Do You Really Want To Hurt Me
Simon & Garfunkel Lyrics


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In this town where I was born
There lived a boy his future's torn
He said

Do you want me
Do you want me
Do you want me
What do you want me to be

His father stood on hallowed ground
He raised him up then beat him down

His youthful dreams evaporate
Chained to a system with no escape

The factory gates have long since closed
The sounds of engines now are ghosts

Well tonight he hangs his head
Not knowing what he had said

His children laughed
His wife she cried




A hammer blow
His Father died

Overall Meaning

The opening lines of the song "Do You Really Want to Hurt Me" by Simon & Garfunkel paint a poignant picture of a boy growing up in a town where his future seems bleak and uncertain. The lyrics suggest a sense of inevitability and foreshadowing of turmoil in the boy's life, as his path ahead appears to be already set with challenges and hardships. The repetition of the question "Do you want me" reflects the boy's inner turmoil and conflict about his identity and worth, as he grapples with external expectations and pressures.


The portrayal of the boy's relationship with his father is fraught with complexity and pain. The father, depicted as a figure of authority and influence, both uplifts and then brings the boy crashing down. The contrast between the father's actions of raising the boy up and then beating him down symbolizes a cycle of love and abuse, leaving a deep emotional impact on the boy's psyche and sense of self-worth. This dynamic sets the stage for a narrative of struggle and conflict within a strained family unit.


The lyrics delve into the disillusionment and loss of hope experienced by the boy as he navigates through life constrained by societal norms and expectations. The imagery of his youthful dreams evaporating and being chained to a system with no escape speaks to the suffocating weight of conformity and the crushing of individual aspirations. The metaphorical representation of the boy as being trapped within a system that offers no way out conveys a sense of despair and resignation in the face of an oppressive reality.


As the narrative unfolds, the song takes a somber turn, with the revelation that the boy's father has passed away. The emotional aftermath of this event is palpable, as the lyrics describe a scene of mixed emotions within the family - children laughing, wife crying, and the weight of a hammer blow indicating the finality and impact of the father's death. This moment encapsulates a complex web of feelings within a family structure marked by love, pain, and unresolved conflicts, ultimately painting a poignant and introspective portrait of human relationships and the enduring legacy of past wounds.


Line by Line Meaning

In this town where I was born
Growing up in a place where I have always lived


There lived a boy his future's torn
A boy whose future has already been predetermined and ruined


He said


Do you want me
Am I important to you?


Do you want me
Do you truly care about me?


Do you want me
Do you desire my presence?


What do you want me to be
What exactly do you expect from me?


His father stood on hallowed ground
His father held a sacred position


He raised him up then beat him down
He raised him with high expectations, then tore him down with criticism


His youthful dreams evaporate
His hopes and dreams from his youth vanish


Chained to a system with no escape
Trapped in a system with no way out


The factory gates have long since closed
The once thriving factory is now abandoned


The sounds of engines now are ghosts
The echoes of machinery are now just memories


Well tonight he hangs his head
Tonight he feels ashamed and defeated


Not knowing what he had said
Unaware of the impact of his actions


His children laughed
His children found happiness


His wife she cried
His wife expressed sorrow


A hammer blow
A sudden and devastating turn of events


His Father died
His father passed away




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