I Can't Help It
Bee Gees Lyrics


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Oh, I, baby what a fool I am
First a boy and then a man, am I
And you, you're the heart of it all
You're the things I say and do
Am I wasting my time, hangin' around
You would be gone

But I can't help it
Ev'ry moment that I think about you
Ev'ry day and ev'ry night without you
I can't survive
Love, take away the lonely days gone by
Make it ev'ry day for you and I
Givin' me the chance to go on believin'
Girl, you gotta go on believin'
(Boy), you gotta go on believin'

You, baby you're the breathe I take
Coming for a heart in love, am I
And you, you're the heart of it all
You're the things I say and do
Am I wasting my time, hangin' around
You would be gone

But I can't help it
Ev'ry moment that I think about you
Ev'ry day and ev'ry night without you
I can't survive
Love, take away the lonely days gone by
Make it ev'ry day for you and I
Givin' me the chance to go on believin'
Girl, you gotta go on believin'
(Boy), you gotta go on believin'

La
I can't help it
Ev'ry moment that I think about you
Ev'ry day and ev'ry night, I can't survive
Love, take away the lonely days gone by
Make it ev'ry day for you and I
Giving me a chance to, help it, help it
Ev'ry moment that I think about you




Ev'ry day and night I can't survive
Love, take away the lonely days gone by (fade out)

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Bee Gees’ song, “I Can’t Help It” speak of a man’s helplessness and dependency on his lover. The chorus repeatedly emphasizes how much he thinks about her, that he can’t survive without her, and his plea to keep believing in their love. He acknowledges his foolishness in the past and the uncertainty of their future, but he can’t seem to leave her. The lyrics describe a certain vulnerability and honesty in the singer, as he admits how much he needs his partner, while also expressing a fear of losing her.


The melody and overall tone of the song emphasize this emotional vulnerability further by featuring a slow, smooth rhythm with a harmonious blend of instruments, such as the keyboard, bass and drums. The added harmonies in the chorus strengthen the emotional intensity of the lyrics, amplifying the sentiment of the message.


The lyrics and melody combined are an excellent portrayal of the fear and vulnerability that can come with being in love, the fear of a future without that love and the desperation to hold on to it. “I Can’t Help It” is an ode to the power that love can hold over people, and how we can sometimes be incapable of controlling our emotions when it comes to love.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh, I , baby what a fool I am
I realize I have been foolish in my behavior towards you


First a boy and then a man , am I
I have grown up but still act like a child, making mistakes and acting impulsive


And you , you're the heart of it all
You are the most important part of my life


You're the things I say and do
Your influence is present in everything I do or say


Am I wasting my time , hangin' around
I am worried that I am wasting my time waiting for you


You would be gone
I fear that you will leave me


But I can't help it
Despite my fears and misgivings, I cannot help how I feel about you


Ev'ry moment that I think about you
You are constantly on my mind


Ev'ry day and ev'ry night without you
I feel lost and lonely when you are not with me


I can't survive
Without you, I feel like I cannot go on


Love , take away the lonely days gone by
I hope love can heal the pain and loneliness of the past


Make it ev'ry day for you and I
Let us make every day together special and full of love


Giving me the chance to go on believin'
Your love gives me hope and a reason to keep believing in us


Girl , you gotta go on believin'
I want you to continue to have faith in me and our relationship


(Boy) , you gotta go on believin'
I also promise to continue believing in you and working to make us strong


You , baby you're the breathe I take
You are as essential to me as the air that I breathe


Coming for a heart in love , am I
I am reaching out with all of my heart, hoping for your love in return


la.....
Musical interlude


Giving me a chance to , help it , help it
Being with you and feeling your love gives me a chance to improve myself and our relationship


Ev'ry moment that I think about you
You are still always on my mind


Ev'ry day and night I can't survive
I still feel lost and incomplete without you


Love , take away the lonely days gone by (fade out)
I hope love will continue to heal our past pains and bring us together forever




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Barry Alan Gibb

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@sunstarburst

Andy Gibb and
Olivia Newton-John
are finally back together
singing this beautiful song
amongst the clouds.
-----------------------------------------------
Long may she R.i.p.
Condolences & Prayers to her
Family.



All comments from YouTube:

@sandraruckel662

This makes me so, sad because I long for the 70s and 80s The Bee Gees and Andy Gibb were like the soundtrack of my life. Just imagine what he could have accomplished had he lived. Im so thankful that we still have Barry, but it will never be the same. The sweetness that once existed is forever gone

@KarlaElaine100

By far...the best of Andy’s duets were with Olivia! Their voices blended just beautifully together!

@jodihammond4613

Same exact vibrato. Yes!

@thegreatestcrashbandicootf8864

Their duet 'Rest Your Love On Me' sounds good too.

@phyllisdaniels110

God.bless.you.both

@aliciaalcantar8719

Now they are sharing their gift in Heaven. Too Much Heaven

@Lostlove1930

Yes and nope. Like it or not the one with Victoria Principal was way much better than three rest of the duets.

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@gigidayz6936

Now they can sing together again. Rest in peace, beautiful Livvy.

@MrWierchawsky

What a pretty and adorable woman ,hello my darling ?

@emiliocaunedo4216

Now they are singing together in heaven.
R.I.P. Livvy (08-08-22).

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