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My Friends
Red Hot Chili Peppers Lyrics


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My friends are so depressed
I feel the question
Of your loneliness
Confide, 'cause I'll be on your side
You know I will, you know I will

Ex-girlfriend called me up
Alone and desperate
On the prison phone
They want, to give her seven years
For being sad

I love all of you
Hurt by the cold
So hard and lonely too
When you don't know yourself

My friends are so distressed
And standing on
The brink of emptiness
No words, I know of to express
This emptiness

I love all of you
Hurt by the cold
So hard and lonely too
When you don't know yourself

Imagine me taught by tragedy
Release is peace
I heard a little girl
And what she said
Was something beautiful
To give, your love
No matter what
Yeah, what she said

I love all of you
Hurt by the cold
So hard and lonely too
When you don't know yourself

Overall Meaning

The song "My Friends" by Red Hot Chili Peppers talks about the universal feeling of loneliness and the importance of having friends to confide in during difficult moments. The opening lines "My friends are so depressed, I feel the question of your loneliness" portrays the empathy and concern the singer feels towards their friends who are going through a tough time. The lines "confide, 'cause I'll be on your side, you know I will" emphasizes the importance of having someone to rely on and confide in when going through tough times.


The second verse of the song talks about the singer's ex-girlfriend who called them from prison, feeling lonely and desperate. The lines "they want to give her seven years, for being sad" highlights the absurdity of punishing someone for feeling sad and the need for more understanding and empathy in society. The chorus "I love all of you, hurt by the cold, so hard and lonely too when you don't know yourself" reiterates the theme of loneliness and the need for people to be there for each other.


In the third verse, the singer talks about the profound insight they gained from a little girl whose words were "to give your love no matter what". This line emphasizes the power of love in making a difference in people's lives and as a panacea for loneliness and sadness. The song ends with the chorus again emphasizing love, empathy, and the importance of having friends during trying times.


Line by Line Meaning

My friends are so depressed
The singer's friends are in a state of great sadness and hopelessness.


I feel the question
The singer is aware of and empathetic toward the loneliness felt by their friend.


Of your loneliness
The singer recognizes the feeling of being alone.


Confide, 'cause I'll be on your side
The artist is offering emotional support to their friend and will be there for them.


You know I will, you know I will
The artist reassures their friend that they can be relied upon for support.


Ex girlfriend called me up
The singer received a call from their former girlfriend.


Alone and desperate
The singer's ex is feeling extremely alone and hopeless.


On the prison phone
The ex is likely incarcerated and making their call from a jail phone.


They want, to give her seven years
The ex may be facing a lengthy prison sentence.


For being sad
It appears that the reason for the ex's imprisonment is related to their mental health.


I love all of you
The singer has affection for all their friends.


Hurt by the cold
The artist acknowledges the pain and suffering experienced by their friends.


So hard and lonely too
The singer recognizes the difficulty of facing hardships alone.


When you don't know yourself
The singer understands that it can be especially challenging to cope with struggles when one is lacking self-awareness.


And standing on
The singer's friends are metaphorically on the edge, close to a dangerous or emotional precipice.


The brink of emptiness
The artist's friends are near a state of complete emotional emptiness.


No words, I know of to express
The artist is finding it difficult to articulate the depth of their friends' pain.


This emptiness
The feeling of emptiness is overwhelming and significant for the singer's friends.


Imagine me taught by tragedy
The singer has likely learned important life lessons through difficult and painful experiences.


Release is peace
The artist understands that letting go of past pain can bring about a sense of tranquility.


I heard a little girl
The artist encountered a young girl who said something profound.


And what she said
The words spoken by the young girl were particularly meaningful to the artist.


Was something beautiful
The narrative found the young girl's words inspiring and uplifting.


To give, your love
The young girl encouraged giving and extending love to others.


No matter what
The young girl's message encourages unconditional love.


Yeah, what she said
The singer is moved by the young girl's message and embraces it.




Lyrics © Peermusic Publishing, WORDS & MUSIC A DIV OF BIG DEAL MUSIC LLC
Written by: Anthony Kiedis, Chad Smith, David Navarro, Michael Balzary

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@o.gabrieo

My friends are so depressed
I fear the question of your loneliness
Confide, 'cause I'll be on your side
You know I will
Y'know I will

Ex-girlfriend called me up
Alone and desperate on the prison phone
They want to give her seven years
For being sad

I love all of you
Hurt by the cold
So hard and lonely, too
When you don't know yourself

My friends are so distressed
They're standing on the brink of emptiness
No words I know of to express
This emptiness

I love all of you
Hurt by the cold
So hard and lonely, too
When you don't know yourself

Imagine me
Taught by tragedy
Release is peace

I heard a little girl
And what she said was something beautiful
To give your love no matter what
Is what she said

I love all of you
Hurt by the cold
So hard and lonely, too
When you don't know yourself

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All comments from YouTube:

@RedHotChiliPeppers

On this day in 1996, the music video for “My Friends” was released. Directed by Anton Corbijn.

@MadukaJayalath

***** yeah! very beautiful... :)

@RitaStanderova

Very nice... I love this group...

@latatu1995

muy buena

@mickel2WAS

This video is not available for smartphones and tablets. Why? Come on guys, I only use my smartphone and my tablet. You are doing it wrong... Really... :-\

@IvonaCobain

Loveee!!! ❤

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@stevenhinkle6957

I never realized until I was older, how beautiful this song truly is.

Thank you Chili Peppers !

@TNT4LYFE72

IT TOOK ME till i was 29 and in a prison cell to realize thatall emotions ty CHILI PEPPERS

@user1m2y16abzy

Oh arent you so beautiful

@danhartwigPerch

Yeah,Bob Seger same thing,it’s wisdom,love it

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