There is more than one artist with this name, not to be confused with Der P… Read Full Bio ↴There is more than one artist with this name, not to be confused with Der Plan:

1) The Plan is the brainchild of Swedish singer Theodor Jensen, otherwise known to Swedish pop audiences as the guitarist of cult band Broder Daniel. To date they have released three albums to moderate success in their native Sweden. While the band began as a four piece featuring Jensen along with organist Mikael Furugärde, bass player Peter Morén (of the more internationally famous Peter Bjorn and John) and drummer Niklas Forsell, Jensen is now the only member left.

2) The Plan is a Canadian mathcore outfit with Michael Catano from North of America. Influenced by the noisy post-punk from San Diego and Chicago math-rock, The Plan got together in the spring of 1999 as a side project for North of America vocalist/guitarist Michael Catano and Led By Regret bassist Mackenzie Ogilvie. After guitarist David Harrison and drummer Jon Hutt were recruited, the quartet played around their Halifax hometown and quickly signed to Matlock Records. Lance Purcell eventually took drum positions in time to release the Plan's first album, This Time Is not This Place, in 2000.

3) The Plan are also Cliff Thomas and Jon MacNish who release nice quality Detroit Techno music on a sublabel of Submerge Recordings and that sublabel also has the name The Plan.

From Boomkat:
Bringing the Past, Present, and Future together, comes the newest label from the Submerge family, THE PLAN. Having a sound that draws from their own personal experience of growing up in the Detroit area, Jonathan MacNish and Cliff Thomas, are some of the first artists at Submerge that have grown up hearing Detroit Techno. 8 Miles Wide chugs in with funky drums and emotional synth timbers while 4-Bit Logic is more of an elastic sounding dancefloor affair with its driving bass and percussion.

Friends Getting Cold
The Plan Lyrics

We have lyrics for these tracks by The Plan:

A Fool Nobody's Fool Lyrics & Melodies: Kent Hilli Music: Kent Hill…
Another All we know Is a part of a part Of the big…
At First I Lied So what did you think would happen in the end Or…
Autumn Autumn rain Go back again from a long blank summer Autumn …
Day 6 a.m. The clock is ringing I need to spend an hour…
Daybreak Daybreak I saw you in your mess and I heard you…
Ding Dong Ohh, you touch my tralalala mhh my ding ding dong...mhh Lal…
Do Something Smack someone, don't think twice Do something, wake someone…
Embrace Me Beauty Embrace me beauty I'm dying outside your door With you the…

Emma Emma Nothing happens You're pretty But it's too quiet …
Everyday Every morning when I wake Every morning when I wake This is…
Everything's Dead My eyes are dead, there's no light in them The blood's…
Fell A Mile Easy think twice what you do Who are you? I fell…
Flow Como que vamo' a tener que Hacer un "Plan C", ahora,…
Foggy Days Foggy days were fine days What's there to see clear Foggy …
Garden The question is The moment has come The rules have to…
I Cry with You The greatest treasures, they're all hidden The greatest mira…
I Watch Myself From your perspective I'm way too much but I think…
Let's Leave We should be out of reach all the time Come here…
Mon Amour I was walking but I didn't know the way and…
My Thing I've been monkin' Monkin' around Yes, I've done this town …
Skies Above Skies above Send me back my love I miss you Here is col…
Slow Fall Slow, slow fall, slow fall backwards Slow, slow fall, slow …
So Alone I always look for you and think of you I wonder…
Stay Right Here The sun in shines I've been drinking all day Well I'm feel…
The Days Just Glide In No the days just glide in The eyes rest in the…
The Machine Red wire: right temple Black wire: left temple Red wire: rig…
The Wall We used to have fun, Now all we do is fight. I…
The Wind Starts Blowing Come on now Let's get out today Oh, the wind starts blowin…

We Stopped Running You must watch it It might hurt next time coming up…

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01Young & Armed4:54

02Embrace Me Beauty4:41

03I'm Not With Her Anymore3:53

04Ding Dong2:31

05Autumn

06We Stopped Running3:34

07Emma3:24

08Friends Getting Cold4:08

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09Pass Me By4:03

10The Mother's Love14:23

11I Watch Myself5:22

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@awugii

3y↑11.4K

Timestamps </3

0:00 | You Get Me So High - The
Neighbourhood
2:34 | Sparks - Coldplay
6:22 | i love you - Billie Eilish
11:11 | Black Out Days (Future Islands Remix) - Phantogram
15:18 | Line Without A Hook (feat. Mxmtoon) - Ricky Montgomery
19:28 | The Beach - The Neighbourhood
23:44 | Washing Machine Heart - Mitski, Mitski
25:53 | Girl of My Dreams - Guti
29:37 | YKWIM? - Yot Club
33:09 | Unfair - The Neighbourhood
35:37 | Another Love - Tom Odell
39:37 | As The World Caves In - Matt Maltese
43:12 | Winter Aid - The Wisp Sings
48:16 | Space Song - Beach House

To those who are slowly drifting apart from your friends; i know what it feels like, and im sorry. Sometimes, we just outgrow our friends. It happens as we grow up, and i know its painful but sometimes you just have to let them go. <3

@firemangan5024

2y↑5

Thats literally my story lol

I used to be close with these 2 girls,
One i met during geometry in sophomore year and the other who is friends with the 1st girl who was a freshman at the time, it didn’t took long before all 3 of us became a trio and that was the greatest era of my teen years. Sadly, it didn’t last long.

I fell in love with the 2nd girl, she turned me down and things became increasingly awkward and uncomfortable between us that she had to end the friendship, ending a trio of almost 3 months.

I remained close with the 1st girl until the beginning of the school year where we drifted apart and I became the one who has to make the effort.

today I fully accepted thats its an end of a beautiful era.

@some_guy027

38w↑3

her…
she was my best friend, we talk everyday, all day..
she was my everything..
now we’re strangers again.. but this time with memories..

I miss you.. I ruined it..
now I sit here crying about you, every single night.

thanks for the good memories my friend..
the bad ones will haunt me for the rest of my life..

@thatrabbit09

2y↑4

But actually... We tend to throw blame on ourselves rather than understand that people's choices aren't dependent on us and our behavior all the time.

You can give all your best to ppl yet they'll choose and pick from what you gave whatever they feel like it.

It's not maths. Not like there's a certain result you're expecting from the information you have, and when it isn't right then the mistake is in you, how you solved the equation... Relationships don't work that way.

So y'all stop worrying too much, and be aware if you're giving excuses to others' bad treatments. Ofc, review yourself, but don't go overboard as to say you're not enough or you need to give more.

Simply put, no matter how much hard you try, you'll never please ppl. You can never keep them or expect them to be like you wish. Just live for yourself. Love yourself

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@awugii

3y↑11.4K

@expiredperishables9102

3y↑25

123 likes lol

@ky-br9qm

3y↑107

Easier said than done I wanna cry

@crowfeathers10923

3y↑116

Dangit I just started the playlist and I'm crying because if the end of your comment. It my friends outgrowing me, I still wish we were as close as we used to be, when we FaceTimed everyday, and were constantly texting.

@rrileybrr

2y↑14

@Sydnie.

2y↑17

Thank you killua looking person ❤❤ I hope your doing good!

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@jackie.x5180

2y↑6.5K

That friendship that you thought was never going to end..ended

@ATru3Fa1ry

2y↑111

This is exactly how it is for me and the person. We were soooo close! Swore we would be best friends forever. now he is slowly stopping talking to me. like i was nothing to him! Unlike my other friends me and him have had 10+ fights. (not healthy)Its toxic but yet he still keeps COMING BACK AND PLAYING VICTIM. i swear i dont understand and now he is blaming me for his grandmother?

@Iomxzya

2y↑19

that happened to me today..

@-DiveForIve-

2y↑1

Yep

@fatnasty2992

2y↑11

2 years i had the best friendship

@laii5055

@@Iomxzya same so i got checked out today😢

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@RubyPhoenyx

2y↑9.5K

this really hits hard after realizing your bestfriend of 5+ years would rather be with people they've known for only a few weeks

@applestairs6960

2y↑246

i get it but the quantity of time yall have been friends doesn't ensure that the quality of friendship is always good but if it is you're being like really clingy and it's not a bad thing that they want to have more than just you as a friend

@kirinaru6862

2y↑25

Bro ❤💀

@applestairs6960

2y↑31

@@kirinaru6862 Im so deadass right now 💀 shit like that is so annoying

@kirinaru6862

2y↑92

@@applestairs6960 no one asked

@applestairs6960

2y↑1

@@kirinaru6862 you think you da shit.. That shit is old find a hobby.

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@Wolfsta

37w↑2.7K

I had to stop talking to my. best friend because he was so toxic to me. Your peace is the most important thing. Don't forget that.

@ItsZorixx

34w↑8

I see you everywhere. Didn't know you were like that man.

@Wolfsta

34w↑3

@@ItsZorixx 🙏

@devourmyballs

33w↑6

I did the same thing like 3 years ago. One of my best friends (a guy) moved schools and he became popular in his new school, and he randomly turned toxic and began disrespecting me so I didn't hesitate to drop him cuz I value my peace. I'm glad I made that decision cuz now I have a new guy best friend who treats me well.

@Wolfsta

33w↑1

@@devourmyballs 🙏

@flowerjack9849

33w↑5

I'm doing the same with a friend of mine. I just can't anymore, I'm so tired 😔

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@urmompotatos

1y↑923

‘’The worst thing about losing your best friend is not having a friend to tell it to ‘’

@eee-xd5bo

35w↑30

This is so true. I remember for like 5 months after we separated I would just mentally tell her about my day. We were so so close. I still don't think I ever recovered from that loss. Soon it'll be 2 years.

@JhoelyEncinas-ww7ym

34w↑8

Stop this made me cry 😭🤚

@flan_bouquet5711

34w↑11

So true, it's the feeling of wanting to vent but there's no one to talk to so it's just bottled up inside you..

@elektraneighbors9373

33w↑2

fr, fr I have no other friends. Well now no friends. (fun times, right?🙃)

@roblox_this1853

30w↑2

I was thinking this earlier it’s just sad

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@kiwinaur

3y↑8K

pov she told u ur always gonna be her fav person then becomes distant with u after getting new friends

@hikana

2y↑224

Yeah, this comment right here. ^ It hurts because you scroll through all the old conversations you had with her and can only wish that things had stayed like that forever.

@kiwinaur

2y↑17

@@hikana yea true but it is what it is.

@river9791

2y↑99

she changed, she wasn't like before. she got new online friends and she became distant to me, i feel like our 4 years friendship went to waste now.

@lovinhh

2y↑23

wow this is so relatable im crying

@maiii_xo7694

2y↑44

same it hurts so much and i feel like shes treating her new friend better than me. if yall are down i can make a gc on sc i need some new friends 😭

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@noemiecuvelette7245

3y↑10.2K

I’m grieving a friendship that hasn’t ended yet but we both know the connection is fading away…

@Neo-o

3y↑117

Same here

@kaylycan270

2y↑327

Feel that right now and I hate it so much. I tried saving it but as of today I now know there is no saving it unless she puts effort in.

@lalfamkimihmar02

2y↑19

Me too

@jennaker-fox101

2y↑128

Same here, I don’t even thinks she realises it, we are drifting apart all because of a boy
It hurts.

@bellaek4600

2y↑8

same :)

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@Lexi-xy9wf

51w↑192

the worst feeling is when you know the friendship is fading but you also know there is nothing you can do about it. The feeling of the bond becoming weak, the conversations becoming shorter and the messages becoming less consistent. There is nothing worse than the feeling of losing the person who stayed with you through so much, losing a best friend is way worse than losing a lover. losing your best friend with an "inseparable" bond is something I wish no one has to go through.<3

@urmom-ishot333

19w↑4

And I feel like it's all my fault.

@Fool_xxx

13w↑1

This is what I'm going through rn 👍

@booest_berry42

Going through this rn. She got a boyfriend, and now all her time is spent with him.

@-cami-3144

1y↑526

It hits different. It really does. Knowing that you were there for her. YOU listened to her rant about boys. YOU listened to her family issues.
YOU put on a fake voice and fake vocabulary.
YOU cared. Always did. Always will.

It will never change the fact that she never did any of this for me. And now, 4+ years of friendship gone because she found someone in 5 months.

It’ll never be me. Never was..

@yeji_hyun9854

42w↑19

My case is exactly like yours.. And you know what hurts??? She said that her new friend cared for her and treated her better than I ever did.... Even tho that friend wasn't the one that helped her heal, love herself, got her out of her suicidal phase, love her body, become confident and many other things.. It was me...

@shantycortes5925

41w↑5

Same, I was always there for her but she was never there for me. Now 3 years of friendship gone just because I had enough of her never being there for me and never asking me how I was. So ended our friendship because I was so physically, mentally, emotionally drained from keeping all my feelings to myself for 3 years but now she is saying that I said she wasn't good enough and that's why I ended our friendship and that is how i knew she really didn't know much about me because I would never say or think that . She is an amazing person but our friendship was never meant to be. Wish you the best of luck, ex best friend

@Amelia-ux3zn

41w↑1

I have never related to a comment more

@straykiss_woo

35w

I feel you, I was the one who put in the effort in our friendship while she threw it away like it was nothing. It's strange because I listened to her rant and be angry about her bff of seven years stopped talking to her but still tried to mend the friendship. I wish she tried with me.

@goose-0755

32w↑1

I dont think ive related to a complete stranger more.

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@izzy5820

2y↑2.4K

Pov: ur sitting down listening to this playlist thinking about how much things have chnaged

@harukoshi6484

2y↑7

fax

@lunalol5349

2y↑26

Laying in bed at night listening to this and crying while arguing once again with your once best friend

@staceeyjc

same here

@skylar2272

2y↑7

hits hard bro stay strong <3

@coleeneya3596

For real

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@dinomite9882

2y↑3.1K

This hurts especially when you know that after they left you, you have no one to go to.

@poppystar960

2y↑65

Dang this didn’t hit close to home, this hit home.

@Lizamarie__

2y↑34

BROOO THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT AM GOING THROUGH WTF

@oliviaball4482

2y↑3

@johngraves8526

2y↑9

I just lost my best friend since we were four through text.

@985_sonic

2y↑10

wth why do i feel called out

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@nicoluniverse4731

1y↑273

pov: you grew up and saw how flawed are your friendships, realizing, you’re basically alone 🎉

@sharonsaji6539

32w

damn..i can relate to that

@jordanfry5493

28w

I never had meny friends but I still relate

@laraziegler3995

1y↑162

She found people that are better than me…
I gave her everything I could.

@urlocaldemogorgon7735

37w↑1

I'm so sorry for you

@ItsZorixx

34w

Same..

@---jn9kp

2y↑412

hits different when you don't really have anyone to call a bestfriend anymore.

@amywhitehead1430

1y↑4

this.

@gioggiii__

@yuromii

1y↑11

when your getting replaced more and more each day and their both starting to talk shit about you.

@1k.maanii

Honest

@zahrxh_

49w

reallll

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@lailanihuertas9584

2y↑2.4K

pov: you're friendship already fade away but you still miss her.

@brittanyjohnson7157

2y↑15

It hurts

@emma3853

2y↑6

yeah.

@classyvxbe

2y↑7

Hurts so bad

@Kurrio

2y↑7

I am at class and this hurts me...why did I ignore them...if I did not then this would not happen...😔

@miloexogiantrabbit365

2y↑6

And i miss the moments not the people

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@biggesttatertolive

22w↑34

"You don't lose friends because real friends can never be lost. You lose people masquerading as friends and you're better for it."

@emeza7919

34w↑44

If your best friend of 7 years chose people who they only knew for a week over you clap your hands 👏👏

@Gyuu-ly6dt

34w↑3

👏

@Gacha._peach._

22w↑1

9*
👏🏼👏🏼

@iwannago-home

16w↑1

👏

@abbymay2009

2y↑3.4K

I don’t miss her as a person, but the inside jokes, the laughing in my kitchen at 3 AM, the two bestfriends that nobody thought would separate reputation.

@ryannagonzalez9536

2y↑45

THIS THISSSS is factssss

@alexandrahamilton9147

2y↑63

Yeah! You miss the person you were when you were with them...I feel that :(

@Tanyabirkely

2y↑69

Literally same. I don’t and won’t ever miss how she would treat me sometimes, but it’s the small amazing things.
The times we were good. I miss that.

@Abbylovesdt

2y↑7

This hit hard knowing me and my ex bestfriend haven’t had a inside joke in years

@sadielatham9409

2y↑7

me too girl i miss her so much and will forever cherish our friendship and those memerories

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@blackyx1693

2y↑4.3K

Pov : your starting to realize that growing into an adult is the most horrible thing you could even experience

@abbymay2009

2y↑101

It’s true. Your parents just begin to hate you, you can’t control your emotions. All your friends get mad at you because you mess everything up, and nobody at this point cares.

@jibletjiblet2265

2y↑36

something so horrible.. yet we've waiting to be an adult our whole childhood.

@x0frnk

2y↑48

it absolutely is, i graduated HS almost a year ago and ive almost finished my first year of college. its so hard, school is all we've ever known how to do and now we have to get jobs to pay for college, pay for gas, pay for car insurance, for food, basically just needing money period. its so hard to balance a job, school, and still have time for a social life or even just self care. Ive been in a rough place lately, trying to figure this all out. for the past few months, i feel like a chicken without a head; just mindless. I don't have time to think because I have to force myself to sleep because if I don't, I can't function correctly the next day. its just a lot on my plate. a lot on a whole lot of others' plates too. thank you for making me feel seen, and thanks to everyone else who will read this and know that you're not alone and we are all going to be okay. I heard it somewhere; someone asked how we will know when we are ready for adulthood; and the answer was: we don't. but somehow, in some way, we just are. we will figure this out. together <3

@blackyx1693

2y↑7

@@x0frnk

Beautiful

Thank you for sharing those words with us

Good luck, and love to you, you struggling-but-making-something human ❤

@noneyabusiness3239

2y↑10

you really went for the throat and just snitched on me in front of thousands of people

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@sam-xn1ct

24w↑11

pov: your friendship ended years ago but you still grieve them everyday

@sad_sapphic_

1y↑28

the worst thing is when neither of you even did anything remotely *bad*, its just that you're both growing up and maturing and drifting apart as you realise that just because you've been best friends since you were little kids doesn't mean you're going to be friends forever.
its when you realise you never have anything to talk about anymore
its when you find yourself not being able to pick up the phone when they call, or noticing that you both take days to message each other back
its when all the plans you made together don't really make sense anymore
and it f*cking hurts :(

@Average-Cholo_

1y↑2.5K

"Hurting someone's feelings is as easy as throwing a rock in the ocean, but do you know how deep that rock goes?"

@andiswazondi1458

1y↑28

I felt this😔😞

@Autumnsnoopy

1y↑5

Real

@idontexist745

52w↑7

I’m about to cry this is beautiful

@IkurreadingThis

42w↑6

Dam that's a good one negl

@urfav_desss

37w↑6

woah dude.

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@mvp9

3y↑6.9K

i was crying like a dumbass but then i looked at my phone screen and that Tyler pic made me crack up lmfao ☠

@peachhh18

3y↑114

it was meant to be XD

@lus_kai

2y↑26

ikr lmaooo

@toorikie

2y↑14

LMAO

@trinity4326

2y↑29

ong same. i started crying laughing😭

@vergilsonofsparda3577

2y↑26

that comment made me laugh so much that l started crying of joy

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@moriahbri11

1y↑17

pov: u struggle with separation and attachment issues but you are treated like a doormat but you have nobody else to be your friend so you just deal with it bc atleast you have someone.

@Kennadiellis_

1y↑25

I cried all the way through this , thinking about your childhood best friend during this hits really really really hard

@karinagarcia8362

2y↑2.1K

pov: you guys were perfect for each other but the distance won

@favourp

2y↑64

this is my exact situation and it sucks

@gracemitchell5086

2y↑5

ong

@Ririmuru--

2y↑6

This hit me

@camila.c

2y↑3

@arkani_

2y↑5

yup..thats right :)

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@chosolover69

2y↑3.5K

i think i value my "friends" more than they value me

@sophie-ox8uz

2y↑122

i feel like all my friendships are one sided. im so sorry for how your feeling but your not alone.

@BlanksandDust

2y↑23

The only reason I don't tell her my feelings is bc she got anxiety

@call9911

2y↑7

this hits home real hard

@JustAnIdiot

2y↑25

i feel the same
i get too clingy.

@SS-qi8wi

2y↑7

That’s how I feel. Actually, I have proof :/

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@Daisyfluffinq

1y↑76

To everyone who is reading the comments, thinking about that one person, or even multiple people:

Friends come and go, it's a sad part of life, but with every friend who left, every friend who didn't deserve you, or never appreciated your efforts, or never gave you the respect or attention you deserved or wanted, a new friend will come into your life that will make things better. Just remember that it's not your fault; people drift, people leave. You'll always have those memories with them for the rest of your life, even if they're not physically there.
Take care of yourselves, let yourself grieve your friend, but always remember that you are loved and will continue to be loved, even if it doesn't always feel that way.

@icielol9801

45w↑4

new friends never come into my life. they’re always just temporary and never care about me.

@Aiv81

1y↑19

My best friend has started to avoiding me, and thats not the worst. I actually have confronted her about it, but she just said, no, everything is fine, what do you mean, I thought we were friends? It just hurts so much that she does'nt even want to admit that she want to leave me. I can see it in everything. She is with another person much more than me, and I can just see how much more she loves that person than she ever loved me. And that hurts like hell.

@Unknown-zq3qr

2y↑2.3K

seeing your bestfriend making other friends and slowly forgetting you hurts affff it hurts so so much... that one promise we made of never leaving each other is just fading away

@tsvreiya

1y↑36

this is what im experiencing 😭

@dorottya_szabo

1y↑56

It's just feel so fucking bad and she doesn't even realize it. And the most hurting thing is that I can't talk to anyone about it and I just keeping the shitty things in myself...

@1k.maanii

1y↑16

no bc my best friend blames it on me saying im possessive but if i want to talk to him i need to start the conversation and we r always mad at each other and he always gives me half-assed dry messages and i was there for him when he was considered an outcast its completely unfair as he ignores me even tho he tells me he loves me he acts as though he doesnt need me at this point which hurts

@cassidynaidoo3872

1y↑1

This...

@gracethecrazykitty

That's what happened to me even know I new her for 5 years

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@tbhh.ak555

2y↑534

POV: u have attachment issues and u just lost ur only friend, who just happened to go through everything with u, always there for u, and grew up with u.

@PGOuma

1y↑1

Felt

@glair7128

1y↑1

Yep

@HutaoMc

1y↑1

mhm.. but i got a new one

@vuca5480

it's so damn tough

@a-girls-thoughts

hit hard man

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@JellyfishVera

1y↑14

The way I cried so much when I finally let her go😭 but with that release came a huge wave of relief. I got to talk to her again and we both agreed that we probably will never be as close as we used too but it was nice while it lasted.

@Saturnsringz179

32w↑9

VENT!

I always have to make the first move. I always care the most, and no matter how obvious i make it. They choose ignore if im feeling down. I care for them so much. Im always there for them. I always notice. But everyone else is blind when it comes to me. Especially them.

@juicewrld8496

2y↑826

Pov: You as a kid were used to not really having real friends but in your early teenage years you had a taste of it, To only just after be completely left alone and drowning again.. lol.

@felix.mp3639

2y↑10

Damn

@bangtanbutterflies5092

2y↑14

This is kind of what I think I’m going though right now.. 🫤

@shimmerixx4612

2y↑6

Fr lol 🥲

@firemangan5024

2y↑5

@thedoomslayer6214

2y↑7

Same bro as a kid I had No friends but after I became a teen I had the two best bros I could ask for it’s been a few years, starting college and I’m back to square one Alone...

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@eden4025

3y↑3.3K

Well at this point we should just remove the "pov" part because its not a pov anymore :D

@rvmity_

3y↑268

straight pain :(

@abby_kadabby2926

3y↑50

bro same. we should be friends

@Martupc

2y↑46

Tantos idiomas, y decidiste hablar en el idioma de la verdad

@Parazo.

2y↑4

@@Martupc nacho taco chimichanga

@lluuvaa4041

2y↑21

@@Parazo. unfunny

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@anastasiakawai5834

1y↑12

Playlist is a masterpiece
sadness, abandonment, loneliness.

@sUnoostary._

42w↑6

Seeing your bestfriend having fun and laughing with her other friends..then u started overthinking that she might forget u and u might gonna lose her forever.. That feeling is just.... Yk...

@brayan1621

41w

I feel that bro, ever since my friend got a gf he kind of just put me to the side, it is what it is tho

@lumberlambs9086

2y↑502

Hits hard asf when you realize everyone is forgetting about you and your freinds are disconnecting.

@angelshookt2452

2y↑774

I really feel like I don't have a bestfriend that I can call my own. Its like everyone has that favorite friend and I feel like I'm just an option, like the one they will only run to when their favorites are not available. It hurts.

@Abbylovesdt

2y↑22

I feel the exact same way, my ex bestfriend called me her bestfriend yet I wasn’t

@h0ney192

2y↑1

True 😌

@m.eiiflms

2y↑4

YES. THIS.

@hunnydose

2y↑7

exactly how I feel right now, damn.

@bunnykookie8275

I completely understand how you feel really it happens to ever friendship

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@LostDreamer54

41w↑12

We've been the bestest friends for 8+ years and I've always imagined how we'll live together when we grow up. She teached me 45% of the basic/daily life stuff I know right now (how to tie my shoes, how to play roblox for the first time, how to swim, how to make pancakes, how to hold and take care of cats,etc.). I remember when I had to change schools, houses and countries, she was so freaking sad and crying. She always forgave me and her personality was sweeter than sugar that whenever someone broke my heart and changed, I'd think "at least i have you, you're too sweet to change like everyone else did". She was the most friend i travelled with. She was the first friend I actually hung out with. Her mother was also my mother ever since my mom passed away. She even wrote more than 100 pages talking about how much she loved me. She was tue first person I added to my contacts and it was coincidence. She had all the time for me and only me. She had the most beautiful laugh and smile. She was always on my side. She would fight with other people because she never wanted to loose me. I ruined everything. I was so stupid and I wish I disappeared back then before thinking of hurting her. I thought I was the one hurting but now I know that SHE was the one hurting all this time. I let my trust issues get over me and I ruined her trust for me.I suck. I changed her. I know that now she's now without me, with friends who know how not to do the same mistakes as me. I bet she started forgetting about me.Why am i such a monster.

Good for her❤

@strawberry._.cake67

48w↑11

The friendship that would never end because of all the inside jokes, the weekends spent together, the gossip that was spilled, the friend groups we concured together, the random burst of laughter whenever eye contact was made, the crushes we told each other about, the moments when we had to comfort one and other if one was sad, the times we went on vacation together, the late night hour long calls, the calls during online schooling, the times we would hang out during the day when we were in online school, the immedient looks at each other if something was off or funny, the amount of years we've been friends, and so much more, is ending because of a new friend group ones in, because one reaches out and the other doesn't, because the other is head over heals for a boy, because one is tired of of the fact that this has been going on for years, because one lies, so does the other one, because one has changed too much for the other one to handle, because one is jealous all the time, because one gets annoyed easily, because one is just done and knows its time to move on and start something new without the other one in it.

@poisonivy9148

2y↑920

" used to stick together, your my bestfriend i'll love you forever" hits hard

@id10cyy

2y↑8

i know this is a long time ago but still, they went to a different high school. sucks bc i still miss them

@poisonivy9148

2y↑2

@@id10cyy um what

@wika1522

2y↑2

@@poisonivy9148 LMAO THEIR COMMENT

@iiamhevv

2y↑8

"we should stick together, your my bsf ill love you forever" - those are the lyrics

@oliviaheenan198

2y↑2

defo i go on the yard at school and have nobody to go to nobody understands everyone hates me for some reason and i’m really struggling and it’s really upsetting me atm

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@cristinaporceddu6367

2y↑533

god it's embarassing how i miss them so much and they don't even seem to miss me a little bit. we were such a great group, how did we end up like this?

@fatmaalqallaf4975

1y↑9

felt

@Eda-ct8nf

1y↑8

I feel you believe me. We're same

@shirleyneustein5186

1y↑6

i can assure you they miss you

@aymaneguellil5694

1y↑4

Same sis 😢

@Icekingsleftfoot

1y↑2

Same

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@mssstr

1y↑12

im in a friend group of 4, we used to be a trio but we decided to add one more in because of how friendly and wholesome she was. she changed, alot. we dont argue alot, but when we do its usually because of her relationships. when shes single, shes always with us and everything is happy but when shes with her boyfriends, she treats us like a backup. the three of us have tried talking to her about how we felt but she always made it about her, saying how we're hurting her feelings and how we dont understand her. we all have been together since 3th grade and it hurts knowing that we have to choose between losing a friendship that lasted for so long, or gossiping behind her back because we cant say want to her without feeling like bad friends. :/ sometimes i wonder why we decided to be friends with her.. oh and shes the "rich and pretty one" whenever someone from our school talks to the three of us, its usually "wheres *your friend*?" because we are basically irrelevant compared to her. im sick and tired of being in her shadow but i care so much about her. she used us so many times but we disregarded it because she was our "friend" her current relationship is going to shit so maybe everything will be back to normal :). ty for reading my rant lol, growin' up is hard huh?

@lakerviews

1y↑9

i’m here today because one of my friends i had met this year and become VERY close with, had just told our small friend group of 5 that she not only had cancer, but it had come back. One of my other friends in that group that i met at the same time as her, had already moved a couple hours away. she won’t be at school for at least 2 years and will be in and out of the hospital. it pains me to know she had kept that a secret and i wasn’t able to hug her goodbye. i will miss her very much. nothing will be the same.

@cloudyday2049

2y↑938

Sometimes i wish i could turn back time to the good times of our friendship..

@gissellegggarcia4543

2y↑4

Me too

@staceeyjc

2y↑4

me too.

@LeaxEditz

2y↑2

Same..

@BlueHairedLegoGuy

1y↑2

Yeah.. :)

@MuichirosWife

Same since it's probably my fault.

@HateLoveObsession

2y↑483

It's both comforting yet sad to see how many people have listened to this playlist

@ximena1989

2y↑4

@simplydarkwhite3487

2y↑3

Right, it's nice knowing I'm not alone. But horrible knowing I'm not the only one who has to and has gone through this.

@diichenns

1y↑8

Not even sure if my bestfriends never understood me or if I am the BAD friend. But this hurts more than anything!! I'm laughing, doing life, all okay but everything's wrong when no one is around and every once in a while something aches in my heart, I realize how I can't share about what's happening in my life with the person I want to talk the most to... we are in contact but they aren't interested anymore... I can't blame no one but myself over and over again...

@monchadoka9762

1y↑8

The fact I always come back to this playlist like bruh so good been listening to this for a year now bruh

@daves.5117

3y↑2.9K

I lost her to someone she met not even 24 hours earlier. I went from being her best friend of six years to someone she simply knew, in a day

@renn9719

2y↑94

I’m so sorry that happened to you, she didn’t deserve you. I went through a very horrible friendship breakup of six years. I promise you will feel better. It’s going to take time but just let it be. You will meet new people too who will be loving & caring. Just let time do it’s thing. 💕

@HateLoveObsession

2y↑57

Went through the same, the typical introvert friend that wasn't enough for him, so he latched onto the first person that be met that willingly went to parties with him, didn't even say hi bc he was too busy hanging out with his new friend

@seudflyer

2y↑18

I went through the same thing; you are not alone! I know it sucks, it feels like your heart has shattered, and will never be put back together again but I promise you it gets better. Hang in there <3

@poji5126

2y↑18

@@seudflyer she left me for another best friend , guess what ? That best friend was my bully
I didn’t tell her that I just told her that I don’t get along with her but still , now it’s one month that she replaced with my childhood bully
That hurts man

@poji5126

2y↑7

6 years of true friendship ending up her choosing my bully over me

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@pikashuuu

2y↑733

It starts as strangers, then friends, then best friends, then friends, then strangers again. The circle of friendship 💔

@user-ix8hi4xu2c

28w↑4

frfr

@n4liiinn_

20w↑1

Fr.

@starlightplaysminecraft9743

19w

True

@lazergoat8855

1y↑6

Someone I called a close friend told me to put this as my photo for them in my phone. How fitting that I find this the week she stoped talking to me completely. This playlist hits different now, thanks for the vibes.

@Laufeyfan_2

37w↑8

The first song on the playlist is the urge to want to keep that friend and keep trying> The urge to hold onto them no matter how hard you pull away.
The last song, is the acceptance. Finally letting the leash go. letting the last sting of the wire disconnect. You know it's not meant to be, you truly wanted it to be. You are now strangers, but, at least you can look back on everything and see how fun it was... while time lasted. 💗💗

@kioshii7592

2y↑675

Can someone please tell me that I'm not the only one who faked my emotions and expressions just for them to stay happy

@cupcake7419

2y↑23

you’re not alone :) (man i remember that i was crying because of them and we were texting in that moment. I was acting like i’m happy 🙂. I hate that feeling. It feels like i’m all alone.

@Shuuporangparanglinos

2y↑6

Same...my bestie was the only person I felt I can share my emotions and who cared about me but I got really really busy with the school stuff and exams, me and my bestie haven't talked much due to that but when I was really really stressed needing to talk about my emotions at my she was with all her other friends having fun completely forgetting about my existence saying she cares and when I tried to tell her my emotions she said I was just being petty, now I had to just play it off as I was joking....
Now I lost my only friend 👍🏻

@Your_favolivia

2y↑2

I thought I was the only one I’m sobbing helping the when there down being goofy but when they see it in be they just stare and act like I want attention 😢🥹😖

@Your_favolivia

2y↑1

But I still don’t stop making them happy even if I’m so ready to end myself 🫤

@cupcake7419

2y↑2

@@Shuuporangparanglinos ow… i’m sorry :(

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@damien1728

2y↑312

POV: your trio of friends you built is starting to turn into a dynamic duo. Leaving you out. Letting you cry. When you would do anything for them. They left you.

@aminauzdenova9316

1y↑9

legit sobbing because i have this issue rn:

@ninii2

1y↑1

😪😪

@h_aa9468

1y↑1

What I’m going through😅

@Aiv81

1y↑5

Yeah, bro. Trios never works unfortunately 🥲

@yaer.ii__

1y↑4

they left me out but im still with them 😶

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@Beanie2009

1y↑3

I'm always clingy with my friends because I can't bear to lose them because other than my family they are the only people that keep my sanity intact , the only people who care about me, the last glimpses of hope in a world that hates me. every day leaves me feeling broken, intrusive thoughts , stress , getting bullied , no relationships but when I see my friends they put a smile on my face. once when I was having a mental breakdown in which I was bashing on myself and blaming my self for being weird and telling myself I'm the reason I drive people away my friend Max told me something I never knew about Him , He said that because I am the way I am He sticks by me , my weird sense of humor and everything , if I wasn't who I am I would TRULY be alone and it made me cheer up.

@jennifertierra1283

51w↑4

"Do not promise me that you will never leave.. just promise me that you will tell me!"

@leahmasson6674

1y↑1K

pov: you're friendship already fade away but you still miss them and you will do anything to get them back even through they wouldn't be the same as you first met them again.

@loafyum

1y↑10

THIS❤️‍🩹

@Charlotte_Shorts

1y↑5

nah bc fr

@babis6919

1y↑15

That hurt me so fucking much..

@StrayBerrySang

1y↑2

@your_angel99

38w↑2

Describing me why im writing this

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@47uch46

2y↑344

it hits harder when you realize that everyone who gets to know you doesn't want you anymore

@YTvardA

1y↑10

So true.I was friends with so many people at least that’s what I thought 😔😭

@TerrenceTheolderbrother

1y↑11

If I'm being honest, I don't think anyone has ever cared about me

@moka9711

47w↑7

Bro this hits me hard. My ex and now one month later, my best friend. Bro I can’t do this anymore. She looks happy but acts with apathy and indifference around me. I can’t, I can’t. This makes me feel like a tickling in my hands, like wounds in my palms. This is the worst feeling, worst than a breakup

@TCM_Official

45w

@@moka9711 I’m confused, do you like her? I have gotten back with my ex (who cheated on me) and she’s been my longest relationship yet, I don’t judge on peoples past, just their present

@creebotthegreat4159

42w↑1

@@TerrenceTheolderbrotherWell now i do, brother 💪🙏

@draculorac

52w↑3

this year has told me things can never truly last forever.

@Frazlebyte

35w↑3

Me not being able to make friends easily and having a hard time being social from the anxiety I try to work on in therapy.. this really hits my heart. The rare times I meet someone who is genuinely interested in the person I am, it's really surprising and emotional for me, but I try not to set my expectations high anymore. As they easily start to make friends who are way extroverted than me, more interesting and active in what they do, I begin to be forgotten about. Forgotten to the point where they ask me "who are you again" or "this is awkward, why did I friend you?". Even when I try to put effort in trying to hang with them when I can, it hurts every time this happens to me and the emotional experience doesn't get any better. Being forgotten, man... I feel like that's gonna be me more and more as the days pass by with no positive results and the feeling of it doesn't get any better.

@kayleigh6819

2y↑1.5K

very sad that "are we still friends?" isnt in here but otherwise great playlist

@a-toom8077

2y↑71

WAS JUST AB TO SAY THE SAME I thought it was a given with Tyler on the cover but whateva 😔

@tefi619

2y↑6

no cuz literally

@holay_molay_7

2y↑14

i was hoping drift away from steven universe would be in here lmao

@rxtchity

2y↑2

I love the playlist, but I was also hoping "I Miss My Friends" would be in here.

@arsonbenavidez3283

2y↑2.7K

pov: literally all your friends are drifting apart and you are hurt but you feel comfy alone but it still hurts

i cant reply to everyone so im going to like your comment and hope you see this edit
i hate those omg im famous things but this is my extra account and i loged back in and did not expect this. i hope all of you are able to find the happines you all deserve and i wish you the best in life cause the best is what you deserve.
also these are some relatable replies were like soul mates
french revolution (fr)

@Antisocial_Metalhead777

2y↑62

i wish my parents understood this so they would stop asking me if i was ok and i'd reply yes because it was so much easier to pretend to be fine than explain what was wrong and get scolded for being "too sensitive".

@jumpno7526

2y↑8

this

@kincsokeszi2707

2y↑11

omg, yesss, thank you for saying out what I couldn't

@nisargapoudel7985

2y↑5

yesss exactly this

@mcuobsession

2y↑6

not much of a pov anymore, more like the same struggle for 7 years

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@shrutikamore447

24w↑3

I clicked this playlist once just for fun. But now that it has happened with me, I know how it feels.

@MarissaSmith-lw4ci

1y↑4

Never realized when the end in the friendship i had would actually end.

@sadelfgaming4165

2y↑76

POV: You are drifting away from your best friends because they're happier without you.

@octoberwright8015

2y↑544

I feel like I’m nobody’s best friend, I’m always the last one to be picked, the one who’s always left out so they get used to doing group projects by themselves and the teachers don’t even say anything because they just… know. I hate feeling different

@sofyyaxx9896

1y↑22

I feel you..I don’t fit in anywhere and I got used lol, just no longer care

@incandescentglow222

1y↑13

ik what you mean, its a horrible feeling

@Lilyqx

1y↑8

LITERALLY IT SUCKS

@Don.M113

1y↑5

You will find somebody that you can feel comfortable enough to tell about all the hard times and they will care and appreciate you

@PGOuma

1y↑3

I don't have any best friends anymore

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@jamijam8710

40w↑4

you know what hurts the most? leaving that one girl who you see as your sister, bestfriend, listener and comfort person..
seeing her everyday made me smile, even if i'm at my lowest times.
she didn't left me, i left her..
you know why? she did something that i couldn't bring myself to forgive her..
she helped a random group of friends to spread rumors about me out of disgust..
y'know what made her disguted by me? she was disgusted because i accidentally liked her sister..
it hurts when i left her, but i knew it's the best for both of us..

@a.k.u.m.o

34w↑3

Our mothers were best friends since childhood. We knew each other since we were born. She was way more that just a best friend. She was my sister from another mother. We talked every single day and I helped her in very difficult times in her life. Her parents divorce, bullying in school, pressure with school, you name it I was always there to cheer her up and lift her up. I loved her more than anything. Then when I was 15 I started liking a boy from my school. We quickly became friends but I had a crush on him. My best friend was always happy to listen to me talking about him and we fangirled about how much we suit each other. A year later I finally got with the boy and we became a couple. She was the first person I told. All my other friends who I had known way less than her were incredibly happy. Her only responce was "oh wow. Good" I thought that mayde it was a bad time but it wasn't. After that she started drifting apart from me. I never understood why but she seemed jealous of me. She even went as far as to try to steal my high school best friend away from me just to hurt me. We drifted so much apart that from the closest person to me, the person I could confide my darkest secrets to, she became a stranger. We never talked it out and it still hurts years later. We both moved on with our lives and I surrounded my self with ppl who love me but I still miss that special connection we shared. I still see her and we sometimes talk but it's never gonna be the same and it hurts </3

@julissa8402

2y↑554

Pov: the amazing trio is slowly turning into just a dynamic duo 🙁

@breadlover9695

2y↑39

Trio Duo solo.

@julissa8402

2y↑2

@@breadlover9695 fr

@Ifuu2003

2y↑7

That was so on point!!!....

@ririreenu

2y↑3

@@Ifuu2003 frrrr🙁

@Megan-eh5on

2y↑13

Just out they were talking shit about me and now tjink its funny that i have no other friends.👍 trios never work out

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@sunny.bokkie

1y↑725

"Didn't they hurt you though?"
The way the two of them made me smile every time I saw them.

@Hawk-dg9zs

45w↑9

Felt that

@idkwhattoputherebye

33w↑7

Bro hurts-

@Yo_miojo

24w

NOSSA Q ODIO SMT PRA VC
DOEU AGR 😭😭😭😭😭😭

@catekennedyughbi1140

22w↑4

It hurts so bad when you need them the most and you are mad at them

@shhhyourtooloud257

21w↑2

man.. it hurts even more when you see them smiling even without you

@rosielovesflowersflower1156

1y↑4

My first friendship breakup happened Wednesday of this month. It hurts so much, she told me that doesn't want to be friends anymore while I was on a call with my girlfriend. It was so hard trying not to cry in front of her. I just pretend like I didn't care but I do. I haven't let myself grief properly and it's affecting me badly, so I looked up the saddest playlist I could find and here I am. I'm probably going to be staying here for a while.

@to_good_for_you_lex

12w↑3

It really hurts when they been with you for 10 plus years and they just say that your a problem for them that you make them cry every night that your hurting and lying to them when really its the other way around and they started leaving you out and blaming you for there actions.

@dreavilla2943

2y↑488

POV: she said she will be your friend forever but meets somebody “more interesting” and leaves you.

@fei9685

2y↑8

exactly what happened to me

@loser9119

2y↑3

yeah it happened with my 5th grade best friend on 8th grade she became friends with other girls and I became bestfriends with some other girl online but we dont talk like we used she used to send me videos of her singing or playing the piano she is really good at playing that but now most of the time she only talk to me when she either have problems with some boy or she needs help or if she sad

@loser9119

2y↑3

or if she is talking about her other boy bestfriend that she has and on discord she invite me to a group of friends or cousin or just some people that she just meet and that group she made it she used to always roleplay and she needed someone she told me but I left her on read because I didnt see that message i was dealing with my problems I was having but when I saw it I told her yes but she told me she already had someone but she still invite me to that group but slowly we stop talking we she keep meeting other people on that group and now she keep talking about her having drama with her cousin or other bestfriends or how she hates a boy on discord(sorry for spelling that much)

@peaachxs3752

2y↑1

fr and the new person isn't even interesting i used to be friends with them and they were so BORINGG

@Brand_Was_Taken

Haha yeah

@IramAli3132

2y↑1.8K

I remember when I used to joke with my best friend about her getting a boyfriend and leaving me, yeh I guess it’s not a joke anymore

@hopeworld132

2y↑68

yeah and for me the worst part is that I actually tried to salvage the friendship. like it old her that I felt like she was ignoring me and how I wanted my best friend back and she apologized but there was no point. there's no way to fix the friendship and I hate that I showed my weakness by telling her that I felt abandoned. now she feels like she has to talk to me and she's changed so much that it's boring being with her. so I know the friendship is ending but I can't help but wishing that I never confronted her in the first place. sorry for my rant bro just had to get that out there.

@hellofrogs6323

2y↑20

@@hopeworld132 No, don't feel like that. You were being honest. I did that when I was dating someone and when I realized I was ignoring my friends I realized that I loved them more than the guy. I feel like friendships are always secondary sometimes. I hope you know you did the right thing. If she's only hanging out with you because she feels obligated to then that's not a sign of a good friend

@EnbyAnnoyance

2y↑7

Same here, I thought we would still be in contact but, things just aren't the same anymore. Him and I don't talk anymore.

@anaheartsmimi

2y↑6

dang, I felt that on so many levels:,)

@julieharden4944

2y↑5

yea and it freaking sucks and i wish she could understand that especially now that i need her more than ever.

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@aleya3798

1y↑5

I still can't believe they replaced me...I was alway there for them giving them what I have but they used me..they don't even miss me they always left me out only noticing my existence when they need something.Things changed so much it hurts me just by thinking the times we all had the happy moments...the day they all turn a blind eye on me hitting me pulling my hair bullying me and smiling when they all see me cry alone and walked away I realized that.. it's time to leave that toxic group friend it hurts because my best friend was one of them leaving and going with them leaving me alone..it was painful but I'm glad I realise that they were just fake. Hahaha I guess 7 years is nothing to them..

@lanaramos310

49w↑3

i did take it all for granted. and now i'll probably never experience something like what we had before. jesus, i miss her so much.

@booest_berry42

2w↑1

I took it for granted. Thought I lost her and said I'd never take her for granted again...she's still here, but she's gone. And I once again took all of it for granted. It hurts, but I feel like I might be better off alone.

@2ev3n

3y↑454

your friendship is slowly drifting away cuz you always the one who says sorry and thought that is all your fault even thoung you did nothing

@2ev3n

3y↑3

or is just they are in love with you, confess but you don't feel the same way 🤷

@siddharthacharya5958

3y↑2

both happened to me its kinda sad

@maggy5882

2y↑1

My man described my life

@2ev3n

2y↑4

sending virtual hugs to those replies to my comment

@graveyard_giyuu

2y↑2

This is way too accurate.

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@question8146

2y↑391

Pov: you and ur friend were so close, but when they got into a relationship they started ignoring you but you can't let go cuz ur too attached

@xCoMiXx

2y↑9

We're now on the sidelines while they play out something that might not last, or will change them forever...

@karla2253

2y↑1

Real

@breannadewinter

2y↑2

Facts

@oRarest

@@xCoMiXx hurts

@yellowslug1631

I want to let go.

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@tnote7594

36w↑2

remembering the faces of my family when i left their country to go back to my own js makes me tear up so bad but still having a smile on my face remembering the theme parks, the smile's the laughs and jokes, the way they cared the way that they loved, just everything till the last hug. i got a scar before i left for my own country, the scarf was from my uncle he was just the coolest person ever. i wish i could do more with them, I JUST WISH I COULD BE BETTER AND I WILL GO BACK THERE AND I NEED TO SEE THEM ALL SMILE BEFORE I CAN GO BACK. my grandmas tears when i was going hit me so hard and so deep i js held in the tears until now and i realise its okay to cry over the smallest things aslong as u cry with all your heart and not take urself for granted. It doesnt always have to be ur fault. but you can always go back and fix it like they would want. my grandpa died holding my hand a couple of years ago ive been having to go through my friends suicides and i realised instead of looking for more and more friends its okay to only stay with your family or lovers. do what you love and dont let people judge what you do. I dont have more tears in my body after crying for 3 hours remembering all that happened and i miss my uncle, grandma, and i want my dad to be happy and i need this world to become a better place. that doesnt come alone. SO LETS ALL JUST SMILE TOGETHER THROUGH TOUGH SITUATIONS. IF THE DEAD WERE STILL HERE I KNOW THEY WOULD WANT YOU TO SMILE AND GET THROUGH THESE TOUGH SITUATIONS.

@lojii9696

1y↑4

We used to be so close, like really close that people would think we're gay or something. Our friendship lasted for 7 years. After 2 years I couldn't hold it anymore. My new friendships don't feel like how it did when I'm with her, and I'm sure she feels the same way. I'm sure some nights pass where she would cry like I did, it's so obvious we want to get back together, but it's also obvious that it's too late. She made me know what true friendship is, what having a best friend is like. I miss our nights together I miss our stupid chats I miss when we played when one of us would come over to the other. I opened a box a few days ago, I found all the gift cards she gave me, only that moment I realized gifts are words not objects, I would only think what is the best thing I could get her, but she thought about words that would make me happy, but look now..I cried when I read them, all our promises, "we'll always be sisters forever" haha look where are we now. The way songs make me remember her even tho the songs are for lovers but they could go with friends too. I've decided to write her a letter, and tell her that I miss her so much, tell her that I'm so sorry.

@sestly8255

2y↑266

This made me burst into tears, ive been ignoring on how my friendship with this group is slowly dying, it hurts seeing someone u hanged out with sm slowly drift away, all those happy memories seem like they didn't matter.

@sophialloyd9177

2y↑11

fuck this comment made me cry

@hannahwilson5092

2y↑6

it gets to the point where your the only one who messages, makes an effort, a conversation. you know that if you didn’t they would never text you again.. but your scared to be alone. even though you already feel lonely, you don’t want your mum to think you actually are alone.

@kyrathefoxanimations

2y↑1

I know exactly how it feels

@classyvxbe

2y↑1

Hurts so bad to.

@ellinord6215

she told me to go back to my old friends, she wouldn’t care. but i don’t wanna go back to them

@3HE_

1y↑181

pov : the friendship that made you smile all the time but now makes your smile upside down.

@AUBREANACASE143

17w↑4

I realized that I was just her therapy bot, I was kind enough to listen to her talk about her family problems without complaining...she made me feel like were gonna last untill the world end but now it feels like we are going to end now or later. She talks to the other girl More now... it hurts because i knew her longer (8-9 years) i feel like it is time to let go but i can't because I'm stuck to her like glue and hurts ...if it was'nt for music and people WHO DIDN'T USE ME TO BE THERE THERAPY BOT I would probably kms if I'm being honest but knew i had to stay.. but its just like the quote ..."friends come n go".... ANYWAYS-, have a great year guys and stay safe make sure to be careful who you trust because you dont want make the mistake i made, i LOVE YOU GUYS..

@sky-se7qb

37w↑5

Hmm it kinda faded without no fights,no arguments, no more talks. We used to call each other almost every day when we were studying in college. Now she feels so distant that i dare not call her knowing i wouldn't even know how to talk to her. I miss her tho.
For her, i always felt you were gonna be my friend for this lifetime. Maybe not anymore.

@ariannap3536

2y↑157

i really hate me for self-sabotage my friendships.

@efi5584

2y↑15

same i fucking hate myself my life is worthless. i left for shitty reasons even though i was like only 12, i never recovered from that since they were my only friends especially this one best friend 'floofy' its been years i cant just fucking contact them out of nowhere. hope its not as bad for you as it is for me.

@ariannap3536

2y↑3

@@efi5584 unfortunately it's the same problem :/, hope u will get out of this💜

@danas5846

2y↑2

same man. hope you're doing a little better

@user-yq4ji5hp9l

2y↑283

POV: You introduced both your friend groups so u could all hang out but they don’t need u anymore and now you have nobody to turn to

@evaa2537

2y↑3

This ^^^

@smoothieisdreamingaboutyou2292

😌

@rattie1

2y↑1

Yeah..

@gl1ms3.34

this is exactly my situation rn

@Angel-vq6qt

2y↑4

Aw :( I just lost my friend because they think I'm annoying when I'm really trying to cope with the fact that my cat just died, I'm really struggling to get food, and everything is just going down hill for me and I have them gifts, help when they needed it but one of them just have up on me and since those 2 have been friends longer, the other one left me too and now I'm left with 1 friend who barely talks to me anymore since school is out. :((

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@iloveyou4eva

2w↑1

"The worst feeling isn't being lonely, its being forgotten by someone you could never forget."

@natb.o.1795

1y↑4

When I was little, I met this girl, I'll call her A. She was really shy and new in school, so the extrovert in me went to talk to her and we soon became best friends. We did everything together. School projects, assignments, activities. We were always at each other's house, playing and having fun. Some years ago, we started talking to this other girl, I'll call her D. She was already from our class, but her friendship group kicked her out because they said "4 people is too much". I started including D in our hangouts (with A's consent) and soon we became a "best-friend trio". I saw A grow and become less shy by talking to D, and in little time the 3 of us were inseparable. Or so I thought. A and D became really close, always going to each other's houses and doing everything together. School projects, assignments, activities. And I was there, left behind, but because I'm an extrovert, I started talking to other people so I wouldn't be alone at recess. When I brought up that they were kind of excluding me from the group, the basically blamed me, saying they thought I was separating myself by hanging out with other people. I said we should just try and get closer, and ir worked, for about 2 weeks. From then on I spent about a semester telling them the same thing, and they apologized and moved on. So I moved on too. I hung out with other people, and they had each other, no biggie, I just cried about it every night and blamed myself for everything. Almost 2 years ago I switched schools, distancing myself from them even further. But then, they switched to the same school as me, and we grew closer again because I was the only one they knew. I helped them get settled in, introduced them to everyone, helped them with the material. And we were doing great for a few months, always hanging out together, never leaving anyone behind. Until the second semester came in. Then it started. I noticed they always have to catch me up on things they did, on the calls they had, on the hangouts they went on. A has been to D'S house multiple times, I don't even know where she lives. Even when we do hang out the three of us, they are always taking selfies together, and making inside jokes I couldn't understand. They are always together, everyone agrees they are each other's other half. And I'm just there. To solve their problems and order food when they're to shy to talk to the waiter. I'm there to help them with homework and make sure they don't get hurt. If I could show you screenshots of our conversations you would see how they only talk to me for help. Not because they want to talk or be with me, but because they need me for their personal gain. I've thought about telling them, but I don't know how to. I know it sounds stupid, but I don't want them to be hurt. I thought we were different from the other friendship trios, the ones that always have someone who is more isolated than the other two, but I guess not.

@isla6807

2y↑302

The first song makes me uncontrollably sob. We always said we were gonna be best friends forever and now we talk once every two weeks, if that.

@narmin.shiraliyeva5601

2y↑3

🥺 i understand u

@brokepeopleshouldneverlaug1576

I relate to this so much, I'm so sorry I hope u feel better, I'm literally crying right now

@ziltriestoyoutube8356

2y↑542

these comments are heartbreaking :((
seeing how easily friends drfit away makes me tear up
I hope all of you get better friends soon, you deserve it, you poor souls

@mooonskiddo

2y↑2

i hope the better even for u buddy<33

@_renni_

2y↑3

It's true,my friend of 2 years decided to stab me in the back and twist the knife...all because of a game..

@kitt.sophiaq4887

2y↑2

I love you

@Qwerty-yu9mh

2y↑2

and then me who never had friends

@jule._.is._.boredd9896

thank you so much, kind internet stranger. I hope you have great friends in ur life :)

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@some_guy027

38w↑3

@Ileavecommentsonurvideo

5w↑3

11 years of friendship.. though we had fights at sometimes, we always made up.

@kampireimmaculate1809

2y↑111

Pov: she was never your bestfriend, it was always one sided... she just stuck around until she found someone else better... I'm happy for her

@thatssosofia7201

2y↑11

Don't be happy for her, that's messed up, you don't deserve to waste your energy on someone like her.

@rOxene0

2y↑1

This is way too relatable

@JeonJungkook-ec4nh

2y↑5

Not really she just ruined it so many times that you are now happy you lost it but sad cuz you're now all alone

@gl1ms3.34

2y↑2

this but i always get jealous because of her hanging around with someone else sometimes...

@nostopping7595

3y↑1.1K

It’s tough when this happens and you don’t know why although deep down you have so many possibilities as to why they chose to leave you

@maesmemories7402

2y↑17

Sometimes there’s no reason.. sometimes it just doesn’t work out. At least that’s what I think.

@krsmanjovanovic8607

2y↑13

Sometimes, its not people who are guilty, sometimes life itself just forces best friends apart, and I hate it for that

@tessajane2338

2y↑2

I'm so sorry that's what's happening to me right now I hope everything is better for you. :)

@thatrabbit09

2y↑4

@user-cg9mg3tl7y

39w↑3

pov: you're about to start high school and all your people move away while you're in the season where you really need your people. so now you're stuck in your own thoughts. and you try to reach out to them and they don't answer because they found new and better friends that aren't as needy as your sorry ass. and that one boy you really did fall in love with who was also your bsf hung out for the last time but you didn't know it was the last. so now you're in your room listening to this playlist and crying thinking about how scary it is to think about going back to school with no friends. especially after its been the hardest year of your life and you have to go back to school with the people who ruined your life after making that one mistake that no one will ever forget. and you look great on the outside. with a big smile and good attitude but on the inside you're screaming bc you wanna get out of this whole mess and you're constantly reminded you're all alone. sure people like you but that's just because they don't really know you and you've mastered the plastered smile. and then you get reminded of that one boy again and you reach out and talk and say you love each other and it makes you even more sad.

so pretty much what im saying is that... i really need a hug

@waffledeeez

1y↑2

Man. (Vent-ish)

Throughout last year and this year, the online friend group has been leaving one by one. I still remember the exact stupid tiktok live in 2020 where the group all came together. It was genuinely one of my happiest moments because this is the first actual friend group ive ever been part of but for some odd reason despite me knowing that this is most likely not my fault that they are drifting off, i still cant think that it isnt my fault. Now out of all of them, only like one other hasnt drifted away. I woulda never thought that much coulda changed in the matter of 3 years in a friend group that seemed stable for the most part.

@overgrownminds4603

2y↑149

She told me I was her favorite person. “Anything for you” “we ain’t gonna stop talking till we die 🤨” and then she just left

@fvndzzz

2y↑2

dam thats deep man :((

@Jxde0810

2y↑523

My friendship with her is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I've done everything, so just why can't it go back to the way it was.

@Medinq_14

2y↑16

Remember they lost you’re sweet heart, ur perfect smile, ur beautiful eyes, ur perfect personality and you don’t need anything else u just need to trust urself if u don’t then you’ll get nowhere only trust urself and no one else only you I love you and keep doing ur best! ❤️

@Jxde0810

2y↑5

@@Medinq_14 damn thank you so much. It’s ppl like you who just are so amazing <3.

@Medinq_14

2y↑2

@@Jxde0810 you’re so amazing aswel just keep pushing and you’ll get over it <3

@quit5638

2y↑3

@@Medinq_14 why did this make me cry 😭

@Medinq_14

@@quit5638 why ru crying 😭 ???

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@SamieSleepy

48w↑1

The worst feeling is watching all of your friends drift away from you. And know it's going to happen at some point with each person you meet, no matter how much history you have with them. They just leave and forget you.

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