1. Falling in love again
Marlene Dietrich Lyrics


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Falling in love again
Never wanted to
What am I to do?
I can't help it

Love's always been my game
Play it how I may
I was made that way
I can't help it

Men cluster to me like moths around a flame
And if their wings burn, I know I'm not to blame

Falling in love again
Never wanted to
What am I to do?
I can't help it

Men cluster to me like moths around a flame
And if their wings burn, I know I'm not to blame

Falling in love again
Never wanted to




What am I to do?
I can't help it

Overall Meaning

Marlene Dietrich's song "Falling in Love Again" is a tale of a woman who is resigned to the fact that she falls in love too easily, despite not trying to. The repeating chorus of "never wanted to, what am I to do? I can't help it" sets up the theme of the song. Through the rest of the lyrics, she acknowledges that love has always been her game, but that she can't help the effect she has on men who are drawn to her like moths to a flame. She accepts that she is not to blame for the men who get hurt because of their attraction to her.


The chorus is an expression of her exasperation at her own emotions, and her sense of inevitability that she will always fall in love again. The line "What am I to do?" is a rhetorical question, as she knows that she cannot change herself or her habits. The song speaks to the universal human experience of not being able to control our own emotions and impulses, even if we know that they will lead us to heartbreak.


Line by Line Meaning

Falling in love again
I find myself falling in love again, despite my reluctance.


Never wanted to
I never intended to fall in love again.


What am I to do?
I am at a loss as to what I should do about these feelings.


I can't help it
I have no control over my emotions and falling in love again.


Love's always been my game
Love has always been something that I enjoy and am familiar with.


Play it how I may
No matter how I approach love, I always seem to end up falling for someone.


I was made that way
My nature seems to be drawn to love and the feelings that come with it.


Men cluster to me like moths around a flame
Men are inexplicably drawn to me, regardless of my intentions or efforts to avoid them.


And if their wings burn, I know I'm not to blame
If the men who are drawn to me end up getting hurt or burned, it is not my fault, as they are the ones who choose to pursue me.




Lyrics © Peermusic Publishing
Written by: F. HOLLANDER, REG CONNELLY

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@mohamedalaa5431

Falling in love again
Never wanted to
What am I to do?
Can't help it

Love's always been my game
Play it how I may
I was made that way
Can't help it

Men cluster to me like moths around a flame
And if their wings burn, I know I'm not to blame

Falling in love again
Never wanted to
What am I to do?
Can't help it

Fallin' in love again
Never wanted to
What am I to do?
Can't help it



All comments from YouTube:

@cerrinoart

I remember years ago I was behind a beautiful, sophisticated and elegantly dressed woman in her forties travelling up a long escalator in the London Underground, her perfume was intoxicating, I hummed this tune, I couldn’t help it. At the top she turned around smiled and said “you have made my day” A brief encounter, a moment in time, then she was gone, but memories are made of this. Thank you Marlene.

@joeyhadley6244

was it Yootha Joyce ?

@afropaintshaman4713

Who was it?!

@conniefoster9733

cerrinoart Who was it? Was it anyone we'd know?

@mickeyhodge6078

cerrinoart Nice!

@josephbarclayross6216

Great story. How exciting to brush against an icon!

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@deemancrumpton6663

Been looking for this song for decades. Glad I finally found it.

@dnbaker721

Just heard this song on rerun of Northern Exposure -so googled it. Beautiful song-beautiful lady!

@jaykellett2327

Fun to go searching "back in time" and hear what people of past times liked. You stumble across some real gems.

@user-zz1ko4ud5r

Божественная женщина. Самая лучшая из лучших

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