05. Not Tonight
Tegan and Sara Lyrics


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Love pull your sore ribs in
I will pull your tangles out
In the back of your car I feel like
I have traveled nowhere
What will bring me home?
What will make me stay, stay?
What will bring me home?
What will make me stay, stay?
Well I don't know
I don't know, ooh
I don't know
I don't know, ooh
Everything in my body says not tonight
Everything in my body says no
Everything in my body says not tonight
Everything in my body says no
What will bring me home?
What will make me stay, stay?
What will bring me home?
What will make me stay, stay?
Well I don't know
I don't know, ooh




I don't know
I don't know, ooh

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Tegan and Sara's "Not Tonight" describe the internal struggle of someone who is torn between conflicting emotions about a relationship. The singer is asking for love and intimacy from their partner, represented by the metaphorical image of pulling "sore ribs" and "tangles" out, indicating a desire for emotional support and comfort. However, despite this need for connection, they still feel lost and uncertain about where they stand in the relationship.


The line "In the back of your car I feel like I have traveled nowhere" highlights the sense of stagnation and lack of progress in the relationship. The singer is looking for something to bring them home and make them stay, but they don't know what that is. The repetition of the phrase "I don't know" reveals the confusion and emotional turmoil of the singer.


Overall, the song captures a sense of being stuck in a state of uncertainty, and asking for assurance and connection from someone who may not be able to provide it. It's a painfully relatable experience that many people go through at some point in their lives.


Line by Line Meaning

Love pull your sore ribs in
I want you to feel safe and secure with me, and I will support you through any pain or hardship.


I will pull your tangles out
I will help you untangle your problems and find clarity in your thoughts.


In the back of your car I feel like / I have traveled nowhere
Despite being physically moved, I don't feel like I've made any progress or experienced anything new.


What will bring me home?
What will make me feel at peace and comfortable in my own skin?


What will make me stay, stay?
What will make me want to stick around and commit to something or someone?


Well I don't know / I don't know, ooh
I am uncertain and indecisive about what I want and what will fulfill me.


Everything in my body says not tonight / Everything in my body says no
My intuition is telling me that this is not the right time or situation for me, and I should trust my gut feeling.


What will bring me home?
What will make me feel at peace and comfortable in my own skin?


What will make me stay, stay?
What will make me want to stick around and commit to something or someone?


Well I don't know / I don't know, ooh
I am uncertain and indecisive about what I want and what will fulfill me.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Sara Keirsten Quin, Tegan Rain Quin

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