You Wouldn
Tegan and Sara Lyrics


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There's a war inside of me
Do I cause new heartbreak to write new broken song
Do I push it down or let it run me
Right into the ground
I feel like I wouldn't like me
If I met me
Well I can't stop talking
For fear of listening to unwelcome sound
And you haven't called me in weeks
And honestly it's bringing me down
I feel like I wouldn't like me if I met me
I feel like you wouldn't like me if you met me
And don't you worry, there's still time
There's nothing to live for
When I'm sleeping alone
And I wash the windows outside
In hopes that the glare
Will bring you around
Sunshine is days away
I won't be saved, I know all the words




I can't say that I'll love you forever
I won't say that I'll love you forever

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Tegan and Sara's song "You Wouldn't Like Me" convey vulnerability and uncertainty as the singer struggles with their inner demons. The opening line, "There's a war inside of me," sets the tone for the rest of the song, as the singer contemplates whether to express their emotions or suppress them. They question whether causing new heartbreak would inspire them to write new broken songs or lead them to push their feelings down until they overtake them. The line "I feel like I wouldn't like me if I met me" exemplifies the singer's self-doubt and low self-esteem, unsure of their own worth and life choices.


The singer's fears are compounded by the fact that their lover hasn't called in weeks, which brings them down even more. They go through the motions of their day in hopes of distracting themselves and bringing their lover back, washing windows in hopes of a semblance of self-care and order. The reference to sunshine being days away is an indication that things might get better but also underscores their sense of hopelessness. The singer is unable to promise their lover eternal love, but they do indicate an understanding that there is still time.


Overall, the song speaks to the universal struggle of self-doubt and the fear of not being good enough for oneself and others. The singer is wrestling with their own identity, questioning who they are and whether they deserve love. It's a beautifully poignant and heartbreaking song that many can relate to.


Line by Line Meaning

There's a war inside of me
There's a constant internal struggle that I'm experiencing


Do I cause new heartbreak to write new broken song
Do I purposely hurt myself to create new music


Do I push it down or let it run me
Should I suppress my feelings or let them control me


Right into the ground
My emotions may lead me towards destruction


I feel like I wouldn't like me
I don't have a positive self-image


If I met me
If I were to meet myself in another person


Well I can't stop talking
I keep talking to avoid having to listen


For fear of listening to unwelcome sound
I'm afraid of hearing something I don't want to hear


And you haven't called me in weeks
You haven't reached out to me in a while


And honestly it's bringing me down
It's affecting my emotional state in a negative way


I feel like you wouldn't like me if you met me
I think you wouldn't like me if we met for the first time now


And don't you worry, there's still time
There's no need to fret, there's still a chance


There's nothing to live for
My life feels devoid of purpose


When I'm sleeping alone
I feel lonely when I sleep alone


And I wash the windows outside
I try to distract myself by doing mundane tasks


In hopes that the glare
In hopes that the reflection


Will bring you around
Will make you come back to me


Sunshine is days away
I know that things will get better at some point in the future


I won't be saved, I know all the words
I won't find salvation despite knowing all the right things to say


I can't say that I'll love you forever
I'm not confident enough to promise that I will always love you




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: SARA KEIRSTEN QUIN, TEGAN RAIN QUIN

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Comments from YouTube:

Robin Rain Riot

Wow. What an amazing Version. Love it.

Kittymeow4u

Who ever that is screaming "I LOVE YOU SARA" at the very end is literally me.

Ida G.

great great stuff!!!

Ch'ng Xing Yue

Gawd tegan's expression near the end. 

tiffany amato

tegans roar at 2:13 holy shit

Catalina Stoianova

Omg tegan

Mais Maiss

Omg Sara

tammie farr

wow bro a loogie really

MLChampion

This is awful!!! I love their albums but this performance is just....damn.

Brad Rasmussen

Lol right? I used to think this was amazing when I was younger no wonder they gave up playin live lmao

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