Control Yourself
Doris Day Lyrics


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Control yourself, contain yourself
Restrict yourself, restrain yourself
And always let tranquility be your goal

Control yourself, contain yourself
And if you can′t, explain yourself
And try to act agreeably on the whole
Life is far too short to spend it in a huff
Try to be the sort of guy who laughs
When things get rough

Control yourself, contain yourself
You can and still remain yourself
If you will let serenity in your soul

You must contain yourself
Restrain yourself
And train yourself, to gain yourself control

Control yourself, contain yourself
Restrict yourself, restrain yourself
And always let tranquility be your goal

Control yourself, contain yourself
And if you can't, refrain yourself
And try to act agreeably on the whole

Life is just too great to waste it being sad
Try to imitate the guy who grins
When things walk back

Control yourself, contain yourself
And soon you won′t, complain yourself
If you will let serenity in your soul

You must contain yourself




Restrain yourself
And train yourself to gain yourself control

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Doris Day's "Control Yourself" advise listeners to maintain their composure in difficult situations, as well as to strive for peace of mind. The song is essentially a lesson on self-control– it encourages the listener to hold back from acting impulsively, to speak calmly and thoughtfully, and to cultivate inner stillness even in the midst of chaos. The use of words such as "contain," "restrict," and "restrain" emphasize the need for keeping one's emotions in check. The singer advises that if one finds it difficult to control oneself, then one should try to explain their situation rather than acting disagreeably.


Line by Line Meaning

Control yourself, contain yourself
Restrict yourself, restrain yourself


And always let tranquility be your goal
Strive to remain calm and composed


And if you can′t, explain yourself
Communicate why you are unable to maintain control


And try to act agreeably on the whole
Make an effort to behave in a pleasant manner overall


Life is far too short to spend it in a huff
Life is too brief to waste it being angry or upset


Try to be the sort of guy who laughs
Strive to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude


When things get rough
During difficult times


You can and still remain yourself
You can maintain your identity while controlling yourself


If you will let serenity in your soul
If you allow yourself to be calm and peaceful


You must contain yourself
You need to control your emotions and behavior


And train yourself, to gain yourself control
Practice and develop the ability to control yourself


And if you can't, refrain yourself
If you are unable to control yourself, abstain from the situation


Life is just too great to waste it being sad
Life is too wonderful to spend time feeling unhappy


Try to imitate the guy who grins
Emulate the person who smiles and remains positive


When things walk back
When things become difficult


And soon you won't, complain yourself
You will soon no longer feel the need to complain


If you will let serenity in your soul
If you allow yourself to be calm and peaceful


Restrain yourself
Control yourself


And train yourself to gain yourself control
Practice and develop the ability to control yourself




Writer(s): Andre Previn, Dory Langdon

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