Losing a Friend
Lillith Lyrics


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Someone told me you're not alone
He went away
And someone said he was my friend
He is not there

Someone took my hand
And dragged me behind
Now I'm useless
I get pushed away





Overall Meaning

In the song "Losing a Friend" by Lillith, the lyrics are speaking about the loss of a friend due to their passing away. At the beginning of the song, the singer mentions that someone told her that her friend is not alone, which indicates that they have passed away and may be in a better place. However, the singer is still struggling with the loss and finding it hard to come to terms with the reality of it all. The use of "went away" further highlights the idea of death, and how someone can simply "go away" and be gone forever.


The singer then mentions how someone told her that her friend was their friend too, which possibly indicates that the friend who passed away was well-liked and a sociable person. The loss of such a person is felt not only by the singer but also by others who knew them. The line "he is not there" is especially poignant as it indicates the finality of death.


The final verses of the song speak about the singer feeling lost and useless after the loss of her friend. The mention of being "dragged behind" and "pushed away" possibly refers to the difficulties of coping with grief and not being able to move on easily.


Line by Line Meaning

Someone told me you're not alone
I heard that you have support and people around you, despite the loss of our friend.


He went away
Our friend has left, and we are left to deal with the aftermath of his absence.


And someone said he was my friend
I was told that our departed friend considered me a friend, which adds to the pain of his absence.


He is not there
Our friend is no longer with us, and the reality of that fact is devastating.


Someone took my hand
In the midst of my grief, someone offered me their support and comfort by taking my hand.


And dragged me behind
But even with that support, I still feel like I'm falling behind and struggling to keep up with the world.


Now I'm useless
My grief has left me feeling helpless and worthless, unable to properly process my emotions or find a way forward.


I get pushed away
And sometimes it feels like everyone is pushing me away, unable or unwilling to deal with my pain and sorrow.




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Comments from YouTube:

@silenceblue82

The song seems pleasant because of the gentle singing and classic because of the musical and visual arrangement !!

@amandadamota7544

is that on spotift?

@OBSCUREDRadio

Nope! :))

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