singer is trying to improve their behavior and make things right with the person they are addressing.


Now is not the time
The singer is indicating that the current moment is not an appropriate time for the person they are addressing to give up on their relationship.


To cash it in
The person being addressed may be considering ending their relationship, and the artist is suggesting that they should not do so at this moment.


I'm with you babe
The artist wants the person they are addressing to know that they are committed to the relationship.


I've always been
The artist wants the person they are addressing to know that their commitment to the relationship has not wavered.


And I got to tell you baby
The singer is preparing to express a significant thought or feeling to the person they are addressing.


That our love is strong
The artist believes that their love for the person they are addressing is powerful and resilient.


And I'm the one
The singer is admitting that they are responsible for harming the person they are addressing.


The one that did you wrong
The singer is acknowledging that their actions have caused harm to the person they are addressing.


Don't count me out
The singer requests that the person they are addressing does not give up on their relationship just yet.


I still got a lot to give
The artist wants the person they are addressing to know that there is still value in their relationship and that they have more to offer.


Stick around and find out
The artist is inviting the person they are addressing to remain in the relationship and see what the future brings.


I might surprise you
The singer suggests that there may be positive developments in the future of their relationship.


With what our love still brings
The singer wants the person they are addressing to know that there is still potential for their love to bring them happiness and fulfillment.


I'm never quiting you
The artist is indicating that they are committed to remaining in the relationship with the person they are addressing.


Even if you quit me
The artist is indicating that they will continue to love and support the person they are addressing even if they choose to end their relationship.


Don't say you love me
The artist is repeating their earlier request that the person they are addressing not express their love for them.


Don't say you love me
The singer is repeating their earlier request that the person they are addressing not express their love for them.


Don't say you love me
The artist is repeating their earlier request that the person they are addressing not express their love for them.


Don't say you love me
The singer is repeating their earlier request that the person they are addressing not express their love for them.




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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

A Burden

@Ricky Hunt Everyone has a price. And if they live long enough they will
contradict themself or morph into something unrecognizable.
He is Canadian but lives forever in US. He gets a new wife. He had
a giant house in Hawaii on sale for over 10 million US. He's a rockstar!

As for memory, it's a tricky thing. I accept Rob is trying to say that there were rules or there was time when things were simple. Don't kill the Mafia
guy in front of family and so on. Now (skip last 2 years) it is pick a pronoun, 'body positivity' means celebrate morbidly obese. Now, it's

spray an extended magazine in a general direction, maybe shooting your
enemy, when a punch or two years ago sorted it. Sperm count-down.
Plastic in the fish in the ocean. Just ask Bruce Jenner. Cheers.



Ricky Hunt

@A Burden He has lived for years in the US and became an American Citizen a few years back don't see a contradiction there lots of people move to America and still love their homeland.

To my knowledge Neil hasn't done commercials or anything like that So I'm not saying he has ever sold out or anything just pointing out he was a rarity.

As for the Body positivity or Obese debate it's interesting because they're people who are obese yet are in Great shape and don't have many health issues look at sports I mean there's tons of obese guys who are great athletes NFL has plenty of Linemen, Boxing and MMA have had Champions that were fat and samd goes for Rugby and Obviously Sumo. That debate is a lot more complex than it seems.

The Jenner thing was ridiculous I mean if you're going to come out as Trans and push for more acceptance of the Trans community maybe you shouldn't back politicians who are hostile to them that was a dumb decision. There needs to be some sort of middle ground reached there.

People are full of contradictions it's a part of human nature life itself is a bit of a contradiction. There have been musicians that haven't sold out from every generation but they're always the exception not the rule. It's also far easier to refuse to take money for an endorsement or something if you already have plenty of money. Neil is from a time when people had to buy music which meant record labels and artists made a lot of money therefore labels often let the artists have more creative freedom and there was less incentive to do commericals, endorsements, etc. I remember a few years ago Neil said something like he didn't have a issue with people downloading music online and not paying for it and the band Cracker criticized him because he made all his money back then and didn't have to stuggle to pay the bills because of the huge losses of revenue for labels and artists because of piracy. It's easier to stand by your principles when you are rich and successful.



All comments from YouTube:

neilyoungchannel

Hi, this is Neil. Link to the NYA info-card for this song with press, documents, manuscripts, photos, videos. Look around NYA for fun and listening! ALL my music in high resolution at https://neilyoungarchives.com/info-card?track=t1988_0108_01

Trucker Kev The Paid Tourist

404 on link. OH NO WE COULDN'T FIND THE PAGE

Daithi Wright

Not anymore.

Ricky Rudd 28 Texaco Havoline Ford

404 for me. Lol

Daniel Osullivan

Thanks for being, Neil ✌️

David Price

Neil who? Armstrong? Neil Diamond??

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junglechick13

This song popped into my head today. Thanks Neil, keep it strong.

My Google Email

he's a putz.

art vallejos

@My Google Email
Never heard of you. Never heard any of your songs. You must not be any good.

Andjulia

@My Google Email why because he doesn’t believe in the same crap you believe in?

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