Poem: How To Break A Heart
Emilie Autumn Lyrics


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How to break a heart
It is not difficult
Anyone can do it
So could you, if you tried
Just find a light
And switch it off
As easy as blinking
That's what I was taught
When I was too young to ask
By ladies in white nightgowns
In dripping weeds and black ribbons
A girl's best friend is a small handgun
The question was useless
For I could say yes




But you've got to ask my army
And they are not inclined to grant favours just now

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Emilie Autumn's song "Poem: How To Break a Heart" depict the idea of how to break someone's heart. According to the singer, breaking a heart is not at all difficult, and anyone can do it. It's a very simple process, just like turning off a light. It can be done in seconds without any significant effort. The lyrics further highlight that she has been taught this since she was a kid by the ladies in white nightgowns.


The lyrics suggest that the best weapon to break someone's heart is not a big gun, but a small handgun. The singer offers a metaphor for how easy it is to break someone's heart by saying that it's just like blinking. At the end of the song, she says that she cannot grant the favor because the army needs to be inquired, which serves as a metaphor for the complexity of the human heart, and how difficult it can be to break.


The song's lyrics characterize a very dark perspective on the concept of love and relationships. The lyrics make use of many metaphors to illustrate the singer's bleak outlook. Some of the metaphors refer to drowning in a lake or being dragged under by seaweed. There are also references to ghosts and people in nightgowns. The song reflects how others can manipulate someone's emotions, leading to the eventual breaking of their heart. The lyrics might be pointing towards manipulative people or individuals suffering from a personality disorder, and how easy it is for them to use someone's emotions for their own gratification.


Line by Line Meaning

How to break a heart
The act of breaking someone's heart


It is not difficult
Breaking a heart is easy and doesn't require much effort


Anyone can do it
Anyone is capable of breaking someone's heart


So could you, if you tried
If one attempts, they too can break someone's heart


Just find a light
Find the metaphorical light in someone's life


And switch it off
Turn off that light, leaving them in darkness


As easy as blinking
An effortless act, like blinking


That's what I was taught
She learned to do this at an early age


When I was too young to ask
She was young and didn't understand the gravity of the situation


By ladies in white nightgowns
She was taught by older women or authority figures


In dripping weeds and black ribbons
These women were dressed in mourning attire, implying they were teaching her how to break someone's heart


A girl's best friend is a small handgun
A metaphor showing how harmful breaking someone's heart can be


The question was useless
The singer believes that answering the question is futile


For I could say yes
The singer is capable of breaking hearts


But you've got to ask my army
The singer can't give permission to do so without their army's approval


And they are not inclined to grant favours just now
The artist's army won't readily consent to breaking someone's heart at this moment




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