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We dance in the kitchen on Boxing Day
I held you swaying in my arms to Marvin Gaye
Our Christmas ham turned green by New Year's Eve
We weren't hungry anyway
Now sometimes we see eacdh other on the street
Maybe at a hotel or some party
We say hello then we have to go
I can't believe we were married
That we were wed
Our houses were a shambles, our love conspiracy
Your hand was always down my pants
Before our guests could leave
They didn't like our drugs, our children or our dogs
The way we made it up each day
Now the kids have grown, we talk on the phone

If one of them is sick or needs some money
Our words are dry, so measured and polite
I can't believe we were married
That we were wed
Now maybe if I'm with someone you come into my mind
The one I knew with your certain little cries
You're not the only one to come rushing in
It's like a party line
Yeah sometimes we see each other on the street
Maybe at a concert or some party
We say hello talk about the show
I can't believe we were married
Yeah we say hello then we have to go
You send your regards to all my family
And the years have changed even the sound of your name




I can't believe that we were married
That we were wed

Overall Meaning

The song 'I Can't Believe We Were Married' by Paul Kelly, is a poignant reflection on a failed marriage, highlighted by the vivid imagery of the kitchen dance on boxing day, which later contrasts with the detached and polite phone conversations between the former lovers. The opening line, "We dance in the kitchen on Boxing Day", creates a sense of nostalgia and an almost aching yearning for a time that has passed.


The line about the Christmas ham turning green by New Year's Eve is suggestive of the couple’s carelessness and adds a sense of decay to the imagery, indicating that their enjoyment of life was at the cost of their responsibilities. The third verse of the song, “Our houses were a shambles, our love conspiracy / Your hand was always down my pants / before our guests could leave”, reveals that the husband and wife were indulging in drugs and sex before friends and family, and this might have contributed to their break-up later on.


The chorus, “I can’t believe we were married / That we were wed” emphasizes the disbelief and sadness that the singer feels about his marriage. Sentiments like these are reflected throughout the song in phrases such as "our words are dry, so measured and polite" and "the years have changed even the sound of your name". Therefore, this song tells a heart-wrenching story of a relationship that once bloomed with life, love, and companionship but has now wilted away to a mere memory.


Line by Line Meaning

We dance in the kitchen on Boxing Day
We had fun dancing together while cooking on the day after Christmas.


I held you swaying in my arms to Marvin Gaye
I held you close and swayed to the music of Marvin Gaye.


Our Christmas ham turned green by New Year's Eve
The ham we cooked for Christmas turned bad and was spoiled by New Year's Eve, but it didn't matter because we weren't even hungry.


We weren't hungry anyway
We didn't need food to enjoy each other's company.


Now sometimes we see each other on the street
Occasionally we run into each other while out in public.


Maybe at a hotel or some party
It might be at a hotel or a party where we see each other.


We say hello then we have to go
We exchange greetings and then have to part ways.


I can't believe we were married
I find it hard to believe that we were once married and now things are so different.


Our houses were a shambles, our love conspiracy
Our homes were in disarray and our relationship was our own little secret.


Your hand was always down my pants before our guests could leave
You were always affectionate and would try to be intimate even when we had company over.


They didn't like our drugs, our children or our dogs
Our friends and family didn't approve of our lifestyle, children or pets.


The way we made it up each day
We would argue and then make up on a daily basis.


Now the kids have grown, we talk on the phone
Our children are now grown up and we communicate over the phone.


If one of them is sick or needs some money
If one of our kids is ill or needs financial assistance, we are there for them.


Our words are dry, so measured and polite
When we talk to each other now, our conversations are devoid of emotion and are very formal.


Now maybe if I'm with someone you come into my mind
Sometimes when I'm with someone new, I think of you.


The one I knew with your certain little cries
I remember the way you would cry in a certain way when we were together.


You're not the only one to come rushing in
You're not the only person I think of, other memories come rushing back as well.


It's like a party line
It feels like a group of people are all talking and sharing their experiences.


Yeah sometimes we see each other on the street
Occasionally we run into each other while out in public.


Maybe at a concert or some party
It might be at a concert or a party where we see each other.


We say hello talk about the show
We greet each other and might briefly discuss the event we both attended.


You send your regards to all my family
You pass along your greetings to my family members.


And the years have changed even the sound of your name
Over time, even the way your name sounds has changed because things are so different now.


I can't believe that we were married
I still find it hard to believe that we were once married and now everything is so different.


That we were wed
I can't believe that we were once married to each other.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: PAUL MAURICE KELLY

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