Harder Than The First Time
BarlowGirl Lyrics


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I walked with you
Just like we've done for so long
You seemed so near
But even that's become so common

It's not just you, just been together so long
That I thought I knew everything about you
But today I saw; did you open up my eyes?
'Cause I feel like I've just seen you for the first time

[Chorus]
I didn't see you
But God I want to
You've come alive
And I think I've fallen harder than the first time

Was I so blind; how did I not see you?
Yet in all that time you never left my side
So for all my life, I will live to know you
So here I am; I'll take your hand

[Chorus]

I see your face; I feel you close
The love you've always shown me
Won't miss it now, can't waste a day
Jesus I'm yours completely





[Chorus]

Overall Meaning

The song "Harder Than The First Time" by BarlowGirl speaks about the familiarity that develops in a long-term relationship, wherein one's partner seems so near, but at the same time, an element of mundanity sets in. The song is likening this sense of taking someone for granted to walking alongside someone we've known for so long, that we begin to think we know everything about them. However, the lyrics then delve deeper into the idea that sometimes it takes truly opening our eyes to a person to rediscover them anew. Suddenly, we see their depths and complexities that draw us towards them, and we fall even harder for them than the first time we fell in love with them.


The chorus of the song drives home this idea with powerful lyrics. The singer describes how she "didn't see" her partner before and now feels that she has "fallen harder than the first time." The second verse goes on to reflect on how we may have missed seeing people's true selves before, but they never left our sides. The lyrics are a reminder of the beauty of seeing people for who they truly are and cherishing them. In the end, the song is a declaration of love for Jesus, with the singer acknowledging His immeasurable love and pledging herself to Him completely.


Line by Line Meaning

I walked with you
I have been with you for a long time


Just like we've done for so long
We have been together for a very long time


You seemed so near
I thought I knew everything about you


But even that's become so common
I have become too comfortable around you


It's not just you, just been together so long
It's not just you, we've been together for so long


That I thought I knew everything about you
I thought I knew everything about you


But today I saw; did you open up my eyes?
But today I saw something new about you


'Cause I feel like I've just seen you for the first time
I feel like I have just met you for the first time


I didn't see you
I didn't see how amazing you were


But God I want to
But now I want to see you


You've come alive
You have become more real to me


And I think I've fallen harder than the first time
I think I love you more deeply than ever before


Was I so blind; how did I not see you?
Was I really that blind to your greatness?


Yet in all that time you never left my side
Despite my blindness, you were always there for me


So for all my life, I will live to know you
So for the rest of my life, I will seek to know you


So here I am; I'll take your hand
I am ready and willing to take your hand


I see your face; I feel you close
I see you clearly now; I feel your presence


The love you've always shown me
The love you have shown me from the beginning


Won't miss it now, can't waste a day
I won't take your love for granted anymore; I won't waste any time


Jesus I'm yours completely
I belong to you completely, Jesus




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: ALYSSA KATHERINE BARLOW, BARLOWGIRL ., BARLOWGIRL BARLOWGIRL, LAUREN ASHLEY NICOLE BARLOW, MARY ANN BARLOW, REBECCA ELIZABETH MARIE BARLOW, VINCENT ROBERT FRANCIS BARLOW

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