"Stubborn Love"
The Lumineers Lyrics


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She'll lie and steal and cheat
And beg you from her knees
Make you thinks she means it this time
She'll tear a hole in you, the one you can't repair
But I still love her, I don't really care

When we were young
Oh oh, we did enough
When it got cold
Ooh ooh, we bundled up
I can't be told
Ah ah it can't be done

It's better to feel pain, than nothing at all
The opposite of love's indifference
So pay attention now
I'm standing on your porch screaming out
And I won't leave until you come downstairs

So keep your head up, keep your love
Keep your head up, my love
Keep your head up, my love
Keep your head up, keep your love

And I don't blame ya dear
For running like you did, all these years
I would do the same, your best believe
And the highway signs say we're close
But I don't read those things anymore
I never trusted my own eyes

When we were young
Oh oh, we did enough
When it got cold,
Ooh ooh we bundled up
I can't be told,
Ah ah, can't be done

Keep your head up, keep your love
Keep your head up, my love
Keep your head up, my love
Keep your head up, keep your love

Head up, love
Head up, love





Head up, love
Head up, love

Overall Meaning

The song "Stubborn Love" by The Lumineers is about a relationship that has been through its ups and downs, but despite all the lying, cheating, and stealing, the person in the relationship still loves their partner. The chorus of the song talks about how it's better to feel pain than nothing at all and how the opposite of love is indifference. The person in the song is standing outside their partner's house, screaming at them to come down and refusing to leave until they do. The verses of the song talk about the memories they have together from when they were young and how they bundled up to stay warm when it got cold. The person in the song ends by telling their partner to keep their head up and keep their love, despite everything that's happened between them.


The lyrics of "Stubborn Love" are very relatable to anyone who has been through a rocky relationship. The song's message is about the importance of perseverance and how love can overcome any obstacle. It also highlights the idea that relationships are not always easy and that sometimes you have to fight to make things work. The chorus of the song is particularly powerful, emphasizing the idea that it's better to feel something, even pain, than to feel nothing at all.


Line by Line Meaning

She'll lie and steal and cheat
She is capable of manipulating and taking advantage of you in order to get what she wants.


And beg you from her knees
She will use various tactics to try to get you to forgive her and take her back.


Make you thinks she means it this time
She will seem sincere in her apologies and promises to change, but it will likely be temporary.


She'll tear a hole in you, the one you can't repair
Her actions will hurt you deeply and leave a lasting impact on you emotionally.


But I still love her, I don't really care
Despite all of this, the artist still loves her and isn't willing to give up on their relationship.


When we were young
In the past, they were reckless and didn't think about the consequences of their actions.


Oh oh, we did enough
They lived life to the fullest and did what they wanted, without worrying about the future.


When it got cold
When things got difficult or uncomfortable.


Ooh ooh, we bundled up
They protected themselves and stayed warm in order to persevere through tough times.


I can't be told
They are stubborn and won't listen to anyone else's advice.


It's better to feel pain, than nothing at all
Experiencing pain and heartache is better than feeling nothing at all, as it at least means you are alive and experiencing something.


The opposite of love's indifference
The opposite of love isn't hate, but rather indifference or apathy.


So pay attention now
The singer wants the other person to listen and take their words to heart.


I'm standing on your porch screaming out
The singer is desperate to be heard and makes a scene to get their attention.


And I won't leave until you come downstairs
They won't give up until the other person acknowledges them and hears them out.


Keep your head up, keep your love
Stay positive, keep loving others, and don't let the negative experiences in life bring you down.


And I don't blame ya dear
The artist understands why the other person has run away or distanced themselves.


For running like you did, all these years
They've been avoiding or running away from their problems for a long time.


I would do the same, your best believe
The singer empathizes with the other person and would do the same thing in their shoes.


And the highway signs say we're close
Numerous signs or indicators suggest that they are near each other.


But I don't read those things anymore
The artist no longer trusts those signs, as they've been misled or let down before.


I never trusted my own eyes
The artist has been deceived before, and can't trust what they see or feel anymore.


Head up, love
Stay positive, don't give up or lose hope, and keep loving others.




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Jeremy Fraites, Wesley Schultz

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@jhonnymartinez189

Lyrics:
She'll lie and steal and cheat
And beg you from her knees
Make you think she means it this time
She'll tear a hole in you, the one you can't repair
But I still love her, I don't really care

When we were young
Oh-oh, we did enough
When it got cold
Ooh-ooh, we bundled up
I can't be told
Ah-ah it can't be done

It's better to feel pain, than nothing at all
The opposite of love's indifference
So pay attention now
I'm standing on your porch screaming out
And I won't leave until you come downstairs

So keep your head up, keep your love
Keep your head up, my love
Keep your head up, my love
Keep your head up, keep your love

And I don't blame you, dear
For running like you did all these years
I would do the same, you best believe
And the highway signs say we're close
But I don't read those things anymore
I never trusted my own eyes

When we were young
Oh-oh, we did enough
When it got cold
Ooh-ooh, we bundled up
I can't be told
Ah-ah it can't be done

So keep your head up, keep your love
Keep your head up, my love
Keep your head up, my love
Keep your head up, keep your love

Head up, love
Head up, love
Head up, love
Head up, love



@miszlen00

This song hits me so hard every time i hear it, it's just so hard to explain.
I knew it basically since my school years, listening to The Lumineers briefly from time to time and simply moving on to other bands and genres.

I came back to this band and this song after a terrible break-up caused by me, my problems and what I did to my then-girlfriend for about a year, a friend for about four.
I listened to it time and time again throughout several months alone, working on myself, bettering my mental status and overall mental health that caused all the problems.

A year passed, fate made us cross our paths and come closer again, heal our scars and become a pair once again.

Nearly two years from then, I'm listening to the song in our house, we're a few months away from our wedding and expecting a baby.
Coming back to such hard-hitting songs makes you realise how far you've come and how many struggles you endured because of - and for this stubborn love.

Stay strong Friends. It will be better one day - if you believe it and work towards it, eventually it's gonna happen.



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