Thoughtless
Doris Day Lyrics


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You are so thoughtless of me
You say things that make me so blue
You show it in so many little things you do
Or is that just your way of telling me we're through
You're much too much on my mind
I guess that you just shouldn't be
And maybe if I thought less of you, baby,
You wouldn't be so thoughtless of me

(You are so thoughtless of me)
You say things that make me so blue
You show it in so many little things you do
(Or is that just your way of telling me we're through)
You're much too much on my mind
I guess that you just shouldn't be
(And maybe if I thought less of you), baby,




You wouldn't be so thoughtless of me
(Thoughtless of me)

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Doris Day's song "Thoughtless" explore the pain and confusion caused by a partner who is thoughtless and inconsiderate. The opening line "You are so thoughtless of me" sets the tone for the song, with the singer expressing frustration and hurt at their partner's actions. The repeated line "You say things that make me so blue" emphasizes the emotional toll that the partner's behavior is taking on the singer.


The verse "You show it in so many little things you do/Or is that just your way of telling me we're through" suggests that the partner's behavior may be a subtle form of communication, indicating that they may want to end the relationship but are unable or unwilling to do so directly. The chorus "You're much too much on my mind/I guess that you just shouldn't be/And maybe if I thought less of you, baby/You wouldn't be so thoughtless of me" underscores the idea that the singer is struggling to let go of the relationship, but recognizes that they need to distance themselves emotionally in order to protect themselves from further hurt.


Overall, "Thoughtless" is a poignant exploration of the pain and confusion caused by a partner who is inconsiderate and possibly ambivalent about the relationship. Despite the sadness and vulnerability conveyed in the lyrics, Doris Day's clear, strong vocals and the gentle, nostalgic quality of the music give the song a sense of hope and resilience.


Line by Line Meaning

You are so thoughtless of me
You are neglectful and inconsiderate of my feelings.


You say things that make me so blue
Your words hurt me deeply and cause me sadness.


You show it in so many little things you do
Your actions and behaviors towards me reveal your lack of care and concern.


Or is that just your way of telling me we're through
I am unsure if your behavior is a sign that our relationship has ended.


You're much too much on my mind
I cannot stop thinking about you and what you are doing to me.


I guess that you just shouldn't be
I feel like I am wasting my time thinking about you when you clearly do not care about me.


And maybe if I thought less of you, baby,
Perhaps if I did not care as much about you, I would not be hurt by your actions.


You wouldn't be so thoughtless of me (Thoughtless of me)
If I cared less about you, perhaps you would not be so neglectful and inconsiderate towards me.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: BUDDY KAYE, CARL LAMPL

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Dayniac4324

Thank you for listening Nada !! Glad you enjoyed it.

Tom

Even her relatively minor hits were beautiful. Thanks for posting this great song!

Dayniac4324

Scotty and Libby - you know I can't stray too long ! Thank you for watching !

Dayniac4324

Thanks Wyatt -- I just have to tell you again how much I loved your Give Me Liberty or Give Me Death video - it was terrific !! Sorry to tell you - but - that was Kim Novak in Vertigo... Doris was in Hitchcocks The Man Who Knew Too Much...both had Jimmy Stewart. Thanks for always watching and giving me such nice comments ...I do appreciate it. Take care - Toni

safeharbor7

Love her voice... 5*****

Daylin Skye

How does she do it? My lovely Ms. Day has such a way of soothing all the cares of the day away. Thank you Toni for posting this.

unadka

I own all the copies of DD songs you share, but always gladly watch to your videos with many pictures with my beloved Doris. Thanks again! Nada

Dwayne Duncan

I found this beautiful song by Miss Doris Day just when i needed to hear it. RIP

Dayniac4324

I wore my parents out listening to Doris ... so I know what you mean !! I think I'm doing the same thing now with my family ... come to think of it !! lol ! This is a lovely early song from Doris....so happy you enjoyed ! I don't think there can ever be too much Doris !!

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