An Ordinary Man
John Wesley Lyrics


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How easily forgotten
how easily replaced
your loved ones become...
We are the wreckage strewn behind you
love's own casualties
from the battle that you won

You could not wait
to fly your flag
you could not wait
to raise you man in victory

I know you hate
to be mistaken
for the woman
of just an ordinary man...
To be the lover
of an ordinary man

I'm down on my knees
I'm crawling across the floor to you
I'm holding out my hand
God I do not understand
why I'm down on my knees

Now I'm troubled by your silence
I'm troubled that you no longer dare
to lay with me under the night stars
or walk unhindered on your own two legs
you could not wait
to lose your new freedom
you could not wait
to carry your new chains
I know you hate
to keep him waiting
so you'd better
drag yourself back to him again

I wanna feel alive
I wanna feel awake
to make these night stars go away
I wanna feel alive
I wanna feel awake
I wanna feel anything and
everything
this world will let me taste

I wanna see you cry
I wanna see you break




I wanna see you crash into the walls
of your own infamy

Overall Meaning

The song "An Ordinary Man" by John Wesley talks about the pain of being replaced and forgotten in a relationship. The lyrics are deep and poignant, and they express the helplessness of being left behind by someone you love dearly. The opening lines talk about how easily we forget and replace loved ones, and how we become casualties of love, left behind by those who win the battle of love. The singer then bares his soul about the pain of being an ordinary man, who can't measure up to the expectations of his partner.


The chorus talks about the singer being down on his knees, crawling across the floor, and holding out his hand, but not understanding why he is being humiliated in this manner. The singer is troubled by the silence of his partner, and how she no longer wants to be with him or share moments with him. She could not wait to lose her freedom and carry the chains of her new relationship. The singer wants to feel alive, but he has been left heartbroken and shattered. He wants to see his partner cry, break, and crash into the walls of her infamy, to show her that he too has suffered the pain of rejection and loss.


Line by Line Meaning

How easily forgotten
It is easy to forget the ones you once loved


how easily replaced
It is easy to replace those you once loved


your loved ones become...
The people you once loved to become forgotten and replaced


We are the wreckage strewn behind you
We are the aftermath of your love, destroyed and scattered


love's own casualties
We are the victims of the love that caused this destruction


from the battle that you won
This destruction is the result of a love battle that you emerged victorious from


You could not wait to fly your flag
You were eager to show off your victory


you could not wait to raise your man in victory
You were eager to show off your man as the prize in your love battle victory


I know you hate to be mistaken for the woman of just an ordinary man...
You hate to be seen as just another woman with an ordinary man


To be the lover of an ordinary man
You do not want to be perceived as merely the lover of a common man


I'm down on my knees I'm crawling across the floor to you I'm holding out my hand God I do not understand why I'm down on my knees
I am begging for forgiveness from you, although I do not fully comprehend why I am doing this


Now I'm troubled by your silence
Your lack of communication is causing me distress


I'm troubled that you no longer dare to lay with me under the night stars or walk unhindered on your own two legs
I miss the intimate moments we used to share under the night sky and the casual walks we used to take


you could not wait to lose your new freedom
You were eager to give up your newfound freedom


you could not wait to carry your new chains
You were eager to take on new responsibilities and commitments


I know you hate to keep him waiting
You do not want to keep your man waiting


so you'd better drag yourself back to him again
You should go back to your man and do what is expected of you


I wanna feel alive I wanna feel awake to make these night stars go away I wanna feel alive I wanna feel awake I wanna feel anything and everything this world will let me taste
I am yearning for a sense of vitality and awareness, to experience all the world has to offer


I wanna see you cry I wanna see you break I wanna see you crash into the walls of your own infamy
I am filled with resentment and desire to witness your downfall




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Comments from YouTube:

Myriam Melly

It's very Beautiful !!! The voice and the lyrics... and the music too !!!
I love this voice... even if Steve Hogarth will remain the one I'll prefer EVER... even on back voice

Myriam Melly

It is very beautiful !!! The voice and the lyrics ... and the music too !!!
I love that voice ... although Steve Hogarth will always be my favorite...FOREVER ... even when he lends his voice to the back

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