Gift Of A Woman
John Wesley Lyrics


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You're not allowing me to breathe
the man said
I've no room to move
and all of this discussion
is ringing in my head

This is not an issue of love
no not anymore
she said it's a matter of your freedom
which really means
me watching you walk through that door

Freedom for you to roam
the earth and the seventh seas
freedom to leave your child
no don't look at me please

I know I ain't as pretty
as the day we met

Our bed it ain't as warm




but I've got love for you still inside of me yet
love for you, still inside of me yet

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to John Wesley's song "Gift of A Woman" seemingly depict a conversation between two individuals whose love is in jeopardy due to a yearning for freedom. The first stanza introduces the thoughts of the male character who confesses his feeling of being suffocated because he feels he is not allowed to breathe. The man appears to be feeling trapped and unable to move around freely, struggling to cope with discussing the issues at hand. The female protagonist responds by emphasizing that the matter at hand is not about love anymore but instead centers around his freedom, which, in essence, means watching him leave through the door. She acknowledges his desires for freedom, both to roam the earth and the seventh seas and leave their child. The chorus is an admission by the woman that their relationship may not be as warm or picture-perfect like the early days, but love still resides within her for him.


The lyrics convey the theme of love's willingness to sacrifice, where the woman is willing to endure the pain of letting go to honor the man's desires for freedom. She is aware of his shortcomings but chooses to focus on the love that remains. She loves him enough to let him go and is secure enough in herself to develop without him, regardless of the hurt.


In all, the lyrics to "Gift of A Woman" is a reaffirmation of the love that exists between two individuals even during challenging times. The woman's sacrifice of her desires for the man's freedom depicts the depth of her love for him.


Line by Line Meaning

You're not allowing me to breathe
The man expressed feeling trapped and suffocated in the relationship.


I've no room to move
The man felt like he had no freedom or space in the relationship.


and all of this discussion is ringing in my head
The man was overwhelmed and couldn't stop thinking about their conversation.


This is not an issue of love no not anymore
The woman stated that this wasn't about love anymore.


she said it's a matter of your freedom which really means me watching you walk through that door
The woman claimed it was about the man's freedom, but what she really meant was that she was afraid of him leaving her.


Freedom for you to roam the earth and the seventh seas freedom to leave your child no don't look at me please
The woman expressed her fear of the man leaving her and taking their child with him.


I know I ain't as pretty as the day we met
The woman recognized that her physical appearance had changed since they first met.


Our bed it ain't as warm but I've got love for you still inside of me yet
The woman acknowledged that their physical relationship may have cooled, but she still loved the man deeply.




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