Come and Gone
John Wesley Lyrics


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We hide...we run
we dodge, we deny
we turn from the gun and try

To live...to learn
yet we injure the loves
that we don't recognize
I look...to my home
see a comb or a brush
and remember the touch

Of you...who I loved
who I wronged
who have come and gone
you have come and gone
though these dreams
do fail
to yield us the promise made

Yield us the promise gave

We reel...in the wake
in the shock of the madness
the all consuming sadness

You bring...to me
the body we created
cut by words that were
bladed
we bleed... and move on
with scars too slow to heal
a memory too numb to
feel
you have come and gone

Though we run from the
coming of the light
and we hide in the shadows of our own lives
always searching for those
who have gone
those who have come and gone

We feel safe in the
cover of the night
we bury the hope
that's in our own lives
living crushed by lovers
who've gone
you have come and gone
you fade...from my sight
from my heart you will bleed away
then I will turn away
of you...who I've loved




who I've wronged
who have come and gone

Overall Meaning

John Wesley's "Come and Gone" is a melancholic song that talks about the human tendency to push away things that may hurt us, thereby injuring the people we love unintentionally. The song is full of introspective lines that lament on what has gone wrong in life. The singer suggests that we hide, run, dodge, and deny things that may harm us but in the process, forget to recognize the love we have around us. The lyrics portray the loss and absence of loved ones who have come and gone, leaving behind memories that are too slow to heal and too numb to feel. Even though the dreams may fail to fulfill the promises made, the singer suggests that we need to move on with the scars and seek refuge in the cover of the night.


The song's vivid imagery highlights the universal human feeling of pain and the need to hold on to the memories of loved ones gone by. The singer sees a comb or a brush at home and remembers the touch of the person they loved, highlighting the importance of the little things in life that bring back precious memories. The song also talks about the shock of madness and the all-consuming sadness that we feel when we lose our loved ones. Despite the loss, we strive to move on, even though it may take time to heal.


Line by Line Meaning

We hide...we run
We avoid facing the challenges that come with life, running away from our problems rather than tackling them head-on.


we dodge, we deny
We deflect responsibility for our actions, refusing to acknowledge our wrongdoings and their consequences.


we turn from the gun and try
We choose the path of least resistance, seeking to avoid conflict and confrontation whenever possible.


To live...to learn
Despite the challenges we face, we strive to grow and improve ourselves in every way possible.


yet we injure the loves
Unfortunately, our attempts to improve ourselves often come at the expense of the people we care about most.


that we don't recognize
We fail to value those who are closest to us, often taking for granted the love and support that they offer.


I look...to my home
In moments of reflection, I turn to my most cherished memories of home and family.


see a comb or a brush
The sight of mundane objects triggers powerful emotions, reminding me of people and places I've left behind.


and remember the touch
These objects serve as tangible reminders of the love and connection that once existed, the feeling of someone's embrace.


Of you...who I loved
It is the people who have touched my life most deeply--those I've loved and lost--that I remember most vividly.


who I wronged
Unfortunately, these memories are often tinged with regret and guilt, as I recall times when I failed to live up to my own ideals or hurt those closest to me.


who have come and gone
Though these people are no longer physically present in my life, they continue to exert a profound influence on my thoughts and emotions.


though these dreams
Despite my deepest wishes and desires, reality often falls short of my expectations.


do fail
The promises I make to myself and others are often unfulfilled, and disappointment looms large in my life.


to yield us the promise made
The things we want most--love, acceptance, fulfillment--often remain just out of reach, despite our best efforts to attain them.


Yield us the promise gave
We hope that one day our actions and efforts will lead to the realization of our dreams and the attainment of our deepest desires.


We reel...in the wake
When we are confronted with disappointment, loss, or rejection, we are often overwhelmed by the powerful emotions that follow.


in the shock of the madness
The intense feelings that we experience in these moments can feel irrational, confusing, and overwhelming, leaving us feeling adrift and out of control.


the all consuming sadness
These powerful emotions--particularly sadness and grief--can be so overpowering that we feel as though we are consumed by them, rendering us unable to move forward.


You bring...to me
In these difficult moments, it is often the love and support of others that sees us through to the other side.


the body we created
The people we love and the memories we have shared with them are a testament to the life we have built together, the experiences that have shaped us, and the ways in which we have grown and learned from each other.


cut by words that were bladed
Unfortunately, these relationships can also be marred by hurtful words, misunderstandings, and mistakes that leave us feeling deeply wounded and scarred.


we bleed... and move on
Despite these scars, however, we are able to find a way to heal ourselves and continue to grow and learn from our experiences.


with scars too slow to heal
The healing process is often a slow and painful one, and the wounds we suffer can leave lingering scars that take a long time to fade.


a memory too numb to feel
In some cases, the hurt and pain we experience can be so intense that we feel numb or disconnected from our own emotions.


Though we run from the coming of the light
Despite our best efforts to avoid pain and suffering, the light of truth and revelation will eventually shine on us, bringing us face-to-face with our deepest fears and insecurities.


and we hide in the shadows of our own lives
When this happens, we may be tempted to retreat further into ourselves, hiding from our own truths and denying the reality of the situations we face.


always searching for those who have gone
In moments of pain and uncertainty, we may find ourselves searching for connection and understanding with those who have gone before us--those who have lived and learned from similar experiences.


those who have come and gone
The memories of these people can provide us with comfort, guidance, and inspiration as we navigate the challenges of our own lives.


We feel safe in the cover of the night
In moments of uncertainty and fear, we may find ourselves seeking refuge in the familiar, retreating to the safety of the past or hiding in the relative anonymity of the darkness.


we bury the hope that's in our own lives
In these moments, however, it is important that we do not lose sight of the hope and possibilities that still exist within our own lives, even when these seem obscured or overshadowed by our present circumstances.


living crushed by lovers who've gone
When we do lose sight of this hope, we may become trapped in the past, unable to move forward and live fully in the present because of the hurt and pain we continue to carry with us from those we've lost.


you fade...from my sight
As time passes and we continue to grow and change, the memories of those we've lost may begin to fade and lose their sharpness and intensity.


from my heart you will bleed away
This fading, however, can also bring with it a sense of sadness and loss, as we begin to recognize the extent of what we've lost and the ways in which we've been shaped by these experiences.


then I will turn away
Despite these moments of sadness and loss, however, we are able to find a way to move on and continue living in the present, letting go of the past and embracing the new opportunities that come our way.


of you...who I've loved
Though the memories of those who have come and gone may continue to influence our lives, we are able to find a way to love and cherish them from a distance, recognizing the ways in which they have shaped us and learning to move forward with new hope and optimism.


who I've wronged
In doing so, we also recognize the ways in which we may have been responsible for the hurt and pain we've experienced, taking responsibility for our own mistakes and learning to live with greater honesty and integrity in the future.


who have come and gone
Ultimately, the memories of those who have come and gone serve as a poignant reminder of the brevity and preciousness of life, encouraging us to live each day to the fullest and to cherish the people and experiences that bring us joy and love.




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John Wesley history
1. His country birth is at Epworth England
2. Born on 17th June (Old style) or 28th June 1703-Depends on which calendar is he using
3. In 1709 the house was on fire and John Wesley was stuck inside the house, so the 2 people came to rescue John Wesley out of the house
4. John Wesley is the number 15 of the family
5. He venture USA to become a missionary
6. Older brother is Samuel Wesley (Sammy)
7. Younger brother is Charles Wesley
8. Nickname is Jacky
9. He study in Oxford in 1733 and graduate in 1735
10. He depart from England in the ship in 1735
11. In 1736 Charles Wesley left Georgia for England, leaving John to take over his duties till his replacement arrived
12. In 1737 he left Georgia USA and never to return or seen again
13. In 1738 he came back to London
14. In 1739 he went to the new room at Bristol to build a church and name it as Methodist
15. He ride a horse and travel 250,000 miles
16. He wrote a book of medical as Primitive Physics
17. Susanna Wesley (Mother), Grace Murray (Love Interest), Molly Vazeille (Married)
18. John and Grace relationship fall apart it's because of assist brother's fault
19. He is married and no children of his own, he has 6 step children
20. He was thrown out of the Church of England and preach with inexcusable word
21. He preach outside at St Andrew Church in Epworth to stand up his father's tomb
22. In 1743 at night the people came with the torch to attack John Wesley, but they threw a stone at the house to get rid of John Wesley. So Rev John Wesley said 'What evil things I do wrong, have you work yourself together. And that it's a lie' So one people let him go.
23. In 1740 Mr William Seward preach the lord's prayer and he was attack by those thugs and died in a wound
24. Samuel Wesley (Sammy) died in 1739
25. In 1778 both Molly and John went separate way
26. In 1781 Molly Vazeille passed away
27. He did not attend his wife funeral
28. In 1790 at city road Chapel, John Wesley had become an old age man, he was all alone
29. George Whitefield died in 1770, Charles Wesley died in 1788 and on 24th February 1791 he wrote the last letter
30. On 2nd March 1791 John Wesley said the last word 'The best of all is. God is with us now. Farewell



All comments from YouTube:

Owlfethurz

This was a very inspiring and well made video. It is a blessing to learn about Christian history, which is so important, yet neglected. May we pray that God will turn the nations back to him so that many will come unto Him through the Gospel.

RUTH TAN

Amen.

Sandra Hunte

Amen! I so agree with you!

BornIn80sGrewUp90s

As an Anglican I respect Methodism and I look at John Wesley’s sermons with a open heart.

Pastor DC

What a great documentary of the beginning fo this movement and the life of John Wesley! Thank you for creating it. I used the for the first time for my membership class today (May 2023) and the class loved it. It was very informative, moving and helpful to understand the roots of our Methodist churches.

Sherry Rodrigo

Thankyou so much for this beautiful documentary about John Wesley's life and ministry.
I am so blessed to be a Methodist.

David Ralphs

Will you be going Global or staying United? I am assuming you are or were a part of the UMC.

Sherry Rodrigo

@David Ralphs
Hi David,
Yes I am still a Methodist. I married to a Catholic but I did not get baptized in to the Catholic faith.

Sandra Hunte

Amen! So do I 😊

woolen slippers

Sad—that Methodist church has changed so much

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